Anonymous wrote:As a woman in my 40s when I see men posting about how important it is for a wife to love sex and for some to have kinks, it makes me think back to my 20s when men judged women so harshly for having several sexual partners in the past, or if they knew a woman hooked up casually on occasion. A woman like that would be immediately branded a slut and would never seriously be considered as girlfriend or wife material. Guess what guys - when you marry a prude she may just turn out to be prudish!

Anonymous wrote:No woman satisfies all of my wish list but here is a list with more important items toward the top:

Inquisitive
Intelligent
Has interesting things to say
Sexually responsive in bed (has many Os, so women who tell me they like sex but rarely reach O with a man are not going to hold my attention for the long term)
Comfortable talking with me about feelings, family, politics, etc
Passionate about things she does in the world (career, community service, making music or art...but I almost never click with stay at home moms)
Attractive (can be unconventionally attractive)
Likes to cook with me or do other things with me
Challenges me to be a better person
Attuned to my body (not as important as enjoying what I do to her, as long as I get basic needs met)
Compatible with my friends
Compatible with my family
Active
Likes exploring the city
Likes to travel
Financially independent


I actually meet a fair number of women like this but the ones I like best usually end up preferring someone who is hotter. Plenty of smart and hot women like me too, but there's usually an obvious quality listed above that's missing.

Anonymous wrote:This thread brings to mind the movie Weird Science

Anonymous wrote:...has never heard of this website.

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Anonymous wrote:BJ BJ and more BJs.

So your house is filthy, she lays around all day with no job, she can't complete anything she starts, she's dumb as a door knob, you're kids are nasty and unkept as long as you get a BJ you're ok?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Ha! I was going to say this is me, but it’s not. I am religious and expect my husband and kids to participate in services and know about their religion. I don’t consider this a “personal issue.” This is part of who we are as a family.
I like to workout outside some of the time. Sometimes the gym feels like torture.
I’m also not picky about hotels

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

I’m a woman and I enjoy it very much. BF and I do it about 50% of the time.

Fyi he's gay.

Anonymous wrote:nerdy,
likes scifi or fantasy,
likes helping others,
maybe one small tattoo,
good cook only because I suck at it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

I’m a woman and I enjoy it very much. BF and I do it about 50% of the time.