Anonymous wrote:Unless you are talking about late September, the weather could be equally hot or hotter than an early June wedding. Or it could rain. Or be too cold. It sounds like weather is driving a lot of your decision but the difference between those months is not drastic enough to make a decision on that. You don't know what you will get.

If you have people traveling in, I would take a look at average flights/hotel costs and make sure there isn't a big difference over the dates you select. Let that be more of a determining factor. Yes, schools are an issue for parents but June isn't really much better since the kids will be getting out then and you still need childcare.

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Anonymous wrote:When I got engaged my sister said “pick the venue or pick the date and the rest will fall into place.”

Are there particular strong reasons a date will or won’t work? For instance, we got engaged in May, my sister in law was pregnant and couldn’t travel until Sept, and my sister had two international trips for work in March and April the next spring. We didn’t want to wait a full year so we focused on Oct - Feb timeframe. My sister had a venue she really wanted and it was only open in the summer. She got engaged in the summertime and the venue was already booked the following summer for weekends except for one weekend in July, so she booked it. Conversely, is there a strong reason not to marry on a given date (big work project due, loved one died on that day…)?

Nothing serious or meaningful. I just don’t want to be hot. I also think the weeding color options - dark green or wine colored - will look best for a fall wedding. I really hate the heat and burn easily. I don’t want to be hot on my wedding day and get sunburned.

Anonymous wrote:If you can't agree on something as simple as a wedding date, this marriage is going nowhere.

Anonymous wrote:If you can't agree on something as simple as a wedding date, this marriage is going nowhere.

Anonymous wrote:If you can't agree on something as simple as a wedding date, this marriage is going nowhere.

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Anonymous wrote:Don't get married, this marriage won't last.

Why would you say that? Sounds crazy to judge that based on this alone.

For further explanation

Me: I’ve always wanted a fall wedding. Fall is my favorite season and September just seems like a beautiful time to get married. I hate hot weather.

Fiancé: He wants a summer wedding. Fall is okay but he thinks summer will be more beautiful.

We can’t do spring because of his allergies. Neither of us want a winter wedding.

We are getting married in Chicago where we are both from. He wants a June wedding ( so it won’t be too hot) and I want a cooler September wedding.

Troll

How am I a troll? Are you the weirdo calling troll on every post because you’re a bored miserable person?

Quick response sock puppeting too! Naaaaice!

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Anonymous wrote:I got married in late September in Ohio and the weather was perfect. It’s a great time of year to get married.

You should also think about celebrating your anniversary every year. Hopefully, you’ll be married way more years than the number of years you have minor children. If you get married during the school year, you can take a lot of anniversary trips when it’s not peak travel season.

We aren’t sure we will have kids. Neither of us are really that into the thought but we might change our mind.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't get married, this marriage won't last.

Why would you say that? Sounds crazy to judge that based on this alone.

For further explanation

Me: I’ve always wanted a fall wedding. Fall is my favorite season and September just seems like a beautiful time to get married. I hate hot weather.

Fiancé: He wants a summer wedding. Fall is okay but he thinks summer will be more beautiful.

We can’t do spring because of his allergies. Neither of us want a winter wedding.

We are getting married in Chicago where we are both from. He wants a June wedding ( so it won’t be too hot) and I want a cooler September wedding.

Troll

How am I a troll? Are you the weirdo calling troll on every post because you’re a bored miserable person?

Anonymous wrote:I got married in late September in Ohio and the weather was perfect. It’s a great time of year to get married.

You should also think about celebrating your anniversary every year. Hopefully, you’ll be married way more years than the number of years you have minor children. If you get married during the school year, you can take a lot of anniversary trips when it’s not peak travel season.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't get married, this marriage won't last.

Why would you say that? Sounds crazy to judge that based on this alone.

For further explanation

Me: I’ve always wanted a fall wedding. Fall is my favorite season and September just seems like a beautiful time to get married. I hate hot weather.

Fiancé: He wants a summer wedding. Fall is okay but he thinks summer will be more beautiful.

We can’t do spring because of his allergies. Neither of us want a winter wedding.

We are getting married in Chicago where we are both from. He wants a June wedding ( so it won’t be too hot) and I want a cooler September wedding.

Troll

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Anonymous wrote:Do not get married

Weddings are one half a day marriage is a lifetime if you don’t know that by now you should not get married

Skip the wedding, jsut elope and have a series of dinner parties in cities w critical mass of family or friends. Bfd. Or just elope

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't get married, this marriage won't last.

Why would you say that? Sounds crazy to judge that based on this alone.

For further explanation

Me: I’ve always wanted a fall wedding. Fall is my favorite season and September just seems like a beautiful time to get married. I hate hot weather.

Fiancé: He wants a summer wedding. Fall is okay but he thinks summer will be more beautiful.

We can’t do spring because of his allergies. Neither of us want a winter wedding.

We are getting married in Chicago where we are both from. He wants a June wedding ( so it won’t be too hot) and I want a cooler September wedding.

Anonymous wrote:Do not get married

Weddings are one half a day marriage is a lifetime if you don’t know that by now you should not get married