Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 16:14     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

I've noticed that SFO Bumble is similar to DC Bumble, but with far more Asians in tech, far fewer Jewish lawyers, and far fewer African Americans working for the government. Smart Asian women complain a lot in SFO.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 15:16     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For flex?? Weird question. Maybe for pleasure? For intimacy without commitment? Maybe to satisfy a craving?

I'm sure some women sleep around for flex, but I doubt that describes most of the women sleeping around.


Probably not most but a few are doing it for flex because they can't get an LTR with a decent man and have to settle in with something else. Most of the women like me do have a very deep desire to be in a stress-free, safe LTR but can't manage to get or keep it.


There are no safe or stress-free LTRs. You don’t seem to understand that and this is why you are not in one. Not because all men are incident or deficit of men


there are plenty of safe relationships. Yes, somewhat stress of a relationship exists but you shouldn't feel like you are walking on egg shells.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 14:22     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Good looks and sexual attraction gets me interested but intellect and personality are required for long term. I can’t date unattractive women. I just can’t. I don’t care how intelligent or accomplished you are.



what about being fat. Do you think a woman in her 40s could be fat and still be attractive?


Yes same with a woman in her 20s. Face matters most.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 10:02     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For flex?? Weird question. Maybe for pleasure? For intimacy without commitment? Maybe to satisfy a craving?

I'm sure some women sleep around for flex, but I doubt that describes most of the women sleeping around.


Probably not most but a few are doing it for flex because they can't get an LTR with a decent man and have to settle in with something else. Most of the women like me do have a very deep desire to be in a stress-free, safe LTR but can't manage to get or keep it.


There are no safe or stress-free LTRs. You don’t seem to understand that and this is why you are not in one. Not because all men are incident or deficit of men
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 09:48     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

Anonymous wrote:Good looks and sexual attraction gets me interested but intellect and personality are required for long term. I can’t date unattractive women. I just can’t. I don’t care how intelligent or accomplished you are.



what about being fat. Do you think a woman in her 40s could be fat and still be attractive?
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2026 09:47     Subject: The women of DC on Bumble. Wow.

Anonymous wrote:For flex?? Weird question. Maybe for pleasure? For intimacy without commitment? Maybe to satisfy a craving?

I'm sure some women sleep around for flex, but I doubt that describes most of the women sleeping around.


Probably not most but a few are doing it for flex because they can't get an LTR with a decent man and have to settle in with something else. Most of the women like me do have a very deep desire to be in a stress-free, safe LTR but can't manage to get or keep it.