Anonymous
05/20/2026 13:45
Subject: At what age could your kid be alone/be alone after school?
That sounds fine to me. My 10 year old (4th grader) often comes home alone, but it’s usually only for 30 minutes to an hour due to how late school gets out.
A middle schooler will probably be after school some days for various things, so it might not even be every day. Anyway, very reasonable/age appropriate.
A middle schooler will probably be after school some days for various things, so it might not even be every day. Anyway, very reasonable/age appropriate.
Anonymous
05/20/2026 12:45
Subject: Re:At what age could your kid be alone/be alone after school?
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Anonymous
05/19/2026 22:58
Subject: At what age could your kid be alone/be alone after school?
Anonymous wrote:10-11 for most kids. But once they are teens, we went backward for a bit and wanted an adult home as much as possible.
Right?! At 11 I was extremely responsible but at 14 we were sneaking liquor. Once my friend and I ordered a pizza and answered the door in her mom’s lingerie!!! By the time I was 16 I was trustworthy again.
Anonymous
05/19/2026 22:47
Subject: At what age could your kid be alone/be alone after school?
Anonymous wrote:14
You wouldn’t let your NT kid come home from school to an empty house until they are in HS? That’s wild.