Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 19:21     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:I say true.


True, think about the lies, the deception, the choices at every stage and ultimately the carrying out of the act. There are way too many lies and steps that one needs to take to do something like that!
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 17:03     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
I cheated on a boyfriend (he was also doing questionable things and we glossed over a ton of stuff…) . I didn’t make a vow to him but i regret it (i was cowardly and immature). It also was one of the many signs we were not right for each other. Never been an issue in my marriage (15 years). Not even close.
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 16:05     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:True. They always want fresh and new instead of old and stinky.


Variety. Yes. But most if these guys are hitting moms that have already birthed children, not spring chickens: other wives. And these ow are often promiscuous which isn’t exactly “fresh”.
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 15:58     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
True.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2023 11:15     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
True.
Just because you don't cheat on EVERY partner (at least yet...) doesn't mean you are suddenly no longer a cheater.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2023 10:54     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Can’t change the spots on a leopard
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2023 09:36     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
True. Even if you cheated "only once" you are still at your core a cheater. Your moral compass is broken. You can spend eternity trying to repair things with your spouse and never cheat again, but you are still and always will be a cheater. And now you are pre-dispositioned to do other deceitful things to your spouse or others to boot because you have proven that you only care about yourself.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 22:16     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:True. If you did once, you did it. You can't erase it, so even if you never cheat again, you're still a cheater.


Yep. It’s part of you.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 22:07     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
True. If you did once, you did it. You can't erase it, so even if you never cheat again, you're still a cheater.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 21:36     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:I say true.


I say true.

You have to jump through so many lies and hoops to keep that going, if you are capable of that you are capable of anything! It's not like oops! I slipped and fell on top of this person.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 21:33     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
True. They always want fresh and new instead of old and stinky.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 19:41     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.


Me too
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 18:00     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:False. They can learn to overcome temptation. I have.


You just haven't had the right motivation and opportunity since the first time.


DP than you're replying to but this is incorrect.