Anonymous
01/08/2026 18:37
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:What, judgy women on DCUM, I never heard of such a thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I go to strip club with my husband, so no I would not be mad.
Gross. Big "We check out hot girls together!" energy. š¬
Woman here and I am sorry to inform you they are not hot.
Some of them have to bring their purses to the stage because they don't trust each other backstage.
Then there are the scar lines from cheap boob's jobs.
I hmknew a girl in college who stripped and bragged about it. She literally looked like Hermann Munster.
We went to some strip clubs in Vegas during a joint bachelor-bachelorette celebration and the dancers were definitely hot. Enhanced but really hot.
There is nothing wrong or dishonorable about it. Women and many men make decent wages dancing in these clubs; they are like any other entertainers (just without their clothes on).
Far more young women in the U.S. make ends meet with Only Fans accounts or lucrative work as cam girls. Some have even paid their way through college that way. Itās honest work.
Many of you sound extremely judgy.
Look, this Dude needs to learn a simple lesson. Go to the strip club to meet your Boss so you look like a team player (theyāre fisherman), BUT DONāT TELL THE WIFE and pay cash only. Itās really that simple.
Exactly. You don't have to run your yap about everything you do.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 18:16
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
What, judgy women on DCUM, I never heard of such a thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I go to strip club with my husband, so no I would not be mad.
Gross. Big "We check out hot girls together!" energy. š¬
Woman here and I am sorry to inform you they are not hot.
Some of them have to bring their purses to the stage because they don't trust each other backstage.
Then there are the scar lines from cheap boob's jobs.
I hmknew a girl in college who stripped and bragged about it. She literally looked like Hermann Munster.
We went to some strip clubs in Vegas during a joint bachelor-bachelorette celebration and the dancers were definitely hot. Enhanced but really hot.
There is nothing wrong or dishonorable about it. Women and many men make decent wages dancing in these clubs; they are like any other entertainers (just without their clothes on).
Far more young women in the U.S. make ends meet with Only Fans accounts or lucrative work as cam girls. Some have even paid their way through college that way. Itās honest work.
Many of you sound extremely judgy.
Look, this Dude needs to learn a simple lesson. Go to the strip club to meet your Boss so you look like a team player (theyāre fisherman), BUT DONāT TELL THE WIFE and pay cash only. Itās really that simple.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 17:45
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I go to strip club with my husband, so no I would not be mad.
Gross. Big "We check out hot girls together!" energy. š¬
Woman here and I am sorry to inform you they are not hot.
Some of them have to bring their purses to the stage because they don't trust each other backstage.
Then there are the scar lines from cheap boob's jobs.
I hmknew a girl in college who stripped and bragged about it. She literally looked like Hermann Munster.
We went to some strip clubs in Vegas during a joint bachelor-bachelorette celebration and the dancers were definitely hot. Enhanced but really hot.
There is nothing wrong or dishonorable about it. Women and many men make decent wages dancing in these clubs; they are like any other entertainers (just without their clothes on).
Far more young women in the U.S. make ends meet with Only Fans accounts or lucrative work as cam girls. Some have even paid their way through college that way. Itās honest work.
Many of you sound extremely judgy.
What planet are you living on? Most OF creators make less than $100 per month. It's only the rare few that are making bank. Maybe you're paying too much to see your faves and need to reel it in.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 17:42
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I go to strip club with my husband, so no I would not be mad.
Gross. Big "We check out hot girls together!" energy. š¬
Woman here and I am sorry to inform you they are not hot.
Some of them have to bring their purses to the stage because they don't trust each other backstage.
Then there are the scar lines from cheap boob's jobs.
I hmknew a girl in college who stripped and bragged about it. She literally looked like Hermann Munster.
We went to some strip clubs in Vegas during a joint bachelor-bachelorette celebration and the dancers were definitely hot. Enhanced but really hot.
There is nothing wrong or dishonorable about it. Women and many men make decent wages dancing in these clubs; they are like any other entertainers (just without their clothes on).
Far more young women in the U.S. make ends meet with Only Fans accounts or lucrative work as cam girls. Some have even paid their way through college that way. Itās honest work.
Many of you sound extremely judgy.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 17:30
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Iād feel betrayed. He should have had the spine to say no, Iāll meet you somewhere else. But he didnāt. Consider yourself warned.
I agree with this. He should have said "I'm married, it's not a good idea for me to be at a strip club," and then came up with another plan to meet up with this guy. How are you supposed to feel with him away on long stretches and knowing he is with naked women, even if it's just looking at them?
Anonymous
01/08/2026 17:17
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure itās ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure itās ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isnāt ok, etc.
Girl no.
Why no. That sounds respectful.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 16:04
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Its not on the reg, heās not Al Bundy.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But heāll be thinking of DW the whole time, so itās ok. Let the man live a little.Anonymous wrote:Just know that youāll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock š¤·āāļø
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
*snort*
men who go to strip clubs on the reg are not thinking about their wife.
Whatever you need to tell yourself.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 12:05
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Its not on the reg, heās not Al Bundy.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But heāll be thinking of DW the whole time, so itās ok. Let the man live a little.Anonymous wrote:Just know that youāll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock š¤·āāļø
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
*snort*
men who go to strip clubs on the reg are not thinking about their wife.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 11:41
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:But heāll be thinking of DW the whole time, so itās ok. Let the man live a little.Anonymous wrote:Just know that youāll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock š¤·āāļø
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
*snort*
men who go to strip clubs on the reg are not thinking about their wife.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 11:33
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
But heāll be thinking of DW the whole time, so itās ok. Let the man live a little.Anonymous wrote:Just know that youāll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock š¤·āāļø
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 11:18
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Just know that youāll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock š¤·āāļø
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
āThats what shore leave is forā is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 11:11
Subject: Re:Husband went to a strip club.
It wouldn't bother me but I know (and trust) my husband.
I think your comment about signing up for pole dancing classes is super immature.
I think your comment about signing up for pole dancing classes is super immature.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 11:07
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure itās ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure itās ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isnāt ok, etc.
Girl no.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 09:32
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Hooters, theyāre still around? But good job, keep that leash tight on the BF. Iām sure that will work out.Anonymous wrote:Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure itās ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure itās ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isnāt ok, etc.
Anonymous
01/08/2026 08:57
Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure itās ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure itās ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isnāt ok, etc.