Anonymous wrote:This is all so confusing. Where is this place??
You just have to tell her! Why would it hurt her feelings?? She can’t afford to fly across the country, so you’re never allowed to go there? And her kids can’t pool money together to pay for her to visit them? Or to go out to see her?
I could see how it might be hurtful if you had been in a position to drive her there with you, but seeing as that’s not the case, tell her about how you’re excited to see a place that means so much to her and ask her for tips of places to check out?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How are you spending 6 days for this one place?
6 days total, there and back. Just a day in this town.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Niagra Falls?
Part of a road trip? Rock & Roll Hall of Fame on a trip to Niagra Falls. Ohio is the CA friend's home.
Your daughter has "been emailing" with your husband/her father about a six day road trip and you did not know the details until now?
Your friend lives across the country. Are you never supposed to travel through her home state because of it. Has she laid claim to other parts of the country too? If this is really her doing and not you being main character, she is not a good friend .
If it’s Ohio and small kid wanted to go it is the pro football HoF in Canton. Not the Rock and Roll HoF.
Anonymous wrote:Niagra Falls?
Anonymous wrote:It’s a one day stop. Just don’t tell her. I went somewhere for 2 weeks and didn’t tell any close friends - only my neighbors who needed to know. And guess what? Nobody still knows and we are all fine.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Niagra Falls?
Part of a road trip? Rock & Roll Hall of Fame on a trip to Niagra Falls. Ohio is the CA friend's home.
Your daughter has "been emailing" with your husband/her father about a six day road trip and you did not know the details until now?
Your friend lives across the country. Are you never supposed to travel through her home state because of it. Has she laid claim to other parts of the country too? If this is really her doing and not you being main character, she is not a good friend .
I don’t think OP ever said Ohio.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Niagra Falls?
Part of a road trip? Rock & Roll Hall of Fame on a trip to Niagra Falls. Ohio is the CA friend's home.
Your daughter has "been emailing" with your husband/her father about a six day road trip and you did not know the details until now?
Your friend lives across the country. Are you never supposed to travel through her home state because of it. Has she laid claim to other parts of the country too? If this is really her doing and not you being main character, she is not a good friend .
Anonymous wrote:Oh my goodness, you are friends and talk every day, she hasn’t seen her CHILDREN in 5 years, you are in a position to help her, and you won’t? That’s awful.
You don’t have to hang out with her, but take her. Drop her off at one of her kid’s houses.