Anonymous wrote:Our team is thinking of instituting a point system for volunteering and I am trying to understand how this works.
I have two Qs:
For your team, what are the consequences of not earning sufficient volunteer points?
For your team, is there an option to buy out the points - just pay a certain amount per point maybe? I have no judgement on this as an option. Just wondering how it works since it’s part of the proposal for our team for next summer.
Anonymous wrote:Our team is thinking of instituting a point system for volunteering and I am trying to understand how this works.
I have two Qs:
For your team, what are the consequences of not earning sufficient volunteer points?
For your team, is there an option to buy out the points - just pay a certain amount per point maybe? I have no judgement on this as an option. Just wondering how it works since it’s part of the proposal for our team for next summer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The concessions price gouging is another story
Maybe? It’s hard to know for sure. Some teams have to independently fund raise without the support of the pool. Coaches salaries, equipment costs, and other items will easily run a team thousands of dollars and then some.
Anonymous wrote:We're relatively new but I think any of the table jobs where you're sitting down writing or reading out times, ribbons, etc. are considered better and go fast (or are taken before signups begin). Timers and kid wranglers seem less desirable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think any of the “fun” social volunteer slots should be filled until the slots required to host a meet are filled. Great there is a Friday morning pancake breakfast but timers are more important when running a swim meet.
Personally I think the volunteer tasks should be stripped to a bare minimum. Only necessary ones like timing meets should count towards volunteer requirements. Kids dont need snacks, gift bags, pancake breakfasts, banquets. If someone wants to do that on their own time, fine. But dont pressure me into it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think any of the “fun” social volunteer slots should be filled until the slots required to host a meet are filled. Great there is a Friday morning pancake breakfast but timers are more important when running a swim meet.
Personally I think the volunteer tasks should be stripped to a bare minimum. Only necessary ones like timing meets should count towards volunteer requirements. Kids dont need snacks, gift bags, pancake breakfasts, banquets. If someone wants to do that on their own time, fine. But dont pressure me into it.
Does your team do senior speeches? These are the things that seniors cite as their favorite memories of swim team. It’s not just about the hours in the water and the meets. The extra things like pancake breakfasts and raft nights are the things that bring true joy to summer swim.
If this doesn’t jive with you, if the extras irritate you, then don’t sign your kids up for summer swim. It’s as simple as that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have to get 10 points a family. There doesn’t seem to be any enforcement of this and there are families that never volunteer (and there’s no buy out option). It’s a really strange environment with parents - like there’s some sort of hierarchy of volunteering and the “best” jobs are done by a clique of the “in-crowd”. I’m not in middle school anymore so I couldn’t care less, but the discussion between timers yesterday made it very clear that some of them were angling to be the head timer. lol…
I’m really curious; what are these “best” jobs? I became our team’s head timer after the previous one’s kid graduated, and I was asked if I would do it. It’s fine, but no one on our team has ever seemed jealous of this, or any other position. It’s more like trying to find enough people to fill such positions.
Preach! Nobody is jealous of any of these jobs. I will say that ribbon writing is pretty easy if you are going to be there anyway. Runners are also a good job if you want to get your steps in and not have to wrangle kids. It is very easy to watch your kid/s swim with both of these jobs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have to get 10 points a family. There doesn’t seem to be any enforcement of this and there are families that never volunteer (and there’s no buy out option). It’s a really strange environment with parents - like there’s some sort of hierarchy of volunteering and the “best” jobs are done by a clique of the “in-crowd”. I’m not in middle school anymore so I couldn’t care less, but the discussion between timers yesterday made it very clear that some of them were angling to be the head timer. lol…
I’m really curious; what are these “best” jobs? I became our team’s head timer after the previous one’s kid graduated, and I was asked if I would do it. It’s fine, but no one on our team has ever seemed jealous of this, or any other position. It’s more like trying to find enough people to fill such positions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tanterra does this. I think it’s around 17 points per family. Feels unfair to families where both parents are working during the summer.
Parents need to choose activities that work for them, or find solutions.
Summer swim worked for my family when other activities that cost more because they don’t rely on volunteers didn’t. I didn’t go to those activities and complain that they were unfair to my middle class family. I recognized that they weren’t for us.
It’s ok to say that summer swim isn’t for you. It’s also ok to problem solve. My teens are happy to work set up, take down, picking up things for you, for a price. Hire a babysitter and work a meet your kids aren’t in. Or arrange your schedule to watch your kids and work at the meets they do swim in.
Spinning off this comment, something I don't understand about the culture of summer swim at our pool is that all these strong, strapping teen swimmers leave at the end without lifting a finger at all to help while the parents are left to move all the chairs, tables, benches, umbrellas, etc. back into place. Some are wrought iron and heavy. Why can't each teen put one chair back into place or something on their way out?
Oh my god YES. We don't do swim team but it is huge at our community pool so I see how it functions. All these moms out there setting out chairs and taking out and putting back in ladders! Why the heck aren't their teenage kids doing this instead! These kids seem so spoiled. And why the moms and not the dads? It's ridiculous.
I'm the PP who suggested hiring other people's teenagers. I see a huge variation in this from pool to pool, and from family to family. Our pool does have some teenagers who help out, but could definitely have more. I see the same pattern in other activities my kids are in. In some families the kids don't help in any context, and I find that sad.
At the same time, by the end of the meet, my teens have usually helped with set up, and then spent the whole morning wrangling the little kids. Many days, they have a few minutes to scarf down some food before their lifeguarding shift begins. I've put in way more than my share of hours as stroke and turn. If a parent who chose not to come early for set up, and chose not to volunteer during the meet despite being there, signs up for take down, I don't feel the need to have my kid do that job for them.
