This is one of the most out of touch posts I've ever seen on DCUM and that is saying something.
The median household income in the DMV is $117k. You make more than TWICE what the typical family makes around here.
https://censusreporter.org/profiles/31000US47900-washington-arlington-alexandria-dc-va-md-wv-metro-area/
You are not "priced out." You can't have everything you want. Boo hoo. Neither can anyone else. Even Warren Buffet has to make choices sometimes, and so do you. Pick what's most important to you and buy a house from the PLETHORA of options you have. Or, decide you'd rather rent and rent. But either way, thank your lucky stars that you have more resources and choices at your disposal thank 99% of this planet and try to have some gratitude and humility instead of being a whiny, entitled, spoiled brat.
Signed,
Someone with a $200k HHI and a home we love that you would turn up your nose at