Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 20:43     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:

I’m an active, athletic, outgoing, and outdoorsy kind of person. I’m attracted to similar men, but they aren’t attracted to me. I seem to attract introverted, “nerdy” men. The typical guy I match with on the dating apps is Asian or South Asian, average to below average height, introverted, works in tech, and plays Dungeons N Dragons, and typically just lets me dominate the conversation. I don’t really care about race or height, but the indoors/introvert is just not my type.



Introverted doesn't mean push-over. Introverts do tend to be more reflective and to listen more than extroverts. If you are "dominating" the conversation with introverts, its likely because you talk too much or change conversation threads too often.

Which might also be your problem with dating in general.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 15:22     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?


Typically every ethnicity goes after skinny and pretty white women over other options.


I am DH of color and married a white woman. It increased my status among my relatives.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 10:52     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?


I think it's just the way american culture teaches people to behave (loud and proud), not exclusive to white women.
If you look at 2nd or 3rd generation Asian/Hispanic women you won't see that much of a difference from white women.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 10:24     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Pretty and skinny blonde girls don’t have this problem. There’s something we’re missing here.

They are by far the most desirable type by all men.


Pretty skinny blonde girl here who wasn’t able to find her guy.


Coz you (as a group) don’t settle, which I respect quite a bit actually.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 10:14     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:Pretty and skinny blonde girls don’t have this problem. There’s something we’re missing here.

They are by far the most desirable type by all men.


Pretty skinny blonde girl here who wasn’t able to find her guy.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 10:07     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?


This is a bit of an overstatement

If that is so, white women wouldn’t be the largest consumers of anti-depressants and have the worst trends in life expectancy in the us


Even so it’s still a small percentage. And also different people deal with depression differently.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 09:59     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
OP’s first paragraph is accurate. The market doesn’t lie.

Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 08:56     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?


This is a bit of an overstatement

If that is so, white women wouldn’t be the largest consumers of anti-depressants and have the worst trends in life expectancy in the us
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 08:50     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?


Typically every ethnicity goes after skinny and pretty white women over other options.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2024 01:15     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
Anonymous wrote:I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.


is it simply because they're the most desired overall by a very large margin? so they almost always get what they want in the end?
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2024 23:07     Subject: Dating market frustrating me
I am a white guy married to a white woman. I dated both Hispanic and Asian women before and I should have married one of them

White women are really difficult to deal with including my own mother.