Anonymous
Post 04/30/2025 09:10     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
worth^
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2025 09:09     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out

Not your husband .. Zero need to tolerate. Especially since your drinking styles don't align.

Move on ..

Sounds like you're overlooking his excessive drinking due to his net work.

You have options!

Anonymous
Post 04/30/2025 09:06     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
Anonymous wrote:I keep reading this as three bears


LOL! I did at first glance .. OMG!
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2025 09:00     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
Anonymous wrote:48, white, business owner, ~4M income last year, Mclean, "connected"...

Proceeds to have three or four more drinks at whatever event we are at.

I met him OLD and I'm not really a drinker. I'll have 6 months where I have zero drinks and then 2 months where I have maybe 10 drinks a month.

I like him but this worrys me


You've never heard of pregaming?
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 21:25     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
I keep reading this as three bears
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 21:24     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
Anonymous wrote:4m income 3.5m expenses lol


😂
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 18:03     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
I didn't know that rich people aren't supposed to be using on line dating.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 17:36     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
7 drinks a day is alcoholic
Consumption will get worse over time.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 17:28     Subject: Re:Three Beers Before Going Out
This is functional alcoholism. You are not a match, and from the way you describe him, you already know that. Just stop dating him.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 17:20     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
Anyone who needs alcohol or drugs to feel good is either already an alcoholic or one in making.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 17:00     Subject: Re:Three Beers Before Going Out
Does he seem wasted? Does he do it daily or is this only on a Saturday? Is he sneaking in more when you're not looking?

I agree with PP that said it's odd he's on OLD when he's rich.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 16:54     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
4m income 3.5m expenses lol
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 16:47     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
If you make that kind of money, you should absolutely not be sharing that information with someone you just began dating. This is horrible judgement, almost as bad as drinking all the time.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 16:33     Subject: Re:Three Beers Before Going Out
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:More important: Why is he single and on OLD at the age of 48?


Or why is SHE on tinder or whatever lol

Dating in the US sucks, even for rich people. Americans are cold and women generally don't like being approached by men. I mean, there are even rock stars on Tinder, so this is just kind of where our society is at. Now in some other countries, I wouldn't waste my time OLD.


Which rock stars are on tinder?


Disturbed lead singer. Someone posted on his Instagram that a guy who looks just like him is on tinder . I think at some point he made some comment about how is he supposed to meet women, hit on them at the grocery store? Ha. Funny that the average guy and a rock star have similar problems.


It's almost like diseases don't discriminate and alcoholism is a disease.
Anonymous
Post 04/26/2025 16:32     Subject: Three Beers Before Going Out
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How big is this guy?
How spaced out are these drinks (six per hour vs six in five hours)?

I don’t drink much any more but when I did, six beers in an evening was no big deal.

Six beers in an evening is not normal never mind not healthy.


Just the calories alone. A pretty standard beer we're talking 600 - 1000 calories. More depending on the type of beer.
Wrong, craft beer is up to 350 calories for 12 oz. A budweiser is 140 calories. You are clueless.


Did you miss the part where the guy is drinking 6-7 beers a night?