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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

LOL - check back when you get to your 50s

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

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Anonymous wrote:Size 6 is pretty large in the fashion industry.

LOL yeah if you’re talking about Chanel high fashion Paris runway stuff. In regular stores though not so much OBVIOUSLY.

Anonymous wrote:I went shopping at the mall on my own at lunch today for the first time in a very long time (usually even if I do in person shopping, I have a kid or my husband in tow because we are on the way to something or the way home from something, so I'm distracted). I'm mid-40s and struggling a bit right now with clothes because I am looking to shift into an in-person job after years of WFH and basically have nothing appropriate and don't even know what people dress like in the office anymore. So it's a lot of looking at what's available, tons of trying on and trial and error.

The thing that struck me today was how much advertising I saw in store promoting incredibly beauty standards that just made me feel like a troll. And the thing is, I'm not. I'm a regular person but fit and reasonably attractive for a regular person. Before I went shopping I felt fine about myself. But every store I went into had these images of ultra thin women with perfect bodies and perfectly airbrushed skin and perfect hair. And seeing those images over and over as I tried stuff on and tried to make some peace with my middle aged body left me feeling really deflated. At one point I walked passed a Victoria's Secret and there was a photo of Gigi Hadid outside in a bikini that just kind of got in my head like oh my god that is so many light years away from what I look like, should I go hide under a rock?

I am aware that the fashion industry has been like this for a long time, I used to read fashion magazines back before I had kids. But I guess I was just used to it before and then being away from it and getting older, it really hit me today. Today was a useful exercise because it's nice to try things on and be able to look at tons and tons of clothes at once, but I think I will revert to online shopping only from here on out. My ego can't take it!

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

There’s no victim. Just a deeply insecure woman who needs therapy.

+a million.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

There’s no victim. Just a deeply insecure woman who needs therapy.

I know DCUM loves to prescribe therapy for everything but I think seeking a therapist for a deflating shopping experience might be a bit much.

Are there therapists who specialize in people who say "you need therapy" anytime anyone expresses a negative emotion? There should be.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

There’s no victim. Just a deeply insecure woman who needs therapy.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

There’s no victim. Just a deeply insecure woman who needs therapy.

I know DCUM loves to prescribe therapy for everything but I think seeking a therapist for a deflating shopping experience might be a bit much.

Are there therapists who specialize in people who say "you need therapy" anytime anyone expresses a negative emotion? There should be.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

There’s no victim. Just a deeply insecure woman who needs therapy.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.

Blaming the victim is a very odd stance. Clearly women have been objectified since the dawn of time and it is a fact.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird post. I have noticed a dramatic change in “size inclusivity” of the past five years. Now there are mannequins and models of all shapes and sizes. The local athleta regularly displays skin tight spandex on a size 22 mannequin.

OP here, and I have barely been shopping in the last 7 years. I known size inclusivity is a thing in the industry and I've noticed it in ads, but I gotta say when I was at the mall yesterday, I didn't see much of it. It definitely felt like a throwback to the 90s when clothes were only advertised on impossibly thin 15 year old models. I felt extremely old and huge (I am a size 4).

The world isn't about you and making everything you see look like you. The models aren't impossibly thin, because they are that thin, hence it is not an impossibility.

Yep, this. This thread is so bizarre. I am a late 30s size 2/4 and I feel like I am thin. Pictures of women thinner than me don’t make me feel bad.

+1 The extreme insecurity from OP is really strange. When pictures of models cause someone to be so upset, you need intensive counseling.

Intensive counseling? It is not weird at all that someone who hasn't shopped in a long time, and is starting a new job in their 40s and is unsure how to dress their body for it, would feel insecure while shopping. This is not some weird outlier experience. It's a freaking Cathy cartoon.

This is 1000% weird. Especially to be impacted by models who are the less than 1% of the population. Therapy is a good place to work on self esteem and resiliency.