My personal experience is that I got much more attention from men when I was blond.

Anonymous wrote:As another PP said, what is your goal here? You seem oddly fixated on how much and how many men find you attractive. Which says to me you likely have low self esteem. Maybe work on your inside a little and you end up attracting high quality men. Quality over quantity.

I'm blond (woman) but have always loved dark hair. I can't pull it off. But it always blows my mind that people like Kim K. And Katy Perry went blonde when they both are way more gorgeous with their glossy dark hair.

Katy Perry is an odd one since she's naturally much lighter and dyes her hair dark. It suits her so well! Dita Von Teese is another blond who shines with dark hair.

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Anonymous wrote:Bleach blonde looks like an easy bimbo. Straight men like that. Natural blonde doesn’t get hit on as much. But natural blonde adults are only 2% of the population.

Natural looking colored blonde hair is very expensive and not that common.

Really? So a huge percentage of women with blond hair dye it?

2% must be entirely untouched, but a lot of blondes enhance their color with highlights. For example, I am naturally about this color but I get highlights 3x a year to be a bit brighter. You can decide if that's "natural" or not. FWIW most colorists would consider this tone to be a "natural" blonde even with additional highlights.

To be clear, because this has been misconstrued here, someone with untouched hair like the aforementioned I think is a natural blonde. If they want to look like this, it's clearly not natural but their base is still...naturally blonde.

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Anonymous wrote:Bleach blonde looks like an easy bimbo. Straight men like that. Natural blonde doesn’t get hit on as much. But natural blonde adults are only 2% of the population.

Natural looking colored blonde hair is very expensive and not that common.

Really? So a huge percentage of women with blond hair dye it?

2% must be entirely untouched, but a lot of blondes enhance their color with highlights. For example, I am naturally about this color but I get highlights 3x a year to be a bit brighter. You can decide if that's "natural" or not. FWIW most colorists would consider this tone to be a "natural" blonde even with additional highlights.

Asian women with big boobs and small waists. The best.

Anonymous wrote:Bleach blonde looks like an easy bimbo. Straight men like that. Natural blonde doesn’t get hit on as much. But natural blonde adults are only 2% of the population.

Natural looking colored blonde hair is very expensive and not that common.

Really? So a huge percentage of women with blond hair dye it?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know, as an Asian woman apparently as a demographic we are considered highly desirable and none of us are naturally blonde.

The only men who find Asian women highly desirable are those nerdy introverts or the ones obsessed with anime and tech or video games. What Asian woman can beat a young Margot Robbie or Charlize Theron

Is this kind of comment really OK to post here? This is racist and totally untrue. And a dumb lazy stereotype. Only one kind of man likes Asian women? Anime, really?!

This whole discussion is full of silly generalizations but this is really wrong.

(I am a new poster who is not Asian btw- white and blonde)

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Anonymous wrote:Only natural blondes.

No one is natural blonde past age 20

I am 46 and natural blonde. My grandmother was blonde well into her 80s.

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Anonymous wrote:As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

The men I see with mousy brunettes and asians are tech nerds

The most attractive brunettes are the Latin or Mediterranean ones.

Blondes are considered most attractive overall

Um. have you ever heard the term "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"?

DH prefers darker coloring. He's dated all kinds. I also prefer darker coloring, but DH is ash blonde with gray/blue eyes.

Published studies have shown that men find blondes more attractive. Show a picture of a beautiful blonde with blue eyes and a beautiful brunette with brown eyes to 5000 men...and the blonde will win the majority of the votes.

Studies have also shown that women find darker features more appealing and masculine (hence the “tall dark and handsome” trope)

Men don’t care about blue eyes as much as some women would hope. Asian women wouldn’t be as popular among white men if blue eyes were a huge lure.

-Blue eyed NP

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Anonymous wrote:As long as you have a blonde bush…

No one under 50 has a bush wtf

And you know this how?

I am not good at judging aesthetics, but I don’t understand how some women like Angelina Jolie look so bad with blonde hair— but beautiful with brown.

Yet women like Britney Spears can have very dark brown eyes and naturally brown hair, yet look much more beautiful as a blonde.

Scarlett Johansson has a similar skin tone and eye color to Jolie. Yet she looks a million times better as a blonde.

I can’t decipher why some people can pull off blonde hair and others can’t.

I tend to think amber or hazel eyes and a medium skin tone pairs best with blonde hair.

Anonymous wrote:As long as you have a blonde bush…

No one under 50 has a bush wtf

Anonymous wrote:I don't know, as an Asian woman apparently as a demographic we are considered highly desirable and none of us are naturally blonde.

I stumbled upon Wall Street oasis a while back and a guy did a whole report on why Asian women were the better investment it was an interesting read

I don't know, as an Asian woman apparently as a demographic we are considered highly desirable and none of us are naturally blonde.

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Anonymous wrote:As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

The men I see with mousy brunettes and asians are tech nerds

The most attractive brunettes are the Latin or Mediterranean ones.

Blondes are considered most attractive overall

Um. have you ever heard the term "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"?

DH prefers darker coloring. He's dated all kinds. I also prefer darker coloring, but DH is ash blonde with gray/blue eyes.

Published studies have shown that men find blondes more attractive. Show a picture of a beautiful blonde with blue eyes and a beautiful brunette with brown eyes to 5000 men...and the blonde will win the majority of the votes.

Studies have also shown that women find darker features more appealing and masculine (hence the “tall dark and handsome” trope)