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I was reading an article about a married man who is divorcing his wife after 31 years marriage.

These are 2 quotes from his wife that struck my attention.

"I would like to ask for prayer for my family. Mark has filed for a divorce after having an affair with a 32 year old woman,”

"He fell head over heels in love with her to the extent he wanted to marry her and start a new family. He has become a different man than I have known for our 35 year marriage. He is living life greatly deceived.”

I feel for this woman. She described the AP as a "32 years old woman" you can clearly feel the pain there.

Why do men fall for younger women like this? It's rare for a married woman to fall down a 32 years old man after 35 years of marriage.

And second what do married women think about these women? How much blame should they deserve?

I have neither the time nor inclination to read all of the comments on this thread.

But, I’ll say that I’m not sure I understand why you need to ask why married men fall for younger women. I think it’s pretty obvious. First, they have young attractive bodies. That should be very obvious. They are pretty much all of them more attractive than wives who have been married for over 30 years. Second, they are not yet sick of that particular man. They look up to him, make him feel like a man again. I think most affairs are more about the attention and the respect than they are about the sex. And that is why you see men actually leaving their wives and starting a second family. They see a whole new life with a woman who isn’t sick of them, tired of them, judging them. or asking them to clean the gutters. Or whatever. These younger women put up with a lot that older women won’t tolerate. It’s kind of pathetic, but that is a good part of what is going on.

As far as blame, why would the affair partners get any blame? These younger women didn’t swear to be faithful to these ex-wives. No blame. The blame is purely on the ex-husband. Well, perhaps some goes on the ex-wife as well. Divorce is always some thing that has happened because of two people, not because of one. No marriage has one person in it.

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.

Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.

I'm happy your delusions comfort you. Enjoy your droopy balls and grey nose/ear hairs, receding-hairline having ass...

Aging like vinegar...

I'm 46, you moron.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing gets this forum riled more than posts about women aging out of relevance

After watching the last presidential debate, I think again women are pretty relevant right now.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing gets this forum riled more than posts about women aging out of relevance

After watching the last presidential debate, I think again women are pretty relevant right now.

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Anonymous wrote:Tight young bodies, perky T&A. I’m embarrassed for OP asking such an obvious question. Use the sense the Lord gave you.

Then why get married at all? If the only important thing to you/certain other men is a woman’s attractiveness, and we know that this fades over time, why make the choice to age with someone, ostensibly forsaking all others? Just date and don’t ruin people’s lives.

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Only if you have a view that women are only baby machines. If you respect women, you respect their entire cycle of life, not just the fertile part. You know, the respect a human should have for another human’s life. In fact the right to a respected and full life escapes you. Respect for life is boiled down to the 9 months that you as a man are unable to control because you are unable to form a baby in your body. You do not give a a woman full right to life because you refuse to respect and give her full rights.

This isn't about 'respect', grandma. The question was why do men favor younger women. The answer is simple. They are gorgoeus. Old women aren't. Blame biology, not me.

That only makes sense for affairs, not second marriages. Also your answers show that woman are nothing but bodies to you.

Explain Rupert Murdoch and Wendy Deng, Trump and Melania and so on.

Anonymous wrote:Nothing gets this forum riled more than posts about women aging out of relevance

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Only if you have a view that women are only baby machines. If you respect women, you respect their entire cycle of life, not just the fertile part. You know, the respect a human should have for another human’s life. In fact the right to a respected and full life escapes you. Respect for life is boiled down to the 9 months that you as a man are unable to control because you are unable to form a baby in your body. You do not give a a woman full right to life because you refuse to respect and give her full rights.

This isn't about 'respect', grandma. The question was why do men favor younger women. The answer is simple. They are gorgoeus. Old women aren't. Blame biology, not me.

That only makes sense for affairs, not second marriages. Also your answers show that woman are nothing but bodies to you.

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Anonymous wrote:Tight young bodies, perky T&A. I’m embarrassed for OP asking such an obvious question. Use the sense the Lord gave you.

Then why get married at all? If the only important thing to you/certain other men is a woman’s attractiveness, and we know that this fades over time, why make the choice to age with someone, ostensibly forsaking all others? Just date and don’t ruin people’s lives.

+1. I am 60 and sadly my balls are droopy lol. I'm just glad I have a wonderful wife. She is 62 and we have been married for 30 years. When we met I was a college athlete with 6 packs and she had one of the most beautiful giggly ass I had ever seen. 30 years later we still love each other. We are certainly old but such is life.

There is no way a 20+ woman will be physically attracted to me at 62. No way.She has a million other men to choose from. Heck she may drop me for my son because he is "cut like Jesus" like they say.

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Only if you have a view that women are only baby machines. If you respect women, you respect their entire cycle of life, not just the fertile part. You know, the respect a human should have for another human’s life. In fact the right to a respected and full life escapes you. Respect for life is boiled down to the 9 months that you as a man are unable to control because you are unable to form a baby in your body. You do not give a a woman full right to life because you refuse to respect and give her full rights.

This isn't about 'respect', grandma. The question was why do men favor younger women. The answer is simple. They are gorgoeus. Old women aren't. Blame biology, not me.

Anonymous wrote:My DH did the same to me and our kids. I would like to send a similar statement out to friends and family. What’s the best way? Email? Text? Post on Facebook? Will it hurt me in divorce proceedings at all. He too filed for divorce to go be with his mistress.