Anonymous wrote:My brother defends really bad people as an attorney and I struggle with my feelings towards him as a result. People like stalkers, violent rapists, pedophiles. He does it for the money. My kids googled him and found out some stuff and began asking questions in middle school. They wanted to know how his family was so active in their church etc and yet he supported them by defending pedophiles. Honestly I didn’t have a good answer for that. Yeah, you can say “people are different and make different choices” but I felt like my kids were asking a legitimate spiritual question that I couldn’t really answer without trashing my brother and his family, I often wonder what my brothers own kids think about his profession and what questions they ask him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Damn how privileged to be disgusted by family law attorneys. People just deserve to stay in bad marriages, right?
No one said anyone should stay in a bad marriage. You are being purposely obtuse. But you shouldn’t have to empty out your kids college funds to pay an attorney to get a divorce. Most family law attorneys are more than happy to do this. In my state, they can take liens on your family home too.
I now practice in this area on a pro bono basis bc I was so disgusted with the industry and what I saw. 95 percent of these attorneys - including the ones with the most ‘successful’ practices, the ‘super lawyer’ designations etc. care most about making $$.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My brother defends really bad people as an attorney and I struggle with my feelings towards him as a result. People like stalkers, violent rapists, pedophiles. He does it for the money. My kids googled him and found out some stuff and began asking questions in middle school. They wanted to know how his family was so active in their church etc and yet he supported them by defending pedophiles. Honestly I didn’t have a good answer for that. Yeah, you can say “people are different and make different choices” but I felt like my kids were asking a legitimate spiritual question that I couldn’t really answer without trashing my brother and his family, I often wonder what my brothers own kids think about his profession and what questions they ask him.
Defense attorneys are the most important check on police power we have. I’m not anti-police - I have cops in my family - but I understand the need to have a system in place to make sure police are using their massive power appropriately.
Anonymous wrote:My brother defends really bad people as an attorney and I struggle with my feelings towards him as a result. People like stalkers, violent rapists, pedophiles. He does it for the money. My kids googled him and found out some stuff and began asking questions in middle school. They wanted to know how his family was so active in their church etc and yet he supported them by defending pedophiles. Honestly I didn’t have a good answer for that. Yeah, you can say “people are different and make different choices” but I felt like my kids were asking a legitimate spiritual question that I couldn’t really answer without trashing my brother and his family, I often wonder what my brothers own kids think about his profession and what questions they ask him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just another plug for public defenders. The truly believe in the Constitution and the rights afforded everyone therein. It is their job to put the prosecution through their paces to ensure a fair trial, that the evidence collected was legal, the jury is as unbiased as possible, etc. They recognize that most of their clients are guilty, but our system requires due process. (at least it did before the current administration) They are truly overworked and underpaid. I had many friends from law school go into that type of work.
Eh, I know this is their spiel for why they do it, but going to trial and re-traumatizing victims in violent crimes and sexual assaults during cross-examination when you know your client did it and should cop a plea is never going to earn any respect from me.
The client is the one that gets to choose whether to accept a plea or not. You can't provide a subpar defense because you think they should have pled out.
Doesn’t change the fact that I have little to no respect for someone whose idea of providing an adequate defense to someone they know is guilty is trashing a rape victim or someone who’s been held up at gunpoint on cross-examination.
Anonymous wrote:My brother defends really bad people as an attorney and I struggle with my feelings towards him as a result. People like stalkers, violent rapists, pedophiles. He does it for the money. My kids googled him and found out some stuff and began asking questions in middle school. They wanted to know how his family was so active in their church etc and yet he supported them by defending pedophiles. Honestly I didn’t have a good answer for that. Yeah, you can say “people are different and make different choices” but I felt like my kids were asking a legitimate spiritual question that I couldn’t really answer without trashing my brother and his family, I often wonder what my brothers own kids think about his profession and what questions they ask him.
Anonymous wrote:My brother defends really bad people as an attorney and I struggle with my feelings towards him as a result. People like stalkers, violent rapists, pedophiles. He does it for the money. My kids googled him and found out some stuff and began asking questions in middle school. They wanted to know how his family was so active in their church etc and yet he supported them by defending pedophiles. Honestly I didn’t have a good answer for that. Yeah, you can say “people are different and make different choices” but I felt like my kids were asking a legitimate spiritual question that I couldn’t really answer without trashing my brother and his family, I often wonder what my brothers own kids think about his profession and what questions they ask him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:unfairly perhaps, but they elicit a strong reaction from me.
Anyone else have similar irrational feelings about certain career paths?
And yes, yes, I know it’s not rational, I’m biased, etc
- go see your shrink instead of wasting time here
Anonymous wrote:Damn how privileged to be disgusted by family law attorneys. People just deserve to stay in bad marriages, right?
Anonymous wrote:unfairly perhaps, but they elicit a strong reaction from me.
Anyone else have similar irrational feelings about certain career paths?
And yes, yes, I know it’s not rational, I’m biased, etc
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Damn how privileged to be disgusted by family law attorneys. People just deserve to stay in bad marriages, right?
People may or may not like their own divorce attorney, but they almost always dislike their ex’s attorney.