Anonymous wrote:I find myself in a similar situation. We are both married with kids, and she is so cute and personable. Ideally, if we were to act on our feelings, it would only be when we are at work conferences, maybe 3 to 4 times a year.
Don’t fool yourself, it won’t just be at work conferences and even if it is: there will still be heaps of emailing and talk about feelings. Women (even ostensibly happily married ones)don’t like to feel like an unpaid internet escort. There is NO such thing as recurrent NSA sex with a woman, repeat as necessary.