Does he call you his “lover”?

Maybe, OP, you should try leaning in to his mindset and see if you might like it more than you think. Put on the Barry White, slip into a naughty little negligee, get some champagne and chocolates, and prepare for a long night of “making love” on the brown shag carpet of your sunken living room. I mean really go all in, Chef-from-South Park-style, and see what happens. Perhaps the 70s had a point.

Also, I think “making whoopie” should be the new DCUM linguistic standard for all sex related standards. Let’s try to make that a thing.

Agree with PP.

Sex with you must be boring and vanilla. Making love and f’*cking are 2 different things. So is having sex. Last night my DH f’ed me. It was wonderful. Sometimes we make love and it feels like another plane but also wonderful. It all depends on the moods we’re in and circumstances leading up to it but the act is never just one concept all the time.

Anonymous wrote:Demand that he stick it in your butt and see if he call that making line. You’ll have your answer.

😂

Anonymous wrote:Almost every time instead of sex. Weird of me to be turned off?

Be honest with yourself- you think he is too vanilla in bed and the phrase “making love” is exacerbating your irritation. Talk dirty to him in bed and see if he follows your lead.

Anonymous wrote:Your boyfriend sounds like a nice person. What’s wrong with the words making love?
Would you prefer he said smash and dash?

Wham, bam, thank you ma’am.

Demand that he stick it in your butt and see if he call that making line. You’ll have your answer.

You make a sandwich, not love…

What about the old Bon Newbanks term on the Newlywed Game

Making woopie

Anonymous wrote:It is fine you don't like this, but you obv. don't love him. If you did, this would be endearing. If you aren't in 100% then your find it cringe.

* caveat that if you're married for years you can find it cringe haha. But for dating. no can't be cringe when you're in new love

It’s always cringe, love or not love, long relationship or new.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When it comes to sex wants to be called sl**t w**re you name it..for some reasons a lot of women get off from being denigrated that way. It's kind of weird

I am a woman and I cannot understand this at all. If my partner called me s***, w**re, b***h etc, I would be completely put off.

+1000
I think you'd be able to hear some cosmic record scratch if someone pulled that on me

Come to bed.
- married 36 years.

It is fine you don't like this, but you obv. don't love him. If you did, this would be endearing. If you aren't in 100% then your find it cringe.

* caveat that if you're married for years you can find it cringe haha. But for dating. no can't be cringe when you're in new love