Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So sadly Bs can derail college chances. It’s not just admissions but merit aid too. With the economy in the dumpster and the price of college so high, competition for in state is crazy. Along with competition for scholarships and merit aid.
If retakes are allowed, many of the other kids with Bs are doing a retake. Your kid would end up being toward the bottom for not taking advantage of the retake option.
It’s a horrible environment for kids and very different than when we were in high school.
That is depressing.
Tons of colleges take kids with Bs, and offer merit aid, but maybe those are not desirable schools to the people on this forum.
The vast majority of colleges take B students. Some examples are Univ of Arizona, Mississippi, Alabama, North Carolina, plus other flagships. California State Universities, CUNY New York Universities, Montclair in New Jersey, Catholic University in DC, UMass Boston, The New School NYC, Suffolk University Boston, Marymount Univ in VA, Old Dominion, VA, Providence College RI.
That’s just a very small percentage of colleges that accept B students. Most colleges accept B students. Every state in the country has choices for B students. There are huge universities that everyone knows and there are small niche colleges that are very local.
Students will be successful if they find the right school for them.
I’m in NC. We were told that the minimum GPA your kid should have to apply to North Carolina (chapel hill) is a 4.5. Our friend’s kid scored a 35 ACT and has a 4.5 GPA, and his college counselor gave him 50/50 odds of getting in (with two legacy parents). It’s slightly better odds for NC State, but not much.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So sadly Bs can derail college chances. It’s not just admissions but merit aid too. With the economy in the dumpster and the price of college so high, competition for in state is crazy. Along with competition for scholarships and merit aid.
If retakes are allowed, many of the other kids with Bs are doing a retake. Your kid would end up being toward the bottom for not taking advantage of the retake option.
It’s a horrible environment for kids and very different than when we were in high school.
That is depressing.
Tons of colleges take kids with Bs, and offer merit aid, but maybe those are not desirable schools to the people on this forum.
The vast majority of colleges take B students. Some examples are Univ of Arizona, Mississippi, Alabama, North Carolina, plus other flagships. California State Universities, CUNY New York Universities, Montclair in New Jersey, Catholic University in DC, UMass Boston, The New School NYC, Suffolk University Boston, Marymount Univ in VA, Old Dominion, VA, Providence College RI.
That’s just a very small percentage of colleges that accept B students. Most colleges accept B students. Every state in the country has choices for B students. There are huge universities that everyone knows and there are small niche colleges that are very local.
Students will be successful if they find the right school for them.
Anonymous wrote:I actually took my son out of public school and moved him to a Catholic school because he was getting straight As but not doing A work. So I paid money for him to not get all As. Public schools have pretty low expectations these days.
Anonymous wrote:If they are working their tails off, no. Otherwise, yeah, so most of the time, yeah.
Anonymous wrote:OP is not talking about a B student or B quarter grade or a B on a major test, but a B on an assignment. Who even knows what their teenager gets on every assignment?
My DS received maybe five B+ final grades between freshman and junior years and was not shut out of college or at the bottom of his class in FCPS with a weighted GPA right under 4.0 and a 34 ACT. (He has ADHD, didnt take all honors and APs and got a lot of A- grades too). He got a $12,500/yr scholarship from UMD.
About 20-25% of the class graduated with a weighted GPA over 4.0. The idea that entire graduating classes in public schools have straight As in all APs and GPAs well over 4.5 is just not true.
Anonymous wrote:OP is not talking about a B student or B quarter grade or a B on a major test, but a B on an assignment. Who even knows what their teenager gets on every assignment?
My DS received maybe five B+ final grades between freshman and junior years and was not shut out of college or at the bottom of his class in FCPS with a weighted GPA right under 4.0 and a 34 ACT. (He has ADHD, didnt take all honors and APs and got a lot of A- grades too). He got a $12,500/yr scholarship from UMD.
About 20-25% of the class graduated with a weighted GPA over 4.0. The idea that entire graduating classes in public schools have straight As in all APs and GPAs well over 4.5 is just not true.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I actually took my son out of public school and moved him to a Catholic school because he was getting straight As but not doing A work. So I paid money for him to not get all As. Public schools have pretty low expectations these days.
Not all public schools have low expectations and not every Catholic school is good. Those blanket statements don’t help anyone.
And aren’t even true. The public schools near us are so much
better than the privates. I don’t want to drive 30 minutes for a private school. Love the sense of community we have.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I actually took my son out of public school and moved him to a Catholic school because he was getting straight As but not doing A work. So I paid money for him to not get all As. Public schools have pretty low expectations these days.
Not all public schools have low expectations and not every Catholic school is good. Those blanket statements don’t help anyone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does the school profile include, “We allow re-tests?” Do these same students imagine there is a re-testing policy in college? Any college professors, please chime in.
My DH is a professor and if he had a dime for every student who asked him about retakes… Even when he goes over the syllabus, he still had students asking about them. He does offer students a chance to show him what they are writing ahead of the due date for feedback. He said nobody takes him up on that offer.