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Anonymous wrote:Just let it go op. FWIW I believe the school. It’s not like they would need to make up a story vs just saying oops our mistake we will fix it- they fix it either way. Your daughter is filling out literally hundreds of forms right now and it’s a tedious and redundant process. It’s highly likely that she mis clicked one box. You should probably have her bring the counseling office some chocolates as a thank you for jumping in off schedule and fixing her mistake. Teach your kid some graciousness and humility.

Uhhhh, no she isn't.

Tell me you don't know anything about the status of incoming freshman right now without telling you you don't know anything about incoming freshman.

Huh? My kid is filling out all sorts of forms.

Anonymous wrote:The counselor shouldn’t have placed blame with your daughter. It’s very irritating and low class when employees do this. She should have said, “Oh no! I will get them the transcript right away. No worries! So sorry that happened.”

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Anonymous wrote:Just let it go op. FWIW I believe the school. It’s not like they would need to make up a story vs just saying oops our mistake we will fix it- they fix it either way. Your daughter is filling out literally hundreds of forms right now and it’s a tedious and redundant process. It’s highly likely that she mis clicked one box. You should probably have her bring the counseling office some chocolates as a thank you for jumping in off schedule and fixing her mistake. Teach your kid some graciousness and humility.

Uhhhh, no she isn't.

Tell me you don't know anything about the status of incoming freshman right now without telling you you don't know anything about incoming freshman.

Anonymous wrote:Was it flagged in her portal? If I had accepted somewhere I would certainly try to doublecheck they had all my paperwork.

This actually happened to someone I know where in college the school never sent the transcript and they got rejected from a study abroad program and once they figured it out it was too late so they had to find another program.

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Anonymous wrote:The HS is lying.

The way the process works is UNC Chapel Hill requests the final transcript from the HS and they comply. Guidance counselors sent the transcript to the wrong state school campus all the time.

This is easily proven by the fact that Chapel Hill has the intial transcript. There would be no explanation for the change.

Your DD didn't 'mis select' anything.

+1 I can't believe it took 3 pages to get here. If UNC has the first transcript, they come back and ask for the last transcript. OP's DD isn't even involved at this point. It's all between the HS and the college.

The only explanation is the counselor is lying to cover his ass.

This is not the way it worked for my child. He had to request a final transcript be sent to the school he was attending. I assume the process is pretty automated. Student selects the school which has a code. HS electronically sends the form as requested. There is no one putting the transcript in an envelope and noticing that an earlier one went to a different campus.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL at the posters saying NBD.

They didn't notice that the mid year transcript and final transcript were different colleges? What HS is this?

OP, it's quite possible your DD selected the wrong item on the drop down menu, but it would be nice if the system gave her some sort of confirmation of school selected and send date. I hate it when there is an important item to do and the software or web interface gives you no idea whether your request went through or whether it was acted upon.

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Anonymous wrote:The HS is lying.

The way the process works is UNC Chapel Hill requests the final transcript from the HS and they comply. Guidance counselors sent the transcript to the wrong state school campus all the time.

This is easily proven by the fact that Chapel Hill has the intial transcript. There would be no explanation for the change.

Your DD didn't 'mis select' anything.

+1 I can't believe it took 3 pages to get here. If UNC has the first transcript, they come back and ask for the last transcript. OP's DD isn't even involved at this point. It's all between the HS and the college.

The only explanation is the counselor is lying to cover his ass.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL at the posters saying NBD.

They didn't notice that the mid year transcript and final transcript were different colleges? What HS is this?

Maybe she accepted a waitlist later. Maybe she got a scholarship later. She’s an adult and it was her fault.

You don't know if it's her fault. You only know the school aid it was her fault, not theirs. And only they have access to the ways to verify that claim. You do know that people lie, right?

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Anonymous wrote:The HS is lying.

The way the process works is UNC Chapel Hill requests the final transcript from the HS and they comply. Guidance counselors sent the transcript to the wrong state school campus all the time.

This is easily proven by the fact that Chapel Hill has the intial transcript. There would be no explanation for the change.

Your DD didn't 'mis select' anything.

+1 I can't believe it took 3 pages to get here. If UNC has the first transcript, they come back and ask for the last transcript. OP's DD isn't even involved at this point. It's all between the HS and the college.

The only explanation is the counselor is lying to cover his ass.

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting nobody is mentioning UNC here. A SLAC would have dealt with this quickly by picking up the phone and calling the school counselor. DD might not have even known about it.

With big public universities, you get what you pay for.

I’m all for SLACs - I went to one and I expect there’s a strong chance my kid will go to one - but that’s a dumb statement. It might be that the college would contact the HS but I think it’s more likely they’d contact the student. It’s the student’s responsibility. HS need permission to release info to a college and if the student hadn’t properly provided it (which sounds like may well have been the case), it would bounce back to the student anyway, so might as well go directly to the source.

And either way, UNC *did* have a system in place that worked. They held (not rescinded) the placement and contacted the student. The problem was resolved (it sounds like relatively quickly) and a lesson was learned about double-checking submissions and maybe even following up to confirm successful completion. Done.

IDK my friends son went to a SLAC, his dad died the 1st month there. He went home, went to funeral, went back to school and never left his room for 2 months. The SLAC never noticed, didn't check on him, he literally had food delivered. His roommate finally called my friend, the mom, AFTER 2 MONTHS.

OTOH, her other son who was a sophomore was at MD state college, his professors gave him an alternate schedule for his projects to be turned in, a counselor visited him a few times, the RA check on him weekly, he received information about a support group.

Anonymous wrote:The counselor shouldn’t have placed blame with your daughter. It’s very irritating and low class when employees do this. She should have said, “Oh no! I will get them the transcript right away. No worries! So sorry that happened.”