Anonymous
12/19/2025 08:58
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/
Stop. Just stop. This is more like a guy’s perspective. Women aren’t really like this. There are a lot of factors, some of them biological.
44 yo female here. I've had 11 PIV partners in my life and have never once had an O from PIV intercourse. I only O through masturbation and oral sex.
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wow! are you overweight or have some hormonal issues? It is not right if you don't reach O from PIV.
Not Pp that’s actually not true. Mary Claire Haver just did a podcast on it. Apparently a subset of women, like more than 50%, don’t generally get there with PIV. Who knew?
Anecdotal, but 52 yo guy here. I've had 5 LT relationships:
- HS gf of 3 years. Only came through oral and masturbation
- College GF#1 of 2 years. She came from pretty much anything. Used to occasionally get there just by walking
- College gf#2 of 2 years. Only came through oral and masturbation
- Law school gf of 3 years. Rarely came and when she did it was through masturbation
- Wife of 18 years. Comes extremely occasionally through PIV, but regularly through oral and masturbation.
Add in a dozen or so short term relationships and I'm 100% convinced most women don't really GAF about PIV.
Anonymous
12/19/2025 08:57
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
I am not PP but left my fiancé because of this. She was giving BJs at the start of the relationship but then stopped doing it to very less. She doesn't like receiving it either when I love doing that too. She would also only try two positions like missionary and d***e and that was very boring and her sex drive was low.
Anonymous
12/19/2025 08:51
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Things I’m shocked over after reading these posts.
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
If you are referencing my post at 20:45 on pg. 4, I just want to clarify that I’m the DH.
Did she give more oral before you married her? Did she stop after you guys married? If you knew she wasn’t into giving oral, you should have never married her. That’s on you…
If you want swinging from the rafters, take the initiative.
None at all. I didn’t really think much of it at the time. I was young and we were each others’ first, so I’m sure I wasn’t thinking years ahead. I didn’t know she “wasn't into giving oral”.
Anonymous
12/19/2025 08:50
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Things I’m shocked over after reading these posts.
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
If you are referencing my post at 20:45 on pg. 4, I just want to clarify that I’m the DH.[/quote
I am not PP but left my fiancé because of this. She was giving BJs at the start of the relationship but then stopped doing it to very less. She doesn't like receiving it either when I love doing that too. She would also only try two positions like missionary and d***e and that was very boring and her sex drive was low.
Anonymous
12/19/2025 06:27
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Things I’m shocked over after reading these posts.
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
If you are referencing my post at 20:45 on pg. 4, I just want to clarify that I’m the DH.
Did she give more oral before you married her? Did she stop after you guys married? If you knew she wasn’t into giving oral, you should have never married her. That’s on you…
If you want swinging from the rafters, take the initiative.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 22:22
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Things I’m shocked over after reading these posts.
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
If you are referencing my post at 20:45 on pg. 4, I just want to clarify that I’m the DH.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 20:17
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Things I’m shocked over after reading these posts.
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
Men don’t go down on their women and the lack of variety, one position. What the F are your problems?
Anonymous
12/18/2025 20:09
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/
Stop. Just stop. This is more like a guy’s perspective. Women aren’t really like this. There are a lot of factors, some of them biological.
44 yo female here. I've had 11 PIV partners in my life and have never once had an O from PIV intercourse. I only O through masturbation and oral sex.
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wow! are you overweight or have some hormonal issues? It is not right if you don't reach O from PIV.
Not Pp that’s actually not true. Mary Claire Haver just did a podcast on it. Apparently a subset of women, like more than 50%, don’t generally get there with PIV. Who knew?
I can only get there if I've already had one some other way.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 19:23
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/
Stop. Just stop. This is more like a guy’s perspective. Women aren’t really like this. There are a lot of factors, some of them biological.
44 yo female here. I've had 11 PIV partners in my life and have never once had an O from PIV intercourse. I only O through masturbation and oral sex.
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wow! are you overweight or have some hormonal issues? It is not right if you don't reach O from PIV.
Not Pp that’s actually not true. Mary Claire Haver just did a podcast on it. Apparently a subset of women, like more than 50%, don’t generally get there with PIV. Who knew?
I would say it is significantly more than 50% and a lot of them like me fake it too in front of a new partner.
DP. I’m surprised 50% get there.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 19:08
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
I have the same issue. Advice has been don’t put pressure on her. However, even if she doesn’t feel pressured, the issue likely isn’t resolved.
It is not that much about the pressure but medical issues for me.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 19:08
Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/
Stop. Just stop. This is more like a guy’s perspective. Women aren’t really like this. There are a lot of factors, some of them biological.
44 yo female here. I've had 11 PIV partners in my life and have never once had an O from PIV intercourse. I only O through masturbation and oral sex.
]
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wow! are you overweight or have some hormonal issues? It is not right if you don't reach O from PIV.
Not Pp that’s actually not true. Mary Claire Haver just did a podcast on it. Apparently a subset of women, like more than 50%, don’t generally get there with PIV. Who knew?
I would say it is significantly more than 50% and a lot of them like me fake it too in front of a new partner.