Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 22:03     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife told me a friend of a friend recently married her 31 years old boyfriend. She is 43 and has 3 kids. They tried for a child together but sadly she lost the baby.

Men are no longer the ones marrying younger. In fact I don't think they were exclusively the ones doing so, my guess is that it's probably always been 50/50 but men for whatever reasons are criticized more for this.

And people won't probably even know he is younger than you. I have seen some 30 years old men who look in their 40s despite being in good shape and healthy. Men don't take care of their skin as much as much as women do. So if that's important to you, you are not going to be the older looking spouse. And if you care about that drop it because it's not important and nobody cares.

My only advice for you is to tune out the noise from the 40+ divorced men and women on this forum who have an obsession with bragging about going younger and making it all about age.


The stats do not agree with you.


Actually according to stats the woman is older in 1 in 5 marriages!! Its surprising. This would include relationships where the woman is only a month or a year older, but still, it's a significant percentage.

My paternal aunt who got married in the 1960s was older than her husband (by a few years).

I have a maternal aunt who is also older than her husband. There are many more examples.



Older wife-younger husband was pretty common even several centuries ago. Men often died in wars so the wife with children would remarry someone younger who wasn't yet eligible for the draft a few years ago. My great grand mother was 4 years older than her 2nd husband (first was killed in WWI)

Women provided child care and household duties and were more valued a house laborers back then. So age didn't matter as much: marriage was an arrangement. After industrial revolution men started caring for sex, age etc more.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 21:31     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife told me a friend of a friend recently married her 31 years old boyfriend. She is 43 and has 3 kids. They tried for a child together but sadly she lost the baby.

Men are no longer the ones marrying younger. In fact I don't think they were exclusively the ones doing so, my guess is that it's probably always been 50/50 but men for whatever reasons are criticized more for this.

And people won't probably even know he is younger than you. I have seen some 30 years old men who look in their 40s despite being in good shape and healthy. Men don't take care of their skin as much as much as women do. So if that's important to you, you are not going to be the older looking spouse. And if you care about that drop it because it's not important and nobody cares.

My only advice for you is to tune out the noise from the 40+ divorced men and women on this forum who have an obsession with bragging about going younger and making it all about age.


The stats do not agree with you.


Actually according to stats the woman is older in 1 in 5 marriages!! Its surprising. This would include relationships where the woman is only a month or a year older, but still, it's a significant percentage.

My paternal aunt who got married in the 1960s was older than her husband (by a few years).

I have a maternal aunt who is also older than her husband. There are many more examples.

Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 21:29     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Men will date women they think are pretty and attractive. Attractiveness doesn’t necessarily mean they want to procreate, so age doesn’t really matter. Look at Kate Beckinsdale and Pete whatever his name is… she was much older but way more attractive than him. This is how young men view older women - in some ways they have more game with the older women, Pete never would’ve been able to score with Kate Beckinsdale if she were younger. Younger men factor in an older woman’s independence an attitude too. Young women can be insecure, jealous, high maintenance. An older woman who just wants a good time and doesn’t need to be taken care of is a relief from the demanding younger women who just want a ring.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 21:16     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine's ex wife is 55 or so and dating a 29 year old guy who is a golf pro on one of the minor tours. Plenty of jokes about him using a stiff shaft, her kissing his balls for good luck, holes in one etc. He's only nine years older than her son so the whole thing is pretty sad.


What's wrong with the guy? He must be mentally ill.


She is gorgeous

Very fit and pretty
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 21:05     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
And, for the record, I have had these conversations, at length, with my mother, my sisters, and my daughters, so there's that.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 21:04     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Younger guys love boning older women. You are an easy lay for them.


Since this is mostly all they're good for, I don't see the issue.

I certainly hope you share your views with your mother, wife, sisters, and daughters. What an insecure coward you are.


Wow. You are waaaay too tightly wound! Get laid and then try again.

Men, specifically the younger men being discussed in this thread, are for play and little more.

Are you better now? Should we call someone?
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 20:46     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have relative married to a man 15 years younger. They’ve been together for 35 years. People assume they’re about the same age; in terms of looks, you wouldn’t guess she’s that much older.


A lot of women look much younger than men and put way more energy into skincare, so this makes sense.


Not Caucasian women lol. They look 50 when they are 35.


I am 47. No wrinkles. Most people think I am early 30s.


That's impressive. You must have good genes because you are clearly defying the aging process that most of us go through. 47 and bo wrinkles wow and look early 30s. Good for you 😊
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 19:55     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Younger guys love boning older women. You are an easy lay for them.


Since this is mostly all they're good for, I don't see the issue.

I certainly hope you share your views with your mother, wife, sisters, and daughters. What an insecure coward you are.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 19:01     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine's ex wife is 55 or so and dating a 29 year old guy who is a golf pro on one of the minor tours. Plenty of jokes about him using a stiff shaft, her kissing his balls for good luck, holes in one etc. He's only nine years older than her son so the whole thing is pretty sad.


What's wrong with the guy? He must be mentally ill.


The same way younger women are mentally ill when they hook up with a 55 year old. You know
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 17:47     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine's ex wife is 55 or so and dating a 29 year old guy who is a golf pro on one of the minor tours. Plenty of jokes about him using a stiff shaft, her kissing his balls for good luck, holes in one etc. He's only nine years older than her son so the whole thing is pretty sad.


What's wrong with the guy? He must be mentally ill.


She’s one of 20 other pieces of @$$ he’s hooking up with off tinder.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 16:59     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have relative married to a man 15 years younger. They’ve been together for 35 years. People assume they’re about the same age; in terms of looks, you wouldn’t guess she’s that much older.


A lot of women look much younger than men and put way more energy into skincare, so this makes sense.


Not Caucasian women lol. They look 50 when they are 35.


I am 47. No wrinkles. Most people think I am early 30s.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 16:44     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine's ex wife is 55 or so and dating a 29 year old guy who is a golf pro on one of the minor tours. Plenty of jokes about him using a stiff shaft, her kissing his balls for good luck, holes in one etc. He's only nine years older than her son so the whole thing is pretty sad.


What's wrong with the guy? He must be mentally ill.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 16:32     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
A friend of mine's ex wife is 55 or so and dating a 29 year old guy who is a golf pro on one of the minor tours. Plenty of jokes about him using a stiff shaft, her kissing his balls for good luck, holes in one etc. He's only nine years older than her son so the whole thing is pretty sad.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 13:45     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:Younger guys love boning older women. You are an easy lay for them.


Since this is mostly all they're good for, I don't see the issue.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 12:05     Subject: Women with younger men
Younger men are hot and many of them love older women (MILFs). It's a no brainer to go with them over some saggy balled older dude