Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 22:54     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Anonymous wrote:Happily married with kids for 16 years and find myself attracted to a married coworker. Why is this happening?

Just give in, get the other person to pay for a hotel room and sleep with the person. Report back…
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 19:10     Subject: Re:Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Having an open marriage has been the key for our relationship. Our needs are different and as humans are the only animal who has some need to be monogamous, we find going for our nature works for us.
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 18:54     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Anonymous wrote:Just don’t go to lunch together!


or drinks, or phone calls, or anything.
Anonymous
Post 11/27/2023 01:25     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Just don’t go to lunch together!
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2023 23:31     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Physical attraction, nothing else = normal, I wouldn’t be concerned.

Romantic feelings = huge red flag


It might be romantic


Uh oh. Strap in for a bumpy ride.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2023 23:21     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Anonymous wrote:I find myself in a similar situation. We are both married with kids, and she is so cute and personable. Ideally, if we were to act on our feelings, it would only be when we are at work conferences, maybe 3 to 4 times a year.





Don’t fool yourself, it won’t just be at work conferences and even if it is: there will still be heaps of emailing and talk about feelings. Women (even ostensibly happily married ones)don’t like to feel like an unpaid internet escort. There is NO such thing as recurrent NSA sex with a woman, repeat as necessary.
Anonymous
Post 11/26/2023 22:22     Subject: Happily married but have feelings for someone else

Anonymous wrote:Physical attraction, nothing else = normal, I wouldn’t be concerned.

Romantic feelings = huge red flag


It might be romantic