Anonymous
12/24/2025 11:52
Subject: Husband and friend trips
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This wouldn't bother me, but my husband would support me on any trip I wanted to take.
Why do you have to take leave?
NP. DH and I have to take leave when the other is out of town. We stagger our work schedules in order to get kids from activities. Like I work 7-3:30, but if DH is gone, I have to take the kids to school at 8am (he always takes the kids to school) and I won't get to work until 8:30. I can't stay late at work to make up hours.
If you don’t have enough money for help then you don’t have enough money for him to take 3 week long trips. No.
Anonymous
12/24/2025 11:49
Subject: Re:Husband and friend trips
Yikes! I’ve never faced this as my husband takes a guy trip once every two years or so. He’s got plenty of guy friends but too much guy time - drinking, late nights etc. - is not his thing.