Anonymous
02/02/2026 16:32
Subject: No libido or desire for sex
Anonymous wrote:In keeping with the prior recommendation to watch some smut, you can also read some smut.
Works pretty well.
Here’s some relatively mainstream free fanfic to start with, and the stories are legitimately cute:
https://archiveofourown.org/works/34500952
https://archiveofourown.org/works/38829984
The first story you posted is a Gone with the Wind-length novel
I bookmark certain chapters of these and read them in the bathroom before bed if I know he wants it. This is the way.
Anonymous
02/02/2026 15:50
Subject: No libido or desire for sex
Anonymous wrote:We weren't meant to live this long. And the little blue pill is not helping women.
Yeah might as well call it quits and not take advantage.
Anonymous
02/02/2026 12:58
Subject: No libido or desire for sex
We weren't meant to live this long. And the little blue pill is not helping women.
Anonymous
02/02/2026 12:39
Subject: No libido or desire for sex
Anonymous wrote:I came here to read about my menopause symptoms and saw this thread. I’m shocked that I just realized it has been over 10 months since I last had sex with my DH. Needless to say I’m worried but I’m going to try to surprise him soon. I also started looking into HRT. Fingers crossed.
how old are you, PP? Is this normal in your marriage? what was the longest stretch without sex in your marriage?