Anonymous
10/10/2025 09:05
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:God did not ordain marriage. God is not even married. He just resides with the Holy Ghost.
There's a lid for every pot.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 09:02
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eww! These relationships shouldn’t be called marriages. They need to come up with another word.
Why shouldn't they be called marriages? Many marriages are already sexless, I don't see why a lavender marriage should get called out as different. They were adults going in. I went into my marriage knowing ... exactly nothing about how the future would roll out. Let's let everybody else make their own decisions and leave them alone.
Because marriage, to me, is already defined, as created by God, as a union between one man and one woman.
FIFY, and don't let Jesus catch you judging!
Funny how Christians always forget the most important lesson of Jesus.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:54
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ha, there’s a gay Influencer I watch who, because the US is threatening to ban gay marriage, has taken it upon himself to date the hottest women out there and ruin things for straight men.
Would not surprised me at all if Lavender marriages become more popular, especially with the most attractive straight women. They get an equal partner who treats them well and looks fantastic.
he just hates women is all (as a lot of gay men do)
Yep. Jealousy at the root.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:14
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eww! These relationships shouldn’t be called marriages. They need to come up with another word.
Why shouldn't they be called marriages? Many marriages are already sexless, I don't see why a lavender marriage should get called out as different. They were adults going in. I went into my marriage knowing ... exactly nothing about how the future would roll out. Let's let everybody else make their own decisions and leave them alone.
Because marriage, to me, is already defined, as created by God, as a union between one man and one woman.
FIFY, and don't let Jesus catch you judging!
Sorry, but that doesn't work. Marriage is an institution created and ordained by God. Go make up your own word for these weird scenarios.
Marriage is a tax-break provided by the government, and a control structure meant to provide and indoctrinate children.
Like how you are trying to indoctrinate.
Well yes. History is quite clear that societies with marriage with multiple partners are much less prosperous and much less stable. It is in the interest of societies which are prosperous and stable to promote the structural values to replicate themselves.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:10
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
God did not ordain marriage. God is not even married. He just resides with the Holy Ghost.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:10
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eww! These relationships shouldn’t be called marriages. They need to come up with another word.
You people can’t be satisfied. Don’t come up with new pronouns! That’s too hard for me! Don’t use “marriage!” Make a new word!
The need to control others is anti-Christian AF.
Whether you agree with Christianity or not, it is quite clear that marriage is one man and one woman.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:10
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:If your marriage is sexless, your marriage has turned lavender. It's very common.
No, a lavender marriage is when one partner is gay.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 08:06
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
If your marriage is sexless, your marriage has turned lavender. It's very common.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 07:55
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Ha, there’s a gay Influencer I watch who, because the US is threatening to ban gay marriage, has taken it upon himself to date the hottest women out there and ruin things for straight men.
Would not surprised me at all if Lavender marriages become more popular, especially with the most attractive straight women. They get an equal partner who treats them well and looks fantastic.
he just hates women is all (as a lot of gay men do)
Anonymous
10/10/2025 07:51
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eww! These relationships shouldn’t be called marriages. They need to come up with another word.
Why shouldn't they be called marriages? Many marriages are already sexless, I don't see why a lavender marriage should get called out as different. They were adults going in. I went into my marriage knowing ... exactly nothing about how the future would roll out. Let's let everybody else make their own decisions and leave them alone.
Because marriage, to me, is already defined, as created by God, as a union between one man and one woman.
FIFY, and don't let Jesus catch you judging!
Sorry, but that doesn't work. Marriage is an institution created and ordained by God. Go make up your own word for these weird scenarios.
Marriage is a tax-break provided by the government, and a control structure meant to provide and indoctrinate children.
Like how you are trying to indoctrinate.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 07:49
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eww! These relationships shouldn’t be called marriages. They need to come up with another word.
Why shouldn't they be called marriages? Many marriages are already sexless, I don't see why a lavender marriage should get called out as different. They were adults going in. I went into my marriage knowing ... exactly nothing about how the future would roll out. Let's let everybody else make their own decisions and leave them alone.
Because marriage, to me, is already defined, as created by God, as a union between one man and one woman.
FIFY, and don't let Jesus catch you judging!
Sorry, but that doesn't work. Marriage is an institution created and ordained by God. Go make up your own word for these weird scenarios.
Marriage is a tax-break provided by the government, and a control structure meant to provide and indoctrinate children.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 07:47
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm in a relationship that could show up in a piece like this, which I've talked about before on this site. It has downsides, but it has upsides, like any marriage. My main takeaway, both of the article and my life, is that Tolstoy was wrong. Happy families aren't all alike. A lot of these arrangements wouldn't work for a lot of people, but they do for some people and that's good.
It’s not a connected relationship, with orgasms, anniversaries, deep affection. You wouldn’t want that for your kids and you know it.
I would rather my kids be in a marriage like mine than grow up to be the kind of person who goes on the Internet and tells a person they know nothing about what their life is like.
I'm deeply happy and in an affectionate, loving relationship. I'm happier than most people I know.
Nobody happy hangs out on this board, so I call BS.
Anonymous
10/10/2025 07:47
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm in a relationship that could show up in a piece like this, which I've talked about before on this site. It has downsides, but it has upsides, like any marriage. My main takeaway, both of the article and my life, is that Tolstoy was wrong. Happy families aren't all alike. A lot of these arrangements wouldn't work for a lot of people, but they do for some people and that's good.
It’s not a connected relationship, with orgasms, anniversaries, deep affection. You wouldn’t want that for your kids and you know it.
I married a straight man and had this exact problem, so maybe stop acting like all hetero unions are happy? Read the rest of this forum and see for yourself!
Anonymous
10/09/2025 23:27
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:I'm in a relationship that could show up in a piece like this, which I've talked about before on this site. It has downsides, but it has upsides, like any marriage. My main takeaway, both of the article and my life, is that Tolstoy was wrong. Happy families aren't all alike. A lot of these arrangements wouldn't work for a lot of people, but they do for some people and that's good.
Np. That makes a lot of sense to me. I’m in a straight marriage but it is mostly sexless at this point for various reasons, yet we’re both still happy.
I’m not the nasty posters above btw.. can you share what your relationship is like? Lavender?
Anonymous
10/09/2025 17:58
Subject: We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages
Anonymous wrote:https://wapo.st/4o44pjK
This is an article about people with different sexual orientations entering into legal marriage in the full knowledge of each other's orientation or asexuality. Essentially, it's about love that transcends gender.
What a beautiful piece, and honest people living honestly.
I know it's probably not easy, but it should open our eyes to all the possibilities out there.
“Our relationship is our career” and that poor dork doesn’t understand what “literal” means.