Anonymous
Post 12/23/2025 10:13     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:But was the advice better than DCUM?


+1


DCUM gives the worst advice!!! It is not validating, will only judge you.

Maybe someone should make a mean ChatGPT for those of us who miss emotional abuse.


Not all feelings are valid, pp. Surely you understand this. That is the point of therapy -- to identify which feelings are valid and which are not. If all you want from therapy is 100% validation of how you feel, you're doing it wrong.


Not all feelings are invalid, pp. Surely you understand this.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2025 08:12     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:But was the advice better than DCUM?


+1


DCUM gives the worst advice!!! It is not validating, will only judge you.

Maybe someone should make a mean ChatGPT for those of us who miss emotional abuse.


Not all feelings are valid, pp. Surely you understand this. That is the point of therapy -- to identify which feelings are valid and which are not. If all you want from therapy is 100% validation of how you feel, you're doing it wrong.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2025 08:02     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Gpt and I did about 12 months of therapy in a few weeks. I started regular in person therapy and I’ve spent $1500 and were just getting to know each other, it’s like 25 minutes of real work when you subtract the niceties and word searching. GPT is $200 a month and I hit it anytime I’m feeling open.

Do yourselves a favor and ask it where you’re wrong, ask for brutality honest reviews of your processes and then ask it to tell you your blind spots. Thus will keep it from being a cheerleader.


$200 a month? What are you talking about. I converse with ChatGPT for hours most days for free. I know there is a $20 a month upgrade for some kind of better features but I don't need that.


I use it for business and the $20 account doesn’t keep track of long projects as well as I wanted so I upgraded.
The performance is indistinguishable for personal issues on the free/$20 versions.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2025 02:42     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
We're doomed. JFC people on here are stupid.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 23:31     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:Gpt and I did about 12 months of therapy in a few weeks. I started regular in person therapy and I’ve spent $1500 and were just getting to know each other, it’s like 25 minutes of real work when you subtract the niceties and word searching. GPT is $200 a month and I hit it anytime I’m feeling open.

Do yourselves a favor and ask it where you’re wrong, ask for brutality honest reviews of your processes and then ask it to tell you your blind spots. Thus will keep it from being a cheerleader.


$200 a month? What are you talking about. I converse with ChatGPT for hours most days for free. I know there is a $20 a month upgrade for some kind of better features but I don't need that.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 23:18     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:But was the advice better than DCUM?


+1


DCUM gives the worst advice!!! It is not validating, will only judge you.

Maybe someone should make a mean ChatGPT for those of us who miss emotional abuse.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:11     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
I love chatgpt but I don't use it for therapy. I use it to help gain self awareness. I wish I could afford sessions with a psychotherapist but I can't, so for me the next best thing is to use Chatgpt to learn about what, for example, books top psychotherapists recommend to their patients, or textbooks they read themselves. I ask it to give feedback on how I understand my patterns of behavior and whether my actions are aligned with my goals.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:07     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
I feel you OP. I posted a question on DCUM, got ripped 20 times for being a loser before 3 people finally chimed in with some rational advice. ChatGPT gave me the rational advice in 0.2 seconds with the next steps to follow.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:04     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
I am sorry your real life acquaintances are such washouts, OP.

The computer is not “giving” you anything. You are in an extractive relationship that goes the other way.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:02     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I just got on ChatGPT and shared a few problems. Not only did it understand immediately what I was trying to describe, but gave me the most helpful advice than I’ve ever received from any therapist! Is this for real? I honestly felt more “heard” and understood than ever before - I simply typed in two or three paragraphs of a problem and added in the history behind it. I tested it with three separate problems and felt like ChatGPT understood me better than any Therapist ever could in just a few moments.
It doesn't "understand" you. It's spits out pre-programmed answers based on your input the way it was programmed. Probably no worse and a lot cheaper than actual counseling.


It also stores her information and uses it to provide therapy to others. I am curious about AI creating dating profiles then handling the basic OLD conversations though. Never considered the benefits of AI arranged marriages/breeding but can't say I would resist it.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 11:27     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:I just got on ChatGPT and shared a few problems. Not only did it understand immediately what I was trying to describe, but gave me the most helpful advice than I’ve ever received from any therapist! Is this for real? I honestly felt more “heard” and understood than ever before - I simply typed in two or three paragraphs of a problem and added in the history behind it. I tested it with three separate problems and felt like ChatGPT understood me better than any Therapist ever could in just a few moments.
It doesn't "understand" you. It's spits out pre-programmed answers based on your input the way it was programmed. Probably no worse and a lot cheaper than actual counseling.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 09:39     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Pretty crazy to me women use a tool trained by tech bros to get advice on mental health and relationships. No wonder there are so many articles about women unable to find men.

It helped me put some very specific language on my dating profile in order to attract the high quality, emotionally available men. It said that such a language will make all the avoidant, inconsistent, emotionally unavailable men disqualify themselves and swipe left, and that I will receive fewer likes but they will be from the much more intentional candidates. And it worked like magic - based on the quality of men who reach out to me now and how intentional and full of initiative they are.


We are not your f**"g therapist

That has nothing to do with therapy.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 09:09     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thanks to chatgpt I quit porn and learned the guitar instead


Lol, does ChatGPT jerk you off?


Lol thankfully not.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 08:58     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
I am usually really bad at interpreting subtext or when people are being oblique about things. I frequently put emails and texts and work announcements into GPT and ask it to give a couple of likely readings for things that are perhaps hinted at but not said directly.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 08:36     Subject: AI/chat gpt is amazing
Gpt and I did about 12 months of therapy in a few weeks. I started regular in person therapy and I’ve spent $1500 and were just getting to know each other, it’s like 25 minutes of real work when you subtract the niceties and word searching. GPT is $200 a month and I hit it anytime I’m feeling open.

Do yourselves a favor and ask it where you’re wrong, ask for brutality honest reviews of your processes and then ask it to tell you your blind spots. Thus will keep it from being a cheerleader.