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Anonymous wrote:Your best bet is to be yourself. Always go on dates with full makeup, perfect hair, manicure/pedicure, heels, fancy clothing.

Some men really appreciate a girly girl who always looks perfect by their side. Don’t downplay this part of your personality and make sure it is something he appreciates.

I don’t really do makeup, nails, or hair much. My high maintenance is subscriptions, massages, a house cleaner, etc.

I'm a man. With the caveat that I don't know what you're subscribing to, this doesn't sound like high maintenance. Rather, sounds like someone with a lot of disposable income. Elsewhere, you mention using mealkits. That's also more expensive than buying the food yourself and cooking.

If you want to have kids, your family will need a high income to maintain your lifestyle.

Avarice and sloth are not generally considered an attractive characteristics. Consider whether someone willing to tolerate those during the initial novelty phase of a relationship it will be happy to do so in the long term.

Guy here who prefers high maintenance, OP you are not high maintenance.

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Anonymous wrote:You better look like Ana de Armas and be open to anal on the first date with that attitude.

Lol why are most men in this site so anal obsessed or having. Things in their own butt

Feels amazing when it hits the prostate.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you fat? I know it sounds superficial, but lots of guys care more about that than whether a woman pays for a cleaning service or uses meal kits.

No. Petite with a slender frame and ample breasts.

Sound fabulous to me. How ample? Cup size… 🙏

36C

Nice!

Im a 34d though it really isn't that big of a cup size

How's your butt? Don't tell me it's flat like a pancake

Nope not yet. It's quite round. Bigger than my tits. Is yours a pancake

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Anonymous wrote:Are you fat? I know it sounds superficial, but lots of guys care more about that than whether a woman pays for a cleaning service or uses meal kits.

No. Petite with a slender frame and ample breasts.

Sound fabulous to me. How ample? Cup size… 🙏

36C

Nice!

Im a 34d though it really isn't that big of a cup size

How's your butt? Don't tell me it's flat like a pancake

36 band size is fat

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Anonymous wrote:Are you fat? I know it sounds superficial, but lots of guys care more about that than whether a woman pays for a cleaning service or uses meal kits.

No. Petite with a slender frame and ample breasts.

Sound fabulous to me. How ample? Cup size… 🙏

36C

Nice!

Im a 34d though it really isn't that big of a cup size

Anonymous wrote:You better look like Ana de Armas and be open to anal on the first date with that attitude.

Lol why are most men in this site so anal obsessed or having. Things in their own butt

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your best bet is to be yourself. Always go on dates with full makeup, perfect hair, manicure/pedicure, heels, fancy clothing.

Some men really appreciate a girly girl who always looks perfect by their side. Don’t downplay this part of your personality and make sure it is something he appreciates.

I don’t really do makeup, nails, or hair much. My high maintenance is subscriptions, massages, a house cleaner, etc.

Heh I'm a 43 yr old though don't look it and for those saying nah I would love to meet you to prove you wrong. But I'm the high maintenance girly girl perfect hair makeup skin body hair etc. I get hot men all the time but no family by choice.

You better look like Ana de Armas and be open to anal on the first date with that attitude.

Why are you worried about this? I’m asking because they are normal things, and I don’t think a man will mind them, especially if you can afford them without financial stress. Have you received feedback about it?

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Anonymous wrote:Your best bet is to be yourself. Always go on dates with full makeup, perfect hair, manicure/pedicure, heels, fancy clothing.

Some men really appreciate a girly girl who always looks perfect by their side. Don’t downplay this part of your personality and make sure it is something he appreciates.

I don’t really do makeup, nails, or hair much. My high maintenance is subscriptions, massages, a house cleaner, etc.

This doesn’t sound like high maintenance. Sounds like a lazy person who spends a lot. I don’t think most men care about how much you spend as long as you make $$$.

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Why is she lazy???? I dated tons of guys who loved Doordash, good wine, and going to new restaurants etc. They never cooked at home and no one ever called them lazy.

Misogyny.

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Anonymous wrote:Your best bet is to be yourself. Always go on dates with full makeup, perfect hair, manicure/pedicure, heels, fancy clothing.

Some men really appreciate a girly girl who always looks perfect by their side. Don’t downplay this part of your personality and make sure it is something he appreciates.

I don’t really do makeup, nails, or hair much. My high maintenance is subscriptions, massages, a house cleaner, etc.

This doesn’t sound like high maintenance. Sounds like a lazy person who spends a lot. I don’t think most men care about how much you spend as long as you make $$$.

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Why is she lazy???? I dated tons of guys who loved Doordash, good wine, and going to new restaurants etc. They never cooked at home and no one ever called them lazy.

If you have other attributes you are not a lost cause.
If you like wine tastings scope for guys there, it is something in common.
House cleaning services and food subscriptions are a rounding error to guys. We don’t care at all unless you are a zero on domestic scale.
But being zero domestically means you need be an 8 or 9 to a guy elsewhere. Personality makes up for some; or being hot makes up for a lot in most cases.