Anonymous
07/23/2025 17:59
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
It’s always the people without passports more concerned about Islamist violence in Europe than gun violence in the United States.
very good point.
I don’t have a passport because I’m absolutely terrified of flying. I’ve tried anti anxiety meds and it does not help. The stress of an international flight is not worth any cultural gains to me. But that’s me. Everyone is different. I know a lot of people that take a lot of pride in how much they travel internationally.
I can understand that, but are you more concerned about Muslim terrorists in Europe than our home grown gun violence?
That's what the PP was stating. If you are, then you are ridiculous.
FWIW, my parents are uneducated, and the first time they traveled outside of the US other than going back to their home country was when I had a destination wedding in Europe. They were in their 60s/70 when that happened.
Abortion kills more children than a pew pew, you don’t care about that though.
If you care about those babies so much, why don't you want taxpayer money to support them? But, you don't really care about born babies that much, right? Just punishing them whores, right?
Anonymous
07/23/2025 17:56
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
There’s something to be said about people who never leave their town/state/country. General disinterest and insular.
Careful… your privilege is showing. Many cannot afford international travel.
I don’t know… my in laws and BIL/SIL are kind of like OPs in some ways. They complain about how they could never afford an international travel (we travel internationally a lot to visit my family and just for general travel), yet they go to Disney or universal with the whole family two to three times a year. They definitely could afford an international vacation based on what they spend on trips, and we’ve pointed that out to them several times, but they still complain about it so we don’t say anything now. It’s weird but I think it’s a mental roadblock for them that international travel is something they can’t afford so they somehow don’t see it. To be fair they probably can’t actually afford all of their Disney trips but my husband’s family spends literally every cent they have of the not horrible but not great salary they have and refuse to save for retirement because my BIL says he’ll just work until he drops dead so he might as well enjoy his time now.
So, it sounds like they can take multiple domestic trips for the cost of one international trip and that's a perfectly valid choice. They can't afford to travel internationally (at the same rate they travel currently). They don't have to scrimp and save to travel internationally just to seem more interesting to you. You seem pretty judgmental so you would probably still say they chose a trite, touristy area like Rome or Paris.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 15:41
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
It’s always the people without passports more concerned about Islamist violence in Europe than gun violence in the United States.
very good point.
I don’t have a passport because I’m absolutely terrified of flying. I’ve tried anti anxiety meds and it does not help. The stress of an international flight is not worth any cultural gains to me. But that’s me. Everyone is different. I know a lot of people that take a lot of pride in how much they travel internationally.
I can understand that, but are you more concerned about Muslim terrorists in Europe than our home grown gun violence?
That's what the PP was stating. If you are, then you are ridiculous.
FWIW, my parents are uneducated, and the first time they traveled outside of the US other than going back to their home country was when I had a destination wedding in Europe. They were in their 60s/70 when that happened.
Abortion kills more children than a pew pew, you don’t care about that though.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 15:39
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
It’s always the people without passports more concerned about Islamist violence in Europe than gun violence in the United States.
very good point.
I don’t have a passport because I’m absolutely terrified of flying. I’ve tried anti anxiety meds and it does not help. The stress of an international flight is not worth any cultural gains to me. But that’s me. Everyone is different. I know a lot of people that take a lot of pride in how much they travel internationally.
I can understand that, but are you more concerned about Muslim terrorists in Europe than our home grown gun violence?
That's what the PP was stating. If you are, then you are ridiculous.
FWIW, my parents are uneducated, and the first time they traveled outside of the US other than going back to their home country was when I had a destination wedding in Europe. They were in their 60s/70 when that happened.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 15:24
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
It’s always the people without passports more concerned about Islamist violence in Europe than gun violence in the United States.
very good point.
I don’t have a passport because I’m absolutely terrified of flying. I’ve tried anti anxiety meds and it does not help. The stress of an international flight is not worth any cultural gains to me. But that’s me. Everyone is different. I know a lot of people that take a lot of pride in how much they travel internationally.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:56
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote: Changing of the POA will not change the spending issue. Having a POA does not allow you to spend on someone’s account. You have to have been given permission through the bank or cc company to do that.
It's possible SIL has the MILs' bank card.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:55
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What’s a presidential system?
We found OP's inlaws!
A presidential system is what the US has, as compared to a parliamentary system like Canada has.
OP, just limit your exposure and that of your kids. Don't allow any unsupervised visits with the inlaws. I do feel badly for their ignorance, lack of education and addiction issues- but not badly enough to want to be exposed to it.
PS, leave the concern for MIL's finances to DH. It's his family and doesn't become you to fixate on that.
Now you’re just making things up. If Canada doesn’t have a president, who makes all the decisions?
Canada has a Prime Minister not a president 🤦🏻♀️
That doesn’t even make any sense. Canada isn’t a church, duh.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:54
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What’s a presidential system?
We found OP's inlaws!
A presidential system is what the US has, as compared to a parliamentary system like Canada has.
OP, just limit your exposure and that of your kids. Don't allow any unsupervised visits with the inlaws. I do feel badly for their ignorance, lack of education and addiction issues- but not badly enough to want to be exposed to it.
PS, leave the concern for MIL's finances to DH. It's his family and doesn't become you to fixate on that.
Now you’re just making things up. If Canada doesn’t have a president, who makes all the decisions?
