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Anonymous wrote:Yes, you need to plan to feed three meals a day. Wtf?

This. WHY the F did you invite all these people over if you had no plan to host them?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, you need to plan to feed three meals a day. Wtf?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you belong to Costco? 5 days, or which Christmas Eve dinner and Christmas brunch/dinner is included is really doable. I agree about croissants, cereal, fruit and yogurt to just put out for breakfast. Ask people how they take their coffee. Sandwiches and maybe soup (you choose 1 type, heat up 4 cans of the same type). Do you have any traditions for Christmas Eve and Christmas meals? The 3 other dinners can be pizza, take out Chinese, tacos, or whatever.
I don’t think you can get away with just lasagna for Christmas Eve. Maybe that’s the main part, but it’s a special night. You can get frozen appetizers, saute green beans, buy a Costco dessert, Costco rolls, Costco sausage or meatballs, etc.
Can you ask guests to bring beer and/or wine?

Canned soup?

Yeah, that's pretty bad. As a guest I'd go out to lunch before eating canned soup.

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To be fair, they weren't invited, but said they were coming for christmas.

This is totally different. No need to feed.

Offering one meal would be nice. After they arrive, I'd say something like this: "So glad to see you! I won't have the time/ability to cook for everyone, but you are free to use our kitchen as needed. The closest grocery store is _______." Offer coffee and some fruit in the morning. Beyond that, you should not feel obligated to purchase and cook for them.

And if the email doesn’t do the trick, this warm welcome will - and they will turn and go home.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not expect to be fed more than once or twice if someone let me stay at their home for five days. If anything I would be planning to take them out or order dinner. Also, a hearty soup with a baguette and some cheese is a meal.

Out of curiosity, what would you expect to do for all the other meals? Go out all the time, bring in groceries, or are you just saying that you don't expect the hosts to cook 3x meals a day but you'd still anticipate they have stuff available you can DIY?

DP. I would expect to go out and purchase some groceries for any breakfast/lunch at the host’s home. it’s really only my sister’s house where I expect to get fed and provided with snacks 😈

But would you try to cook in your host's kitchen? As a host, that would drive me nuts.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not expect to be fed more than once or twice if someone let me stay at their home for five days. If anything I would be planning to take them out or order dinner. Also, a hearty soup with a baguette and some cheese is a meal.

Out of curiosity, what would you expect to do for all the other meals? Go out all the time, bring in groceries, or are you just saying that you don't expect the hosts to cook 3x meals a day but you'd still anticipate they have stuff available you can DIY?

DP. I would expect to go out and purchase some groceries for any breakfast/lunch at the host’s home. it’s really only my sister’s house where I expect to get fed and provided with snacks 😈

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Anonymous wrote:Do you belong to Costco? 5 days, or which Christmas Eve dinner and Christmas brunch/dinner is included is really doable. I agree about croissants, cereal, fruit and yogurt to just put out for breakfast. Ask people how they take their coffee. Sandwiches and maybe soup (you choose 1 type, heat up 4 cans of the same type). Do you have any traditions for Christmas Eve and Christmas meals? The 3 other dinners can be pizza, take out Chinese, tacos, or whatever.
I don’t think you can get away with just lasagna for Christmas Eve. Maybe that’s the main part, but it’s a special night. You can get frozen appetizers, saute green beans, buy a Costco dessert, Costco rolls, Costco sausage or meatballs, etc.
Can you ask guests to bring beer and/or wine?

Canned soup?

Yeah, that's pretty bad. As a guest I'd go out to lunch before eating canned soup.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not expect to be fed more than once or twice if someone let me stay at their home for five days. If anything I would be planning to take them out or order dinner. Also, a hearty soup with a baguette and some cheese is a meal.

Out of curiosity, what would you expect to do for all the other meals? Go out all the time, bring in groceries, or are you just saying that you don't expect the hosts to cook 3x meals a day but you'd still anticipate they have stuff available you can DIY?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you belong to Costco? 5 days, or which Christmas Eve dinner and Christmas brunch/dinner is included is really doable. I agree about croissants, cereal, fruit and yogurt to just put out for breakfast. Ask people how they take their coffee. Sandwiches and maybe soup (you choose 1 type, heat up 4 cans of the same type). Do you have any traditions for Christmas Eve and Christmas meals? The 3 other dinners can be pizza, take out Chinese, tacos, or whatever.
I don’t think you can get away with just lasagna for Christmas Eve. Maybe that’s the main part, but it’s a special night. You can get frozen appetizers, saute green beans, buy a Costco dessert, Costco rolls, Costco sausage or meatballs, etc.
Can you ask guests to bring beer and/or wine?

Canned soup?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP. If you invited them to stay with you, you will need to provide food. Hopefully, as others have said the guests will offer to buy some food and also take you out to dinner. Otherwise, you need to think of frugal options. I grew up with 8 kids in my family, so I know how to make cheap meals for big groups:

* Breakfast casserole s....prep the night before each morning
* Bananas are the cheapest fruit..buy them green so they last a long time
* Make your own pizza dough, shred your own cheese + have pizza night
*Buy whatever meat is on sale ( ham, for example, is 99 cents a pound now at Giant + Safeway)
*You already mentioned lasagna -- good, cheap idea
* Make meatloaf
* Get canned vegetables
* Make your own desserts- Christmas cookies, homemade pies
*Make your own breads/rolls
* Spaghetti night
* Mexican casserole night
* Make homemade popcorn for snacks
*Make peanut noodles for snacks
* I like someone's idea to make tuna and egg salad for lunches. I would add cabbage and pasta salad
* Make chili and soups for lunch

* Make large quantities of iced tea and lemonade - (super cheap)

Anonymous wrote:I would not expect to be fed more than once or twice if someone let me stay at their home for five days. If anything I would be planning to take them out or order dinner. Also, a hearty soup with a baguette and some cheese is a meal.

Anonymous wrote:I set expectations right up front - I tell guests I'll cook and serve family-style dinners but breakfast and lunch are on their own & they're welcome to help themselves to anything in the kitchen.