Some schools are allowed to search, some are allowed to look
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is at a T20 and my understanding is that most kids have hard alcohol stored in their rooms for weekend drinking. Many parents actually buy it for them rather than risk having them drugged at parties (we didn't do that). And college is not like boarding school where rooms are searched for alcohol(?)
As others have said, in any event, this would be your kid's issue, not yours.
Those parents will feel great if the kid dies in an alcohol related accident or is sexually assaulted while under the influence. Alcohol is a drug.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is at a T20 and my understanding is that most kids have hard alcohol stored in their rooms for weekend drinking. Many parents actually buy it for them rather than risk having them drugged at parties (we didn't do that). And college is not like boarding school where rooms are searched for alcohol(?)
As others have said, in any event, this would be your kid's issue, not yours.
Some schools are allowed to search, some are allowed to look. My child is in a "look" dorm situation. RA can come by anytime (I think), but is not allowed to open any cabinets/frig.
Anonymous wrote:My kid is at a T20 and my understanding is that most kids have hard alcohol stored in their rooms for weekend drinking. Many parents actually buy it for them rather than risk having them drugged at parties (we didn't do that). And college is not like boarding school where rooms are searched for alcohol(?)
As others have said, in any event, this would be your kid's issue, not yours.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is a Top 20 private. Turns out the roommate has been at boarding schools since 7th grade. This is not a new habit. So far no uncomfortable interactions.
+1Anonymous wrote:He should ask for a room change over the winter break. It sounds like he has to always hang out at the library to avoid the partying roommate back at the dorm room. He should demand a change after the fall semester.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
My DC is at Tulane and they definitely have dorm room inspections every semester. They are not a surprise, so you have a day or two warning. There can be no alcohol in plain sight. I thought this was normal?
My kid is at VT. They had dorm inspections it she was in Greek housing and they were pretty much a joke. As long as you threw a blanket over your liquor you were fine. Even if you forgot they just told you to put it away.
The point is that it is not uncommon to have a dorm room inspection, despite the PP who has never heard of it.
I never heard of it either, fwiw.
Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
My DC is at Tulane and they definitely have dorm room inspections every semester. They are not a surprise, so you have a day or two warning. There can be no alcohol in plain sight. I thought this was normal?
My kid is at VT. They had dorm inspections it she was in Greek housing and they were pretty much a joke. As long as you threw a blanket over your liquor you were fine. Even if you forgot they just told you to put it away.
The point is that it is not uncommon to have a dorm room inspection, despite the PP who has never heard of it.
I never heard of it either, fwiw.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
My DC is at Tulane and they definitely have dorm room inspections every semester. They are not a surprise, so you have a day or two warning. There can be no alcohol in plain sight. I thought this was normal?
My kid is at VT. They had dorm inspections it she was in Greek housing and they were pretty much a joke. As long as you threw a blanket over your liquor you were fine. Even if you forgot they just told you to put it away.
The point is that it is not uncommon to have a dorm room inspection, despite the PP who has never heard of it.
I never heard of it either, fwiw.
and yet they nabbed my DD's hamster at GMU. GMU will also get you in inappropriate electrical extension cords, drugs, booze, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
My DC is at Tulane and they definitely have dorm room inspections every semester. They are not a surprise, so you have a day or two warning. There can be no alcohol in plain sight. I thought this was normal?
My kid is at VT. They had dorm inspections it she was in Greek housing and they were pretty much a joke. As long as you threw a blanket over your liquor you were fine. Even if you forgot they just told you to put it away.
The point is that it is not uncommon to have a dorm room inspection, despite the PP who has never heard of it.
I never heard of it either, fwiw.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a college dorm room inspection and have had 2 kids graduate from college. Inspections didn’t even exist when I was in college and I am OLD.
My DC is at Tulane and they definitely have dorm room inspections every semester. They are not a surprise, so you have a day or two warning. There can be no alcohol in plain sight. I thought this was normal?
My kid is at VT. They had dorm inspections it she was in Greek housing and they were pretty much a joke. As long as you threw a blanket over your liquor you were fine. Even if you forgot they just told you to put it away.
The point is that it is not uncommon to have a dorm room inspection, despite the PP who has never heard of it.