Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:44     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.





No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?


men that are attracted to their wives, sexually.


Hopefully you know enough that your sexual attraction does not entitle you to do things she doesn’t like. right?


But being in a relationship entitles you to a sense of playfulness, which is all this is.


It’s not playful to slap someone’s butt if they don’t like it.


True. If they don't like it, they'll ask you to stop, and you'll stop. It's not that tough.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:38     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Annoying
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:37     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.





No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?


men that are attracted to their wives, sexually.


Hopefully you know enough that your sexual attraction does not entitle you to do things she doesn’t like. right?


But being in a relationship entitles you to a sense of playfulness, which is all this is.


It’s not playful to slap someone’s butt if they don’t like it.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:26     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:DH gives me the “debit or credit swipe” and I love it!


This has to be a troll who keeps posting/sock puppeting.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 12:55     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. This is sexual harassment or assault. No woman should be slapped on the butt. Just because you're married doesn't change anything. Sexual assault can occur even in marriages.
I can't believe many posters here find it acceptable.


do you have any idea how silly you sound?


PP writes like a troll. I imagine it's not a legit comment.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 11:55     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

No, but he likes to give a poke in my stomach or ribcage which is arguably more annoying.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 11:45     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Yes, and no it’s not annoying.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 11:33     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

DH gives me the “debit or credit swipe” and I love it!
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 11:31     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.




For those that don’t like it, have him smack another woman’s rear. Make you feel better? 😁
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 14:00     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. This is sexual harassment or assault. No woman should be slapped on the butt. Just because you're married doesn't change anything. Sexual assault can occur even in marriages.
I can't believe many posters here find it acceptable.


gotta be a troll


"Good evening Officer, I am here at the police station this evening because I would like to file a complaint for sexual assault. I was setting the table for dinner and my husband walked past me and playfully smacked me on the butt. I want to press charges to the fullest extent of the law."
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 13:13     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:No. This is sexual harassment or assault. No woman should be slapped on the butt. Just because you're married doesn't change anything. Sexual assault can occur even in marriages.
I can't believe many posters here find it acceptable.


gotta be a troll
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 12:21     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

If I guy does this he is annoying and childish.

If a guy doesn't do this, he's cheating.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 12:16     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:No. This is sexual harassment or assault. No woman should be slapped on the butt. Just because you're married doesn't change anything. Sexual assault can occur even in marriages.
I can't believe many posters here find it acceptable.


If I like it and enjoy it, how is it not acceptable?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 12:11     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:No. This is sexual harassment or assault. No woman should be slapped on the butt. Just because you're married doesn't change anything. Sexual assault can occur even in marriages.
I can't believe many posters here find it acceptable.


do you have any idea how silly you sound?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2025 12:05     Subject: Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

Anonymous wrote:He does it all the time and I love it.


Call me.