Anonymous
11/22/2025 21:31
Subject: Really out of my element with dating apps
Anonymous wrote:I’m not having any success with the dating apps. I’m pretty average looking and people describe me as “cute” I look younger than my age of 38 years and I dress in conservative classy clothes. Turtle neck sweaters, tights and skirts. Shift dresses, ballet flats, simple clean makeup, sensible shoes. I’m not fat but can lose 5-10 lbs.
On hinge I receive no likes and when I do they’re from…fat guys or ugly guys or truck drivers or socially awkward guys.
I was curious what was going on and I checked out my competition. Wow! Hot 45 year old women with bodies that look like Victoria secret models ; selfies with ample cleavage, lots of bikini shots…yikes!
I don’t even know how to dress hot or sexy!
Stay who you are so you find compatible matches and end up with a genuine relationship. There is no point in pretending to be someone else to attract people who aren't your type and you aren't their type.
Anonymous
11/22/2025 20:39
Subject: Re:Really out of my element with dating apps
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you want to be thin-big boobs-thin midsection-long hair-great skin and makeup tight clothes all the time to be approached by men. When you turn off the lights the boobs can be taken off their shelves/push up bra, but not before
Ahh This explains why I'm invisible to men. Small boobs and short hair lol
Many men love small perky breasts. But hardly any men like short hair. That's usually a sign to stay away.
I prefer short hair and small breasts.