Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
⬆️ She seemed to be having a major manic episode. AND she admitted to the police she was the aggressor. BL was restraining her from attacking him. Her mania may have been going on for days. He was probably restraining her when he placed her in a chokehold and she died near the creek bed.
It seems like Gabby might have been bipolar maybe undiagnosed. It's more common among artistic temperament people are.
All the people in the doc saying BL was weird, BL was strange... it's just confirmation bias--he came across to me as a sensitive shy guy who had bitten off more than he could chew with Gabby. Not saying she deserved any of this--mental illness is no ones fault--but I think she just got crazy violent with him at the end and he snapped.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
And there were witnesses who did not know any of these people yet called the police because he was putting his hands on her. Does she not have a right to defend herself? The cops should try to not make assumptions and look for the full story, but they were clearly ignoring the most likely scenario.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
⬆️ She seemed to be having a major manic episode. AND she admitted to the police she was the aggressor. BL was restraining her from attacking him. Her mania may have been going on for days. He was probably restraining her when he placed her in a chokehold and she died near the creek bed.
It seems like Gabby might have been bipolar maybe undiagnosed. It's more common among artistic temperament people are.
All the people in the doc saying BL was weird, BL was strange... it's just confirmation bias--he came across to me as a sensitive shy guy who had bitten off more than he could chew with Gabby. Not saying she deserved any of this--mental illness is no ones fault--but I think she just got crazy violent with him at the end and he snapped.
Anonymous wrote:And what about how he got the hotel room and she had to stay in a van alone? Weird choice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thoughts?
I remember knowing 100% that she was dead when everyone found out he was at home with his parents.
I'm glad her parents sued them and won. Still doesn't seem just especially given the parents involvement in covering up her death and allowing their son to roam free.
Maybe the most shocking part of the documentary to me was the detailed interaction with the cops where they were thinking about charging her with battery when the witness clearly saw him battering her.
Society hates women. That's all!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
⬆️ She seemed to be having a major manic episode. AND she admitted to the police she was the aggressor. BL was restraining her from attacking him. Her mania may have been going on for days. He was probably restraining her when he placed her in a chokehold and she died near the creek bed.
It seems like Gabby might have been bipolar maybe undiagnosed. It's more common among artistic temperament people are.
All the people in the doc saying BL was weird, BL was strange... it's just confirmation bias--he came across to me as a sensitive shy guy who had bitten off more than he could chew with Gabby. Not saying she deserved any of this--mental illness is no ones fault--but I think she just got crazy violent with him at the end and he snapped.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
And there were witnesses who did not know any of these people yet called the police because he was putting his hands on her. Does she not have a right to defend herself? The cops should try to not make assumptions and look for the full story, but they were clearly ignoring the most likely scenario.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
The cops were trying to do the right thing and not just assume the man did it. I'm disgusted by 99% of these posts. The cops in that interaction knew that she was the aggressor and did the right thing. They shouldn't base their decisions on how cute and sweet someone is and you all know it.
You all are so hung up on how pretty, shy, small, sweet, white etc she is. That's where your sense of injustice comes from. She put her hands on him. No woman has any right to put their hands on another person.
Anonymous wrote:Keep in mind those cops are Utah cops and Utah is one of the worst states for women's rights and autonomy. It was so gross how they were yucking it up with BL. I hope they feel shame forever for this.
I noticed how hard he slammed the van door in the Whole Foods footage where she was last seen. My guess is he found out somehow that she was talking to her ex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It doesn't appear either of them ever went to college even for a bit. He was older than she was by a few grades I believe. I'm not sure why her parents didn't try to make her go to college or stop her from moving to FL with a boy she barely knew (at that point.)
They all seem like great parents (both parents and step parents) they just seem a little hands off. To hear them describe it, they all expressed shock that she wanted to move to FL but never told her she shouldn't go.
She was 22!
She was only 20 when she moved away, and 18 when she decided to skip college. And plenty of parents have influence over 22 year olds - those that are financially dependent. My college age kids know I have some say over major decisions in their life if they want to remain on the payroll, which they do.
I don’t understand your point. Her choice was to earn her own money and not be on the payroll. The goal is launch independent children no matter which path they choose.
Even though I judge the cops, they were not ultimately responsible for her death.
The sole person at fault here is Brian.
Anonymous wrote:The cop thing was extremely odd because she is so sweet, shy and pretty looking, and going by gender stereotypes and misogyny, the average man would have wanted to protect her. It makes no sense.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Every girl should learn that presentation, when communicating, is everything.
SOMETIMES It’s better not to talk to people until one is composed.
Ugh, bad message.
How about every man should learn not to abuse women?
Exactly!!! She was murdered.
Are you saying that is because of her communication skills!!!!