Canada has a Prime Minister not a president 🤦🏻♀️
TBF, some countries have both a Prime Minister and a President. But, not Canada. They only have a PM, as you stated.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:47
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
It’s always the people without passports more concerned about Islamist violence in Europe than gun violence in the United States.
very good point.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:43
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:So you think less of people with minimal access to education and of people who have addiction problems. You sound like a snob.
np.. nah. My parents are uneducated immigrants; my sisters have just an associates degree. But, these folks do sound like trash.
Saying racist things is bad enough, but the addictions, abusing POA... definitely trashy behavior.
My family members may be uneducated, and at times, have stated some racist stuff themselves (old country immigrants), but they would never abuse the POA for a family member, nor do they tolerate addicts.
They have a "pull yourself up by your bootstrap" mentality, too.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 14:38
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
There’s something to be said about people who never leave their town/state/country. General disinterest and insular.
Careful… your privilege is showing. Many cannot afford international travel.
I don’t know… my in laws and BIL/SIL are kind of like OPs in some ways. They complain about how they could never afford an international travel (we travel internationally a lot to visit my family and just for general travel), yet they go to Disney or universal with the whole family two to three times a year. They definitely could afford an international vacation based on what they spend on trips, and we’ve pointed that out to them several times, but they still complain about it so we don’t say anything now. It’s weird but I think it’s a mental roadblock for them that international travel is something they can’t afford so they somehow don’t see it. To be fair they probably can’t actually afford all of their Disney trips but my husband’s family spends literally every cent they have of the not horrible but not great salary they have and refuse to save for retirement because my BIL says he’ll just work until he drops dead so he might as well enjoy his time now.
It’s so weird that people value international travel and have never travelled the breadth of their own country.
I know they will argue about the cultural experience, but there is very little culture any more in the typical
Tourist hotspots. Yes, you get to see the old buildings but most people are going on the English speaking tour with their English speaking tourist friends, staying at English speaking chain hotels, and found to safe chain or predictable restaurants. They’re not going into the country and exploring, much like they don’t go into their own country to explore anything beyond their own worlds or tourist areas.
This is the poster you responded to and I generally agree with what you're saying but I do think international travel has more benefits than going to Disney or Universal repeatedly. I don't get that at all. I would go once or twice with my kids but not for every vacation. We also love road tripping and national parks and we've invited BIL and SIL on some of those trips and they don't "want to waste his vacation time" on going to anything but Disney/universal.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 10:47
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
There’s something to be said about people who never leave their town/state/country. General disinterest and insular.
Careful… your privilege is showing. Many cannot afford international travel.
I don’t know… my in laws and BIL/SIL are kind of like OPs in some ways. They complain about how they could never afford an international travel (we travel internationally a lot to visit my family and just for general travel), yet they go to Disney or universal with the whole family two to three times a year. They definitely could afford an international vacation based on what they spend on trips, and we’ve pointed that out to them several times, but they still complain about it so we don’t say anything now. It’s weird but I think it’s a mental roadblock for them that international travel is something they can’t afford so they somehow don’t see it. To be fair they probably can’t actually afford all of their Disney trips but my husband’s family spends literally every cent they have of the not horrible but not great salary they have and refuse to save for retirement because my BIL says he’ll just work until he drops dead so he might as well enjoy his time now.
It’s so weird that people value international travel and have never travelled the breadth of their own country.
I know they will argue about the cultural experience, but there is very little culture any more in the typical
Tourist hotspots. Yes, you get to see the old buildings but most people are going on the English speaking tour with their English speaking tourist friends, staying at English speaking chain hotels, and found to safe chain or predictable restaurants. They’re not going into the country and exploring, much like they don’t go into their own country to explore anything beyond their own worlds or tourist areas.
Anonymous
07/23/2025 07:03
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:God forbid someone doesn’t own a passport! What trash!
There’s something to be said about people who never leave their town/state/country. General disinterest and insular.
Careful… your privilege is showing. Many cannot afford international travel.
I don’t know… my in laws and BIL/SIL are kind of like OPs in some ways. They complain about how they could never afford an international travel (we travel internationally a lot to visit my family and just for general travel), yet they go to Disney or universal with the whole family two to three times a year. They definitely could afford an international vacation based on what they spend on trips, and we’ve pointed that out to them several times, but they still complain about it so we don’t say anything now. It’s weird but I think it’s a mental roadblock for them that international travel is something they can’t afford so they somehow don’t see it. To be fair they probably can’t actually afford all of their Disney trips but my husband’s family spends literally every cent they have of the not horrible but not great salary they have and refuse to save for retirement because my BIL says he’ll just work until he drops dead so he might as well enjoy his time now.
Anonymous
07/22/2025 16:51
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Why don’t you just divorce, OP? There are so many better families you can marry into. I wouldn’t waste another second of my life in that mess.
Anonymous
07/22/2025 16:47
Subject: I hate my husbands trashbag family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They don’t sound that terrible. Suck it up.
What about this isn't terrible?
- Drinking and driving with an open container on the road
- Spending MIL's money
- Gambling 20K of your spouse's funds
- Dropping the N word and racist jokes
Having 2 beers is not drinking and driving and you know that.
What?!? Drinking beer in a moving vehicle is drinking and driving. Stop arguing.