Married 16 years, late 40s, 1-2x a months. This is actually an improvement from the last 10 years when we were 4-6x a year. It was brutal then when I still had a super high drive. Now, it still feels too low but its manageable. Sex is decent.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Changes week to week, and depends on how you define. PIV maybe once a week on average...oral either way every other day. PIA maybe once every 2 weeks. But sometimes we get in a weeks worth in a day, sometimes life gets in the way. We find time daily to just touch each other, hug, cuddle...early 40's.

what is PIA?

Anal

Anonymous wrote:How often? Are you happy with it?

Probably 4, 5 times a month? Too little for DH. He isn't happy. I'd go for more.

We're trying to aim for "just 15 minutes a day" routine but not so easy to find uninterrupted daytime w/ little kids, and often too tired at night.

Anonymous wrote:Changes week to week, and depends on how you define. PIV maybe once a week on average...oral either way every other day. PIA maybe once every 2 weeks. But sometimes we get in a weeks worth in a day, sometimes life gets in the way. We find time daily to just touch each other, hug, cuddle...early 40's.

what is PIA?

Anonymous wrote:This thread pops up here every other week. Give it a rest, OP. To each their own. Comparing yourself to others is pointless. Good for all the midlife somethings, married for 20+ years and going at it all the time. The reality is many of us choose not to do that any more.

FIFY

I’m 50, recently divorced but separated for 2 years. Been seeing my…boyfriend (I hate that term at our age) who is 68 for a little over a year. We have sex at least 4-5 times a week. If we end up staying together, and I hope we do, I know that sex will slow down eventually as we get even older (lol) but right now I’m really happy with the frequency and so is he.