Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kid is a drama queen
OP here. No, kid isn't. Quite the opposite.
I know about this because he was grumpy about a test and I was like, 'chill out, you're doing great" and he shared that the upperclassmen talk about how "you need a 4.0 if you want XYZ internship" which may just be a very top finance internship but my kid heard as being any good econ/finance internship.
And I can share further that my DC is not even sure he wants to go into finance. But the social pressure to consider this career path is SO HIGH at the Ivies. It's all anyone is doing. My son is bright, naturally a STEM brain, doesn't want to be an engineer so he's considering it.
OP, I have two kids at Ivies right now. One is pre-med (it's own hell) and the other is IR. I can assure you that finance is not all anyone is doing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Darn. It was a slog to get into the Ivy and now the reward is.... more slogging. Great. I guess he had the summer before college as a break.
It's not easy to get a perfect GPA at his school. He's working his a$$ off.
Well he’s going into a grinding career path, so….get used to it, I guess.
There’s a recurring theme on DCUM- “when does the easy part start.”
If you have committed to the top score/T20/IB & Consulting path THERE IS NEVER A REST. You never “win”. It’s just competition for everything forever.
There’s no “secret trick” to Ivy admits, just grinding and luck.
There’s no “good enough” grade for bulge bracket IB, you are in constant competition for everything all the time. Be the best or get out.
If your kid is already unhappy with the high pressure top HS grind why on earth would they want to sign up for FIVE MORE DECADES of this?
“Why is it so hard to get into extracurriculars”, it’s not at 99.9% of schools. Don’t pick the 0.01% and complain or look for shortcuts.
There’s no shortcut, you just have to win all the time at everything, forever. And everything you encounter will be a competition.
Kids need to go into this with open eyes. If they legit want the “prestige” path, it comes with costs and benefits.
There are lots of things to do in finance that aren’t Goldman. There are lots of things to do in law that aren’t Biglaw.
You want to be a winner? Start winning and stop complaining.
Or, you could just choose not to play.
This, OP. I went to an Ivy and I went into one of these career paths. If he feels like "getting into an Ivy" was a slog and that he's miserable "working his a$$ off" to get good grades, then "a strong finance internship" and the job that leads to are NOT for him. And it doesn't get easier, it only gets WAY harder once you start that job. Mentally, emotionally, physically, and socially harder.
And there are plenty of other paths that are rewarding that are not like this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Darn. It was a slog to get into the Ivy and now the reward is.... more slogging. Great. I guess he had the summer before college as a break.
It's not easy to get a perfect GPA at his school. He's working his a$$ off.
Well he’s going into a grinding career path, so….get used to it, I guess.
There’s a recurring theme on DCUM- “when does the easy part start.”
If you have committed to the top score/T20/IB & Consulting path THERE IS NEVER A REST. You never “win”. It’s just competition for everything forever.
There’s no “secret trick” to Ivy admits, just grinding and luck.
There’s no “good enough” grade for bulge bracket IB, you are in constant competition for everything all the time. Be the best or get out.
If your kid is already unhappy with the high pressure top HS grind why on earth would they want to sign up for FIVE MORE DECADES of this?
“Why is it so hard to get into extracurriculars”, it’s not at 99.9% of schools. Don’t pick the 0.01% and complain or look for shortcuts.
There’s no shortcut, you just have to win all the time at everything, forever. And everything you encounter will be a competition.
Kids need to go into this with open eyes. If they legit want the “prestige” path, it comes with costs and benefits.
There are lots of things to do in finance that aren’t Goldman. There are lots of things to do in law that aren’t Biglaw.
You want to be a winner? Start winning and stop complaining.
Or, you could just choose not to play.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Darn. It was a slog to get into the Ivy and now the reward is.... more slogging. Great. I guess he had the summer before college as a break.
It's not easy to get a perfect GPA at his school. He's working his a$$ off.
Well he’s going into a grinding career path, so….get used to it, I guess.
There’s a recurring theme on DCUM- “when does the easy part start.”
If you have committed to the top score/T20/IB & Consulting path THERE IS NEVER A REST. You never “win”. It’s just competition for everything forever.
There’s no “secret trick” to Ivy admits, just grinding and luck.
There’s no “good enough” grade for bulge bracket IB, you are in constant competition for everything all the time. Be the best or get out.
If your kid is already unhappy with the high pressure top HS grind why on earth would they want to sign up for FIVE MORE DECADES of this?
“Why is it so hard to get into extracurriculars”, it’s not at 99.9% of schools. Don’t pick the 0.01% and complain or look for shortcuts.
There’s no shortcut, you just have to win all the time at everything, forever. And everything you encounter will be a competition.
Kids need to go into this with open eyes. If they legit want the “prestige” path, it comes with costs and benefits.
There are lots of things to do in finance that aren’t Goldman. There are lots of things to do in law that aren’t Biglaw.
You want to be a winner? Start winning and stop complaining.
Or, you could just choose not to play.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kid is a drama queen
OP here. No, kid isn't. Quite the opposite.