Anonymous wrote:We have to get 10 points a family. There doesn’t seem to be any enforcement of this and there are families that never volunteer (and there’s no buy out option). It’s a really strange environment with parents - like there’s some sort of hierarchy of volunteering and the “best” jobs are done by a clique of the “in-crowd”. I’m not in middle school anymore so I couldn’t care less, but the discussion between timers yesterday made it very clear that some of them were angling to be the head timer. lol…
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think any of the “fun” social volunteer slots should be filled until the slots required to host a meet are filled. Great there is a Friday morning pancake breakfast but timers are more important when running a swim meet.
Personally I think the volunteer tasks should be stripped to a bare minimum. Only necessary ones like timing meets should count towards volunteer requirements. Kids dont need snacks, gift bags, pancake breakfasts, banquets. If someone wants to do that on their own time, fine. But dont pressure me into it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tanterra does this. I think it’s around 17 points per family. Feels unfair to families where both parents are working during the summer.
Parents need to choose activities that work for them, or find solutions.
Summer swim worked for my family when other activities that cost more because they don’t rely on volunteers didn’t. I didn’t go to those activities and complain that they were unfair to my middle class family. I recognized that they weren’t for us.
It’s ok to say that summer swim isn’t for you. It’s also ok to problem solve. My teens are happy to work set up, take down, picking up things for you, for a price. Hire a babysitter and work a meet your kids aren’t in. Or arrange your schedule to watch your kids and work at the meets they do swim in.
Spinning off this comment, something I don't understand about the culture of summer swim at our pool is that all these strong, strapping teen swimmers leave at the end without lifting a finger at all to help while the parents are left to move all the chairs, tables, benches, umbrellas, etc. back into place. Some are wrought iron and heavy. Why can't each teen put one chair back into place or something on their way out?
Oh my god YES. We don't do swim team but it is huge at our community pool so I see how it functions. All these moms out there setting out chairs and taking out and putting back in ladders! Why the heck aren't their teenage kids doing this instead! These kids seem so spoiled. And why the moms and not the dads? It's ridiculous.
I'm the PP who suggested hiring other people's teenagers. I see a huge variation in this from pool to pool, and from family to family. Our pool does have some teenagers who help out, but could definitely have more. I see the same pattern in other activities my kids are in. In some families the kids don't help in any context, and I find that sad.
At the same time, by the end of the meet, my teens have usually helped with set up, and then spent the whole morning wrangling the little kids. Many days, they have a few minutes to scarf down some food before their lifeguarding shift begins. I've put in way more than my share of hours as stroke and turn. If a parent who chose not to come early for set up, and chose not to volunteer during the meet despite being there, signs up for take down, I don't feel the need to have my kid do that job for them.
I'm the original PP asking, and our pool has mandatory volunteer slots per family so I don't think there are slacker families. We have parent volunteers to wrangle little kids so teens aren't doing that. I don't see the teens doing any of what you describe. It is only a few little kids who help with setup and breakdown, because they are there with their parents. As the PP said, the teens seem so spoiled. [And, yes, mostly moms doing the setup and breakdown at our pool, too].
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think any of the “fun” social volunteer slots should be filled until the slots required to host a meet are filled. Great there is a Friday morning pancake breakfast but timers are more important when running a swim meet.
Personally I think the volunteer tasks should be stripped to a bare minimum. Only necessary ones like timing meets should count towards volunteer requirements. Kids dont need snacks, gift bags, pancake breakfasts, banquets. If someone wants to do that on their own time, fine. But dont pressure me into it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tanterra does this. I think it’s around 17 points per family. Feels unfair to families where both parents are working during the summer.
Parents need to choose activities that work for them, or find solutions.
Summer swim worked for my family when other activities that cost more because they don’t rely on volunteers didn’t. I didn’t go to those activities and complain that they were unfair to my middle class family. I recognized that they weren’t for us.
It’s ok to say that summer swim isn’t for you. It’s also ok to problem solve. My teens are happy to work set up, take down, picking up things for you, for a price. Hire a babysitter and work a meet your kids aren’t in. Or arrange your schedule to watch your kids and work at the meets they do swim in.
Spinning off this comment, something I don't understand about the culture of summer swim at our pool is that all these strong, strapping teen swimmers leave at the end without lifting a finger at all to help while the parents are left to move all the chairs, tables, benches, umbrellas, etc. back into place. Some are wrought iron and heavy. Why can't each teen put one chair back into place or something on their way out?
Oh my god YES. We don't do swim team but it is huge at our community pool so I see how it functions. All these moms out there setting out chairs and taking out and putting back in ladders! Why the heck aren't their teenage kids doing this instead! These kids seem so spoiled. And why the moms and not the dads? It's ridiculous.
I'm the PP who suggested hiring other people's teenagers. I see a huge variation in this from pool to pool, and from family to family. Our pool does have some teenagers who help out, but could definitely have more. I see the same pattern in other activities my kids are in. In some families the kids don't help in any context, and I find that sad.
At the same time, by the end of the meet, my teens have usually helped with set up, and then spent the whole morning wrangling the little kids. Many days, they have a few minutes to scarf down some food before their lifeguarding shift begins. I've put in way more than my share of hours as stroke and turn. If a parent who chose not to come early for set up, and chose not to volunteer during the meet despite being there, signs up for take down, I don't feel the need to have my kid do that job for them.