Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 16:00     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Short men need to seal the deal in college when being short might be endearing to some cute women, or make $$$$.

OP at 33, you have really missed the window. I advise actually trying to date divorced women with kids.


You're ridiculous


+1. He is 33…not 45


No as a short man he has wasted his best chances. Now he is in the realm of dating apps rather than meeting the cute coed down the hall and maybe winning her over with his humor. Now they swipe left on a SINGLE factor
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 15:41     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Not complaining just saying. I can attract women who are either cute but broke with no career prospects, or have a good career but aren’t conventionally attractive. This is because I’m not a terribly attractive man myself due to some genetically determined features that I can’t control (being vague here on purpose).

I have dated both types but I find myself happier with the cute broke women. Why is this?


You are ok with broke women that are also cute?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 15:21     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Never marry someone mainly because you like the way they look. Life is long and we don't always look the same.

If you don't want to get married, who cares. Date whoever you want. Don't have kids.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 15:04     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Because you aren't conventionally attractive OP, and the really good looking wealthy women can usually be picky.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 14:50     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Looks. All the time, everytime.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 13:47     Subject: Re:I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
If you can attract women who are cute you can attract one who is cute and smart. It just takes time. Early in my dating career all:I was interested in were the cute ones but over time their lack of brain power was an issue. Eventually i met one who was smart and cute and we’ve been married a very long time.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2024 12:44     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Why do you think you deserve a woman who is both attractive and wealthy and successful? What do you offer her in return?

He is offering a simple mind that views women as a dichotomy and a desire to put her money to benefit his lifestyle.
Op, you should travel, read and volunteer to expand your mind and improve your personality. You haven't advanced to a view of women as whole people and individuals. Work on that and great things will come your way.