Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
What is your housing budget? Langley/Mclean/Oakton are great choices if you can afford to live in those areas. I honestly think you’re overthinking this.
I get it, dh and I had a hard time agreeing when we moved to this area. Our main issue was on the home. We were fortunate to have an amazing realtor who understood both our perspectives and found the right solution. On schools, we ended up going the Catholic school route, which I originally was not interested in but changed my mind before we moved here.
Assuming you have the budget for it, those schools are great. Lake Braddock/ Robinson/ WS will be more middle class and are fine choices as well, but if you can afford a $2m house, you’ll be with your people at the other ones.
They’re all good schools but Fairfax Station and Clifton have some $2m homes too. Not all of the kids at Lake Braddock or Robinson live in them but it’s not as if none of the kids do. But if you’re someone who needs to be with “your people” like PP, I guess you wouldn’t want to interact with the regular middle class people at those schools.
This data is a little old, but I heard Sangster is one of the wealthiest elementary schools in FCPS
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Sock puppet much?
OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do.
I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t.
This was not sock puppeting. Feel free to check with the moderator of this forum.
OP is either a troll or just looking for people to reaffirm her own preferences, which differ from those of her spouse. She came back days later and basically repeated her original post, which sent a message that others just wasting their time by treating her inquiry as one made in good faith.
DP. I called it earlier yesterday. OP is too high maintenance for public schools. She posted the same question previously in the AAP forum and seemed shocked the MS wouldn't give her kid a personalized tour of the school lockers. She should quickly find a private school that still has an opening.
Anonymous wrote:Both Langley and McLean are great. No high school in FCPS is really preppy now, given the current demographics/diversity in the county. They're both great for kids who are academically strong, but the kids don't have to be, nor all they all, "super advanced."
Anonymous wrote:OP, it sounds like you might be happiest with a pyramid like Lake Braddock, West Springfield, or Woodson. All are AP high schools. All three are solidly MC to UMC, and well-regarded. West Springfield and Lake Braddock in particular have a higher percentage of military families and see more transition in the student population (so may be a bit more welcoming for new kids transitioning in).
There’s no doubt that McLean, Oakton and Langley are good schools, but they do skew wealthy and college admissions may be a bit more competitive. They are generally considered the most “prestigious” because the neighborhoods feeding them are the most consistently expensive. Kids may feel more pressure there to wear designer clothes, take fancy vacations, etc.
Chantilly is also more middle of the road but—right or wrong—it does have a reputation as being higher pressure (possibly due to its higher percentage of Asian students). Ten to fifteen years ago, Woodson had a similar reputation, but it seems to have gotten less intense in recent years. There is a popular synagogue in the Woodson neighborhood that may be a plus if your family is Jewish.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Sock puppet much?
OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do.
I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t.
This was not sock puppeting. Feel free to check with the moderator of this forum.
OP is either a troll or just looking for people to reaffirm her own preferences, which differ from those of her spouse. She came back days later and basically repeated her original post, which sent a message that others just wasting their time by treating her inquiry as one made in good faith.
Not PP. But “days later”. You seem to be spending too much time here and seem to have lost all sense of time.
The original post was on 5th and I just checked, follow-up post was yesterday on 6th. How is that days later?!
Be nice. I see a couple of posters picking on OP. The poster and their family seem to have gone through or going thru some tough times like some of us have.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Sock puppet much?
OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do.
I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t.
This was not sock puppeting. Feel free to check with the moderator of this forum.
OP is either a troll or just looking for people to reaffirm her own preferences, which differ from those of her spouse. She came back days later and basically repeated her original post, which sent a message that others just wasting their time by treating her inquiry as one made in good faith.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
What is your housing budget? Langley/Mclean/Oakton are great choices if you can afford to live in those areas. I honestly think you’re overthinking this.
I get it, dh and I had a hard time agreeing when we moved to this area. Our main issue was on the home. We were fortunate to have an amazing realtor who understood both our perspectives and found the right solution. On schools, we ended up going the Catholic school route, which I originally was not interested in but changed my mind before we moved here.
Assuming you have the budget for it, those schools are great. Lake Braddock/ Robinson/ WS will be more middle class and are fine choices as well, but if you can afford a $2m house, you’ll be with your people at the other ones.
They’re all good schools but Fairfax Station and Clifton have some $2m homes too. Not all of the kids at Lake Braddock or Robinson live in them but it’s not as if none of the kids do. But if you’re someone who needs to be with “your people” like PP, I guess you wouldn’t want to interact with the regular middle class people at those schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Sock puppet much?
OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do.
I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t.
This was not sock puppeting. Feel free to check with the moderator of this forum.
OP is either a troll or just looking for people to reaffirm her own preferences, which differ from those of her spouse. She came back days later and basically repeated her original post, which sent a message that others just wasting their time by treating her inquiry as one made in good faith.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Sock puppet much?
OP doesn’t know any better - to stereotype. She has stated she is repeating opinions of family and friends and is confused. Who wouldn’t be?! Aren’t we a bit much (extra as my teen daughter would say) here on DCUM. I have never across an adult forum with such nasty posts. It don’t know if it’s 1 in 5 people here or if it’s the same few people who have nothing better to do.
I am not surprised at all at these differing opinions either. Anyone who has spent any time on DCUM shouldn’t be and isn’t.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
You just keep repeating the same crap even when people make a sincere effort to disabuse you of the incorrect stereotypes. Please stay away from Langley, Mclean, and Oakton - they are doing fine and quite honestly you're exhausting.
+100
Absurd stereotyping.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.
What is your housing budget? Langley/Mclean/Oakton are great choices if you can afford to live in those areas. I honestly think you’re overthinking this.
I get it, dh and I had a hard time agreeing when we moved to this area. Our main issue was on the home. We were fortunate to have an amazing realtor who understood both our perspectives and found the right solution. On schools, we ended up going the Catholic school route, which I originally was not interested in but changed my mind before we moved here.
Assuming you have the budget for it, those schools are great. Lake Braddock/ Robinson/ WS will be more middle class and are fine choices as well, but if you can afford a $2m house, you’ll be with your people at the other ones.
Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for taking the time to comment. If you have any more thoughts please don’t hold back - am not a troll. Usually make sound decisions but it’s been a crazy few months with family passing, pressing/ongoing older child health situation, move etc so a bit frazzled and out of my element wrt this situation.
Most people here have had time and lots of input from family/friends to make such a big decision. I feel that if had time to research here more, maybe the answer would come to me but that’s also crazy I know.
Also first time DH and I are not in agreement about something imp. DH’s short list is Langley/Mclean/Oakton.
I don’t have a shortlist yet but don’t feel that’s quite right for us (preppy, intense, drugs). Maybe leaning towards Chantilly but don’t know if West Springfield or Lake Braddock are better. Also, are the number of houses being listed typical for the area in summer? I expected more.
Appreciate the clarification that there is no possibility of transferring to a better school other than with a move. That’s not going to happen in a week and a half. So we will need to decide asap what to do for the immediate future.