Anonymous
Post 11/09/2025 08:13     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is a vent post. When I first met my boyfriend he came off as a pretty nice guy, very well read, open-minded and intelligent. He mentioned being a feminist in our early dating and espoused views about equality (this was all unprompted).

Now that we’ve settled into the relationship he has started trying to get me to listen to various podcasts he’s into. I don’t listen to podcasts and never really knew who these people were. Well after listening more they are saying some very anti-woman stuff, and my boyfriend has started complaining about how feminism and women working has ruined our society. He also has started saying super anti-Jewish stuff. Um WTF?! He is entitled to his opinions, but he clearly deceived me on his views.

I decided im done. But i’m pissed that he wasted my time.


Have you ever noticed that liberals are far less forgiving and open minded than conservatives. Example...You're far less likely to see a liberal woman willing to date a conservative guy, but most conservatives would date a liberal. Sorry, but liberals are close minded, a bit radical...and kind of freaking crazy.


Conservative men who want to date liberal women are exotic bird collectors, as Trevor Noah put it. They want to take an independent woman and force her into their traditionalist mold.
Anonymous
Post 11/09/2025 08:11     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:This is a vent post. When I first met my boyfriend he came off as a pretty nice guy, very well read, open-minded and intelligent. He mentioned being a feminist in our early dating and espoused views about equality (this was all unprompted).

Now that we’ve settled into the relationship he has started trying to get me to listen to various podcasts he’s into. I don’t listen to podcasts and never really knew who these people were. Well after listening more they are saying some very anti-woman stuff, and my boyfriend has started complaining about how feminism and women working has ruined our society. He also has started saying super anti-Jewish stuff. Um WTF?! He is entitled to his opinions, but he clearly deceived me on his views.

I decided im done. But i’m pissed that he wasted my time.


Have you ever noticed that liberals are far less forgiving and open minded than conservatives. Example...You're far less likely to see a liberal woman willing to date a conservative guy, but most conservatives would date a liberal. Sorry, but liberals are close minded, a bit radical...and kind of freaking crazy.
Anonymous
Post 11/09/2025 07:53     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:when did liberals and Democrats become anti-Jewish? I always thought that Jews were generally liberal, but the modern Democrat party seems to hate Jews.


They hate Isralies. Not the American secular jews though, as many of them sponsor the pro-Palestinian protests.

Jews are not a homogenous group. Many killed in the WWII Holocaust were killed by other jews. Many of Hitler's generals and military were Jewish.


Extremely misleading comment to the point that I question your motives.


Truth is misleading? I question your intelligence and sanity.


It’s not truth and I’m a new poster who grew up in Europe and was actually taught European and World history. No, there were not “many” high ranking generals. In fact, Hilter cleansed his ranks of Jews in 1934 (around 70 were kicked out) and only Aryans were allowed to sign up. Some half or quarter Jews did remain and there was a debate whether they should be used as labor. Your comment was more than misleading and I hope you have the chance to learn history and learn from it, for the sake of your children as well as mine.

Anonymous
Post 11/09/2025 02:04     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

So sorry OP.

It appears that your boyfriend scammed you……likely to get what he wants.

You are definitely doing the right thing by ending things w/him since manipulation should never be used as a power trip between partners.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 23:01     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:when did liberals and Democrats become anti-Jewish? I always thought that Jews were generally liberal, but the modern Democrat party seems to hate Jews.


They hate Isralies. Not the American secular jews though, as many of them sponsor the pro-Palestinian protests.

Jews are not a homogenous group. Many killed in the WWII Holocaust were killed by other jews. Many of Hitler's generals and military were Jewish.


Extremely misleading comment to the point that I question your motives.


Truth is misleading? I question your intelligence and sanity.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 23:00     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a modern conservative.



It’s possible to be a conservative without being some kind of anti-Semitic nationalist. It just requires a lot more thinking for yourself and really learning the policy issues instead of listening to talk radio and reading dumb conservative “news” sites.


People who are able to think for themselves are not political at all, but abhor politics, which is for the low IQ masses same as religion.


You may not be interested in politics, but that won't stop politics from being interested in you.

Putting your head in the sand doesn't make you intelligent.


Running around the chicken yard doesn't either. You will be eaten, figuratively, if you play the game by the rules of the farmer.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 23:00     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Conservative man here. I've had many relationships where I never revealed my politics and just went along with her views. They never had a clue. It's a thing we do for sure but only with women who never ask and just assume which is nearly all of them.


