Anonymous wrote:This is mental illness and narcissism. It is immoral, gross and disturbing. Just because you can buy a baby and buy a de facto modern slave to risk their life carrying it for you doesn’t mean you should.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is mental illness and narcissism. It is immoral, gross and disturbing. Just because you can buy a baby and buy a de facto modern slave to risk their life carrying it for you doesn’t mean you should.
And much worse because they already have a ton of kids. I have sympathy for couples who do this out of desperation to have just one. My heart really breaks for people in that position. But these guys? It is unethical.
+1. If I had to guess, Gordon’s wife is batsh-t and he’s probably only indulging her because he’s a serial cheater.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is mental illness and narcissism. It is immoral, gross and disturbing. Just because you can buy a baby and buy a de facto modern slave to risk their life carrying it for you doesn’t mean you should.
And much worse because they already have a ton of kids. I have sympathy for couples who do this out of desperation to have just one. My heart really breaks for people in that position. But these guys? It is unethical.
Anonymous wrote:I understand people's discomfort of feeling that Gordon and Tana are possibly not being truthful about their birth of their baby but that is their choice.
Myself, in my early 40's, is desperate to know. Not because I want to shame them, ridicule them, judge them or look down on them for whatever their decisions were but because it may give me hope for myself. Something I look for whenever I hear of a woman in their 40's having a baby, was it with the help of IVF, was it natural, are there any secrets or tips that may help myself of many other women out there desperate for a baby? Just for a glimmer of hope in the darkness of despair of the realisation that you are just too late, yet never have you had more to offer in my life.
Sadly, for me I did not find the right person that I felt would be both an amazing husband and wonderdul dad, until late in life, too late biologically it seems. IVF is not an option for us due to finances. And although we still try, I have mentally and physically grieved the realisation that this may/will never happen for us, which has been an utterly harrowing journey. If only I knew then, what I know now.
There are so many children out there that are unwanted, mistreated or unloved. The birth of this loved and wanted baby should be celebrated.
Congratulations to Tana and Gordon on their beautiful baby boy, I say. No matter how he was conceived, carried or birthed, he is going to be one lucky little boy with a warm, happy and loving family and wonderful parents.
Who are any of us to judge you and your choices? No-one has travelled the same journey as Tana and Gordon nor understands what, when, how or why.
This should be a celebration of a beautiful new life, people be kind. 🙏
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There’s a good chance Tana won’t be around for the wedding of her 6th child, let alone grandchildren.
Timorrow isn't guaranteed for anyone. Who cares if she used a surrogate or didn't?
This isn't your baby or your marriage
Why not just say congrats and move on?
Anonymous wrote:This is mental illness and narcissism. It is immoral, gross and disturbing. Just because you can buy a baby and buy a de facto modern slave to risk their life carrying it for you doesn’t mean you should.
Anonymous wrote:There’s a good chance Tana won’t be around for the wedding of her 6th child, let alone grandchildren.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My God. When this baby is 21, his mother will be 70. Yikes.
70 is very different than what it used to be.
My dad was diagnosed with aggressive cancer at 70. Gone by 72. It’s still old.
Right. Only on DCUM do all these IVF wackos pretend death and disease doesn't happen. They don't want to accept the reality of a Actuarial Life Table. Who cares if you wait until late 30s or 40s to have kids, everyone is living until 100!Um, no, they're not. You or your husband are more likely to die in your 40s than 30s, 50s than 40s, 60s than 50s, and so on.
Anonymous wrote:They make it look like she gave birth but that would be very hard at her age.