Anonymous
Post 07/10/2024 06:40     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So many fake people and relationships. The mothers at the bustop talk so much crap and are so catty and mean. I need to be around positive influences, looking at moving to Arlington, Alexandria or Potomac.


I live in North Arlington, trust me when I tell you this happens here, too. If you're not cute and white and blonde, you're not part of the bus stop crew. Your kid might be invited to the bus stop end of year party, but you will be largely ignored.



This makes me a lot happier about my community. All of the moms are mostly Indian and most of them group together, but we still smile at each other and talk from time to time. I don’t think they’re gossiping about me or other moms! There are a few other non Indian moms (three or so) and we also chat from time to time but we aren’t friends. I try to suggest group activities so our kids can go to same camp, sport. That’s basically all we talk about. Me and one other mom who is European are the only white moms. I guess living in an immigrant community has its perks. Being super close to the neighbors can get very awkward if there is a clash. We live in townhouses so we are all super close to each other.





Wow. You really think that Indian moms don’t gossip but white moms do? That’s just basic racial bias right there.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2024 05:54     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So many fake people and relationships. The mothers at the bustop talk so much crap and are so catty and mean. I need to be around positive influences, looking at moving to Arlington, Alexandria or Potomac.


I live in North Arlington, trust me when I tell you this happens here, too. If you're not cute and white and blonde, you're not part of the bus stop crew. Your kid might be invited to the bus stop end of year party, but you will be largely ignored.



This makes me a lot happier about my community. All of the moms are mostly Indian and most of them group together, but we still smile at each other and talk from time to time. I don’t think they’re gossiping about me or other moms! There are a few other non Indian moms (three or so) and we also chat from time to time but we aren’t friends. I try to suggest group activities so our kids can go to same camp, sport. That’s basically all we talk about. Me and one other mom who is European are the only white moms. I guess living in an immigrant community has its perks. Being super close to the neighbors can get very awkward if there is a clash. We live in townhouses so we are all super close to each other.



Anonymous
Post 07/10/2024 05:18     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Good luck with finding genuine people.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 23:38     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
I think you will find this phenomenon in any upwardly mobile, majority white suburb. I'm in one myself and I consider it a suburban hellscape. I often keep to myself, befriend the more normal minority/immigrants, avoid the gossip, and am nice but not overly social. It gets better as the kids get older and you don't need to socialize as much. I can't wait to leave when the kids go off to college.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 22:59     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:I was shocked when a friend told me everyone in Ashburn is on Ozempic. Told me enough about that crowd


Your friend knows EVERYONE in Ashburn and their medical histories? AMAZING.

Sweetheart, everyone everywhere that people have money is on Ozempic.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 22:57     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:So many fake people and relationships. The mothers at the bustop talk so much crap and are so catty and mean. I need to be around positive influences, looking at moving to Arlington, Alexandria or Potomac.


I live in North Arlington, trust me when I tell you this happens here, too. If you're not cute and white and blonde, you're not part of the bus stop crew. Your kid might be invited to the bus stop end of year party, but you will be largely ignored.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 22:52     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was shocked when a friend told me everyone in Ashburn is on Ozempic. Told me enough about that crowd


Ha! Everyone is on Ozempic. I know about 50 people on it or one of the others and that is not an exaggeration.

I don’t live in Ashburn.


Everyone everywhere is on Ozempic.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 21:59     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:Why do women behave like this? Men don't seem to have this problem.


Evaluate men are perfect, of course.

The troll OP is trying to start disagreements.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 21:47     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:I was shocked when a friend told me everyone in Ashburn is on Ozempic. Told me enough about that crowd


Ha! Everyone is on Ozempic. I know about 50 people on it or one of the others and that is not an exaggeration.

I don’t live in Ashburn.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 21:44     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:This is why I stay close to the city. Refuse to move anywhere where there is a large percentage of SAHMs. Women are awful.


Yes, type-A WOHMs are so, so much better. Not to mention the rats that populate your city.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 21:41     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s good to keep a distance from gossipers. If you must move,

maybe try the Del Rey part of Alexandria.

Or Springfield seems to have more down to earth people?


You mean the moms of Del Ray that have "Everyone is Welcome Here!" signs in their yard but sneak out at night to vandalize JD Vance's home? Or the ones that started a petition to get his wife and kids banned from local establishments?


+100
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 21:41     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:So many fake people and relationships. The mothers at the bustop talk so much crap and are so catty and mean. I need to be around positive influences, looking at moving to Arlington, Alexandria or Potomac.


OMG, I just can't... is this satire?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 20:55     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Ashburn sucks bro
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 20:42     Subject: Re:Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Move out of Virginia it’s not for lovers it’s for a s s h o l e s.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 20:02     Subject: Leaving Ashburn, done with this crap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s good to keep a distance from gossipers. If you must move,

maybe try the Del Rey part of Alexandria.

Or Springfield seems to have more down to earth people?


You mean the moms of Del Ray that have "Everyone is Welcome Here!" signs in their yard but sneak out at night to vandalize JD Vance's home? Or the ones that started a petition to get his wife and kids banned from local establishments?


In fairness, JD Vance is human garbage, so no one wants that in their neighborhood. Not because of his background or appearance, but because of his loathsome positions and loving Trump.


JD Vance is scum