Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is there even a Fairmont in dc?

I know Dh and I both go to hotels for meals and meetings. We meet other people who are staying at hotels. Dh gets random crap at conferences like bags, pens, clips, chargers, notepads, notebooks. I can’t imagine getting this worked up over a hotel notepad.

I buy cute notepads and post its and they get lost kn my house all the time. I have 3 kids.

There is one in Georgetown

Pp here. I was just thinking if Dh had a notepad from the four seasons I wouldn’t think anything because he goes to bourbon steak. Not that this random notepad would be at his steak dinner.

Anonymous wrote:Is there even a Fairmont in dc?

I know Dh and I both go to hotels for meals and meetings. We meet other people who are staying at hotels. Dh gets random crap at conferences like bags, pens, clips, chargers, notepads, notebooks. I can’t imagine getting this worked up over a hotel notepad.

I buy cute notepads and post its and they get lost kn my house all the time. I have 3 kids.

There is one in Georgetown

Is there even a Fairmont in dc?

I know Dh and I both go to hotels for meals and meetings. We meet other people who are staying at hotels. Dh gets random crap at conferences like bags, pens, clips, chargers, notepads, notebooks. I can’t imagine getting this worked up over a hotel notepad.

I buy cute notepads and post its and they get lost kn my house all the time. I have 3 kids.

Better than a Motel 8 notepad. That would be a bit more skanky. Always a silver lining.

Anonymous wrote:There is zero chance he grabbed a notepad from the hotel he has hot sex with his mistress. They would be way too busy and tired.

I don’t know, I love my free pens and notepads. Especially if I sprang for a fancy hotel. Or maybe AP sprang for a fancy hotel!

Maybe he’s drawing her like one of his French girls.

You’re all nuts. It’s a free notepad! They float around. He probably grabbed it at the office. Someone left it there. Who knows??

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is zero chance he grabbed a notepad from the hotel he has hot sex with his mistress. They would be way too busy and tired.

Exactly. This would be a weird souvenir to bring home to the house he shares with his wife.

People take notepads when they need to write something down (eg work call) not as a souvenir.

I take the sheet of paper I wrote it down on, not the whole pad. Try again. And why is he taking notes while banging his AP?

How else can he improve?

First, Fairmont is not that high end of a hotel. Depending on the location, it is very average. If your husband travels a lot for work, he could very easily have gone there whether to spend the night or for a meeting.

Second, you either trust your husband or you don’t. I recently found a strange woman’s underwear in the laundry. I asked DH about it. He just looked confused about the question. I showed him and he shrugged. Then he asked our teen who looked equally puzzled. Then our other son said he found it on the side of the bed at a hotel and put it in the laundry bag thinking it was mine (mom’s). Mystery solved.

Look through his credit card statements.

Anonymous wrote:Why is the notepad suddenly gone though?

That's so strange.

I work from home and have several notepads that I move around, take with me if I get up while talking or checking something, etc.

I mean did he see her look right at it? If so- and then it disappeared that would warrant concern. Just it being moved not in that context does not. Is it in a drawer?

Why is the notepad suddenly gone though?

That's so strange.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is zero chance he grabbed a notepad from the hotel he has hot sex with his mistress. They would be way too busy and tired.

Exactly. This would be a weird souvenir to bring home to the house he shares with his wife.

People take notepads when they need to write something down (eg work call) not as a souvenir.

I take the sheet of paper I wrote it down on, not the whole pad. Try again. And why is he taking notes while banging his AP?

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Anonymous wrote:The only strange thing is that the notepad disappeared after the first time you saw it.

+1

Yep, for sure that is strange.

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Anonymous wrote:There is zero chance he grabbed a notepad from the hotel he has hot sex with his mistress. They would be way too busy and tired.

Right?? What is he taking notes about?

Yeah, that tracks. He's not going to race out of the room, and think, oh wait, I have an unrelated-to-the-illicit-sex-I-just-had thought! and grab a note pad.

I think it’s more like he had had a late night with a hookup, work up late, had to take a work call and didn’t have anything else to write on with him. Threw the notepad in his bag/pocket.

I was struck by him quickly putting it away. That seem suss.