I know about this because he was grumpy about a test and I was like, 'chill out, you're doing great" and he shared that the upperclassmen talk about how "you need a 4.0 if you want XYZ internship" which may just be a very top finance internship but my kid heard as being any good econ/finance internship.
And I can share further that my DC is not even sure he wants to go into finance. But the social pressure to consider this career path is SO HIGH at the Ivies. It's all anyone is doing. My son is bright, naturally a STEM brain, doesn't want to be an engineer so he's considering it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Darn. It was a slog to get into the Ivy and now the reward is.... more slogging. Great. I guess he had the summer before college as a break.
It's not easy to get a perfect GPA at his school. He's working his a$$ off.
Well he’s going into a grinding career path, so….get used to it, I guess.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kid is a drama queen
OP here. No, kid isn't. Quite the opposite.
I know about this because he was grumpy about a test and I was like, 'chill out, you're doing great" and he shared that the upperclassmen talk about how "you need a 4.0 if you want XYZ internship" which may just be a very top finance internship but my kid heard as being any good econ/finance internship.
And I can share further that my DC is not even sure he wants to go into finance. But the social pressure to consider this career path is SO HIGH at the Ivies. It's all anyone is doing. My son is bright, naturally a STEM brain, doesn't want to be an engineer so he's considering it.
OP it takes what it takes, each ivy is different with regard to being top 1/4 or better.
At Brown, as A- and A are both counted 4.0, and 45-60% of any given class gets A range, yielding a median graduating GPA of 3.9, thus yes a 4.0 is needed for top finance, top law, top med, every "top".
At my kid's grade deflated ivy, Jane St and other top finance, or MBB, or top law/med, goes to 3.9+ all the time. Less than 15% of stem courses receive true A(4.0), thus having some A- or an occasional B+ are common. Median overall is around 3.7; 3.9 is quite impressive there. The engineers often get top (quant) finance over others even if a little below 3.9.
Similar experience at a public ivy. Lower gpa 3.7+ but took a lot of advanced math classes got quant finance. offers. But they cared less about gpa more about getting past the assessments and.interview rounds. Now pe, hedge funds and long short are reaching out since quant internships are well regarded and they didn’t even care about gpa were more interested in their experiences at the firm.
At hypsm DC and members of their club got internships in traditional ib , and consulting firms had higher gpa’s, then others who got more buy side internships which are similar but more technical in roles
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kid is a drama queen
OP here. No, kid isn't. Quite the opposite.
I know about this because he was grumpy about a test and I was like, 'chill out, you're doing great" and he shared that the upperclassmen talk about how "you need a 4.0 if you want XYZ internship" which may just be a very top finance internship but my kid heard as being any good econ/finance internship.
And I can share further that my DC is not even sure he wants to go into finance. But the social pressure to consider this career path is SO HIGH at the Ivies. It's all anyone is doing. My son is bright, naturally a STEM brain, doesn't want to be an engineer so he's considering it.
OP it takes what it takes, each ivy is different with regard to being top 1/4 or better.
At Brown, as A- and A are both counted 4.0, and 45-60% of any given class gets A range, yielding a median graduating GPA of 3.9, thus yes a 4.0 is needed for top finance, top law, top med, every "top".
At my kid's grade deflated ivy, Jane St and other top finance, or MBB, or top law/med, goes to 3.9+ all the time. Less than 15% of stem courses receive true A(4.0), thus having some A- or an occasional B+ are common. Median overall is around 3.7; 3.9 is quite impressive there. The engineers often get top (quant) finance over others even if a little below 3.9.
Similar experience at a public ivy. Lower gpa 3.7+ but took a lot of advanced math classes got quant finance. offers. But they cared less about gpa more about getting past the assessments and.interview rounds. Now pe, hedge funds and long short are reaching out since quant internships are well regarded and they didn’t even care about gpa were more interested in their experiences at the firm.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kid is a drama queen
OP here. No, kid isn't. Quite the opposite.
I know about this because he was grumpy about a test and I was like, 'chill out, you're doing great" and he shared that the upperclassmen talk about how "you need a 4.0 if you want XYZ internship" which may just be a very top finance internship but my kid heard as being any good econ/finance internship.
And I can share further that my DC is not even sure he wants to go into finance. But the social pressure to consider this career path is SO HIGH at the Ivies. It's all anyone is doing. My son is bright, naturally a STEM brain, doesn't want to be an engineer so he's considering it.
OP it takes what it takes, each ivy is different with regard to being top 1/4 or better.
At Brown, as A- and A are both counted 4.0, and 45-60% of any given class gets A range, yielding a median graduating GPA of 3.9, thus yes a 4.0 is needed for top finance, top law, top med, every "top".
At my kid's grade deflated ivy, Jane St and other top finance, or MBB, or top law/med, goes to 3.9+ all the time. Less than 15% of stem courses receive true A(4.0), thus having some A- or an occasional B+ are common. Median overall is around 3.7; 3.9 is quite impressive there. The engineers often get top (quant) finance over others even if a little below 3.9.