Would you reveal it straight away if the woman revealed straight away that she’s conservative? I might be dating again soon and definitely looking for conservative men this time. It would prevent so many arguments.

Also, do you think most conservative men are religious these days? I’m not in a church and was hoping to find someone conservative but not religious. Not sure where to find those men though.


Much more common than not, for both men and women. Something like 60% of religious voters poll Democrat these days. Only about 35% of Republican voters are religious. Only about 10% of Independent or Libertarianish voters are religious.


These statements are meaningless/inconsistent/wrong.


Party correlation varies hugely by *which* religion and sect.

https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2024/04/09/party-identification-among-religious-groups-and-religiously-unaffiliated-voters/


Pew lost all credibility a decade or more ago. Even the name is a running joke now. Pew!
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 20:34     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Conservative man here. I've had many relationships where I never revealed my politics and just went along with her views. They never had a clue. It's a thing we do for sure but only with women who never ask and just assume which is nearly all of them.


Would you reveal it straight away if the woman revealed straight away that she’s conservative? I might be dating again soon and definitely looking for conservative men this time. It would prevent so many arguments.

Also, do you think most conservative men are religious these days? I’m not in a church and was hoping to find someone conservative but not religious. Not sure where to find those men though.


Much more common than not, for both men and women. Something like 60% of religious voters poll Democrat these days. Only about 35% of Republican voters are religious. Only about 10% of Independent or Libertarianish voters are religious.


These statements are meaningless/inconsistent/wrong.


Party correlation varies hugely by *which* religion and sect.

https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2024/04/09/party-identification-among-religious-groups-and-religiously-unaffiliated-voters/
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 20:29     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:when did liberals and Democrats become anti-Jewish? I always thought that Jews were generally liberal, but the modern Democrat party seems to hate Jews.


They hate Isralies. Not the American secular jews though, as many of them sponsor the pro-Palestinian protests.

Jews are not a homogenous group. Many killed in the WWII Holocaust were killed by other jews. Many of Hitler's generals and military were Jewish.


Extremely misleading comment to the point that I question your motives.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 20:24     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a modern conservative.



It’s possible to be a conservative without being some kind of anti-Semitic nationalist. It just requires a lot more thinking for yourself and really learning the policy issues instead of listening to talk radio and reading dumb conservative “news” sites.


So, not a modern conservative.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 20:23     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a modern conservative.



It’s possible to be a conservative without being some kind of anti-Semitic nationalist. It just requires a lot more thinking for yourself and really learning the policy issues instead of listening to talk radio and reading dumb conservative “news” sites.


People who are able to think for themselves are not political at all, but abhor politics, which is for the low IQ masses same as religion.


You may not be interested in politics, but that won't stop politics from being interested in you.

Putting your head in the sand doesn't make you intelligent.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 20:22     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:when did liberals and Democrats become anti-Jewish? I always thought that Jews were generally liberal, but the modern Democrat party seems to hate Jews.


They hate Isralies. Not the American secular jews though, as many of them sponsor the pro-Palestinian protests.

Jews are not a homogenous group. Many killed in the WWII Holocaust were killed by other jews. Many of Hitler's generals and military were Jewish.


Democrats don't hate Israelis. They hate genocidists.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 19:46     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a modern conservative.



It’s possible to be a conservative without being some kind of anti-Semitic nationalist. It just requires a lot more thinking for yourself and really learning the policy issues instead of listening to talk radio and reading dumb conservative “news” sites.


People who are able to think for themselves are not political at all, but abhor politics, which is for the low IQ masses same as religion.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2025 19:20     Subject: Re:Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a modern conservative.



It’s possible to be a conservative without being some kind of anti-Semitic nationalist. It just requires a lot more thinking for yourself and really learning the policy issues instead of listening to talk radio and reading dumb conservative “news” sites.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2025 19:55     Subject: Boyfriend lied to me about his politics

Anonymous wrote:when did liberals and Democrats become anti-Jewish? I always thought that Jews were generally liberal, but the modern Democrat party seems to hate Jews.


They hate Isralies. Not the American secular jews though, as many of them sponsor the pro-Palestinian protests.

Jews are not a homogenous group. Many killed in the WWII Holocaust were killed by other jews. Many of Hitler's generals and military were Jewish.