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Anonymous wrote:Once the skin looses its elasticity it’s downhill from there…

That and the outmost inch of skin turning soft and flabby--this has nothing to do with how in shape you are its a future of age. For my at 53 this is starting.

If you are really in shape there’s not much outermost skin, but even if it’s just 1/3 of an inch, when it feels soft and fluffy that’s not attractive/sexy. Does this happen to everyone by their 50’s?

I'm in early 40s now. I've always found men to be most attractive in their 40s, as long as they are fit and have all their hair. It really hasn't changed over the years. When I was younger, my celebrity crushes were Harrison Ford, Brad Pitt and George Clooney. Now I like Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling.

Anonymous wrote:Women about age 26- 28. They are perfect.

From a purely physical standpoint, I've always thought of 27 as the best age. Physical appearance isn't the end-all, be-all; but, in that context, it's the sweet spot where age hasn't started to take hold, but you're looking at a woman and not a child.

Whatever age my husband is, which at this moment is 50. I've always found him delicious, but getting older has put a patina on him that drives me crazy. The little lines around his eyes and gray in the hair, plus the wisdom and composure he brings to every situation. He seems to like me too, which is nice

Anonymous wrote:It’s not about age, it’s about so many other things. A 34 year old physically hot guy with the brain of a potato pales in comparison to a fit 50 year old with brains, ambition and warmth.

I dated plenty of those “hot potatoes” in my 20’s. A well hung guy with six pack abs was a real treat until that’s all they were. My husband is 49 and he is far more attractive to me than those guys were 20 years ago. His bedroom skills are wonderful and that really adds to his attractiveness.

Women about age 26- 28. They are perfect.

My wife has always been hot and very fit at every age. Like 1 percenter body level of hot. She’s 50 now and still looks amazing in a bikini. I’d early 30’s were the hottest but who care’s I’ve found her attractive the entire 20+ years we’ve been together.

For me, its not so much an age range I find hot as it is the individual person and if she has what I like.

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Anonymous wrote:42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I have seen this answer on DCUM more than once. What’s with the sag and muffin top being a turn on? I don’t get it.

Asking as a healthy BMI slightly saggy muffiny 41 year old mom.

It probably is a primal signal of fertility even if we think of women with curves or sag as old or chubby. The chubby women are the ones who have the most potential to birth lots of healthy babies and the man’s lizard brain knows it.

I am curvy and I think my body just is much more overtly sexual and I have to make efforts to make myself look less sexy.

PP here that posted about like saggy boobs and muffin tops.

It is very primal but no in the way above poster describe. To me it just a woman in a more “physically natural state”
that is just truly beautiful. But jus the way she carries herself is a large part of the attraction.

I’m 40 and the men I find most attractive are around 5 years older than me.

Anonymous wrote:Once the skin looses its elasticity it’s downhill from there…

That and the outmost inch of skin turning soft and flabby--this has nothing to do with how in shape you are its a future of age. For my at 53 this is starting.

Anonymous wrote:The way a woman's ass looks and feels is far more important than her face and asses dont age like faces because they aren't exposed to the elements esp. sun the way her face is. When I am hitting it from behind the facial wrinkles don't bother me at all

Asses age too, dude.

Woman. I am in my early 50s now but was smoking hot from 32-45.

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Anonymous wrote:42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I have seen this answer on DCUM more than once. What’s with the sag and muffin top being a turn on? I don’t get it.

Asking as a healthy BMI slightly saggy muffiny 41 year old mom.

It probably is a primal signal of fertility even if we think of women with curves or sag as old or chubby. The chubby women are the ones who have the most potential to birth lots of healthy babies and the man’s lizard brain knows it.

I am curvy and I think my body just is much more overtly sexual and I have to make efforts to make myself look less sexy.

The way a woman's ass looks and feels is far more important than her face and asses dont age like faces because they aren't exposed to the elements esp. sun the way her face is. When I am hitting it from behind the facial wrinkles don't bother me at all

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Anonymous wrote:There was an interesting poll done on this where men of any age picked 21-22 for women, and women tended to choose someone closer to their age.

As a guy, this tracks.

+1

Yes, but it’s not at ALL who I actually want to spend time with.

Exactly. Physical attractiveness is only a subset of overall attractiveness.