Just fap to it and move on, bro. The anon isn't gonna hook up with you.

Dear Bro,

I do not care what the PP does. You need to fab less and work on your writing skills more.

Anonymous wrote:So no one here thinks there is a correlation between loving your body (and being willing to show a lot of it in public) and sexual inhibition?

I think maybe so at the vanilla end of the spectrum, but nothing more. I wear bikinis because I have body confidence. I am happy to have sex with the lights on. I dont think at all about what angles I might be seen from (which, if you do, could limit positions). I dont wrap myself in a sheet or towel when done, will walk to the bathroom naked, etc. I DO think there is a correlation there, and I know some men find my style refreshing because lots of women insist on the dark, sheets/covers, throw on a robe after, etc. But that’s pretty baseline stuff. beyond not minding if/how/from what angle a partner looks at me, I wouldn’t say there’s any correlation to being ‘wild’ in bed.

I don’t know about sex but when I wear a skimpy bikini it’s because I’m feeling confident about my body and I want to show it off and look hot.

I wear bikinis — not sure where the skimpy line is but I love a bikini. I’m so long libido I might count as asexual. I just don’t have a lot of modesty. Maybe it’s because I find so little sexually arousing it’s not really something I think about when choosing clothes, maybe it’s because I did dance and figure skating as a kid so skimpy clothing is mostly associated with serious training in my head. If I’m wearing a skimpy bikini it’s because I thought it was comfortable and cute, not because I’m trying to attract anyone’s attention.

So no one here thinks there is a correlation between loving your body (and being willing to show a lot of it in public) and sexual inhibition?

Anonymous wrote:My wife can still rock a bikini at age 38 with four children. She definitely gets noticed when she is walking along a beach with four little kids in tow. She’s great in bed but I don’t think it has any correlation with wearing a bikini.

+1 though my wife is a little older.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

I have a hard time believing anyone actually likes wearing skimpy bikinis. They are not comfortable. I don't wear them any longer, but when I did, it was in large part to show off my nice body.

When I am not allowed to be naked this is what I wear,. Perfectly comfortable.

My wife can still rock a bikini at age 38 with four children. She definitely gets noticed when she is walking along a beach with four little kids in tow. She’s great in bed but I don’t think it has any correlation with wearing a bikini.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous[b wrote:]If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that [/b]she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

what an idiotic post. why are you wasting our time with this?

She isn't forcing anyone to reply.

Anonymous wrote:

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur)

Card-carrying member, huh? Do you mean like a card-carrying member of Costco, Sam's Club, etc?

Why do you need a club if you are good at the lifestyle? I bet your local PTA has more on-the-edge potential than these fetish clubs. The women I know who are truly freaky keep it very much on a "need-to-know" basis since they want to keep their interests very private. Specifically, I am talking about BDSM so maybe you need clubs to find fun in other areas.

Why would writing erotica for pay or being friends with pr0n stars make you a freak?

Just fap to it and move on, bro. The anon isn't gonna hook up with you.

Anonymous wrote:Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

I have a hard time believing anyone actually likes wearing skimpy bikinis. They are not comfortable. I don't wear them any longer, but when I did, it was in large part to show off my nice body.

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur)

Card-carrying member, huh? Do you mean like a card-carrying member of Costco, Sam's Club, etc?

Why do you need a club if you are good at the lifestyle? I bet your local PTA has more on-the-edge potential than these fetish clubs. The women I know who are truly freaky keep it very much on a "need-to-know" basis since they want to keep their interests very private. Specifically, I am talking about BDSM so maybe you need clubs to find fun in other areas.

Why would writing erotica for pay or being friends with pr0n stars make you a freak?

I wear whatever I want and do. not. care. I was wearing the cheeky bottom bikini before it became mainstream around here. They are the norm in europe and brazil.

Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

Anonymous wrote:

I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur).