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Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old man in Old Town. I have all my hair, probably a 6 at looks but tall, make $375,000+, own a home, another house in the mountains, debt free, thin, athletic, hobbies- new restaurants, running, camping ,hiking, fishing, travel, etc.

I date- with no intention on marriage- early to mid 30 year old white collar professional women, usually thin, limby and bruenette.

Are they aware about no intention to marry and have kids before sex? 375K is very mediocre BTW for your age

Wut. Was this pp born stupid or dropped on her head as a baby?

62 F, BF is 54. Have dated men 5-10 yrs younger, never my age or older.

Anonymous wrote:I'm 32. It's interesting all these 45+ women are bragging about dating early 30s men. Who are these men lol? Of all the beautiful men around my age, why do I need to swipe on a woman 45+??

Some men don't want even the slightest risk of getting a woman pregnant, so they play it safe and date older.

There are many stories of younger women claiming they are looking for marriage and kids and then flipping when their partner checks all their boxes. Many older women are not interested in getting married again or in having kids? And this is appealing for a man who wants the companionship and sex but not the 'oops' baby or the "oops, it changed my mind and want a baby and marriage".

I'm 32. It's interesting all these 45+ women are bragging about dating early 30s men. Who are these men lol? Of all the beautiful men around my age, why do I need to swipe on a woman 45+??

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old man in Old Town. I have all my hair, probably a 6 at looks but tall, make $375,000+, own a home, another house in the mountains, debt free, thin, athletic, hobbies- new restaurants, running, camping ,hiking, fishing, travel, etc.

I date- with no intention on marriage- early to mid 30 year old white collar professional women, usually thin, limby and bruenette.

Are they aware about no intention to marry and have kids before sex? 375K is very mediocre BTW for your age

+1

lol at his flexing

I understand there’s always going to be bitterness in this forum and divorce threads particularly, but now we’re dragging men with multiple homes in desirable locations with hobbies and an income in the top 3% who are honest about what they bring to the table and what they are seeking in direct response to OP’s query? Really?

First off, making $400,000 a year put them in the top one percent. Secondly, you forget this is a forum for old bitter fat women. They’re just angry that they’re not young thin and beautiful. Being invisible has a habit of making them irate.

First, 400k stop 3% not top 1%. Second, they are plenty of thin, attractive and well paid women between 40-50 years old.this dude is a sexual predator and he’s dating pattern is not normal at all. This is what Maga normalizes.

You could not have proved my point better. Thank you.

I’m thin, make 400k as a 40s woman, and have no issues dating men in 40-50s age group. You keep proving my view that I should avoid men who say they dated 20-30 yo women as a plague

I am a 52 years old mechanical engineer who makes $170k. How do you guys make these insane salaries? I am really impressed. I love my job and my profession, I don't know any mechanical engineer who even makes $250k. I am sure they exist, but the extent of $400k+ salaried people on this forum makes me feel like a loser lol

Anonymous wrote:55 year old woman. Have dated 45-60 year olds. Prefer men slightly younger than I am because a lot of men my age seem to have really let themselves go and are not that attractive (overweight, bad teeth, crappy dressers. I know that sounds superficial but it can be a stand-in for how much effort they put into everything: work, relationships. If they don't take care of themselves, what else will they neglect?) I look young for my age and (so far) have had no issues dating younger men. But all things being equal I would rather date men my age. Same cultural touch points.

You are not superficial at all. The bad teeth is a big issue I have noticed in people over 45. I don't mind crooked teeth (their parents just never got them braces), but the yellow teeth, stained teeth, unfilled cavities are rampant among the women 45+ that I have dated. I don't have straight teeth myself, but I keep my teeth clean and visit the dentist regularly.

Folks visit the dentist please lol

67, I typically date women in their 50s and early 60s

We met organically not on the apps. He is an adult with his own money, property and things and is not looking to me for money, mentoring or mothering. It is very easy, we laugh a lot and have a lot of fun together. I don't have children (not by choice) and he doesn't want them.

Wut.

If the genders were reversed here, this thread would be lighting up with comments. If he is dating a woman who is 16 years older, he is looking for mothering.

Do you notice the side-eye when you are out with him? We had a friend in our social circle who was also doing the "couger/cub" thing, and the comments were merciless (e.g., Does he have curfew?). However, a man in this same circle started dating a much younger woman (post-divorce), and the same comments were made.

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Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

55, F
39, M

Love it. Care to share any details?

We met organically not on the apps. He is an adult with his own money, property and things and is not looking to me for money, mentoring or mothering. It is very easy, we laugh a lot and have a lot of fun together. I don't have children (not by choice) and he doesn't want them.

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Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

55, F
39, M

Love it. Care to share any details?

Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

55, F
39, M

DCUM is addictive because you can anonymously hash things out with other intellectual moms. Sure, there are trolls (like some of the incel men on the relationship forum), but for the most part, it’s a good community of moms.

Your narcissism shines through every post you make.

It is especially clear when someone calls you out on it because you respond by: 1) calling them an "incel" (even when it is a woman posting), and 2) telling them it is a "community of moms" (even when Jeff has posted many times, the forum has been open to moms and dads since it started) where men should not post.

For example, look at your post where you write you come to DCUM to hash things out with "other intellectual moms." <barf>

The best part? Your ego is so off base, you will spend hours after reading this post trying to defend being an "intellectual mom" on a "mommy board" when you know both are not true.

Seek help. Now. It will be the best Christmas present you will ever give to those forced to spend the holidays with you.

What does that mean?

Anonymous wrote:What does LAT mean?

living apart together?