That would creep me out! My exes were decent guys and our splitting was never ugly but I have zero desire to hear from them again. I’d block him and move on. I’ve run into a couple of them at reunions and while I’m polite I don’t give them any of my contact info.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:12-step program? Maybe he considers you someone he needs to make amends with

That is an excellent point buried in like four pages of cynicism.

At 11pm? No. Booty call.

Wait, the bar, op, this is huge. Did you sneak in? The guy sounds creepy as all get out. I can’t figure out why you Googled him v. just block, this isn’t a family friend, or someone you lost touch with, this is a guy you met being someplace you shouldn’t have been and when you knew him, he wasn’t a boyfriend, yet he ended things with you because he thought you slept with a friend.. or that’s what he told you, I kind of wonder if you stopped being what he wanted and now he’s seeing if maybe you might be receptive to whatever nasty he wants to visit upon you.
As
For how he got your number, probably from when you gave it to him. As for why he’s calling late at night, again people like him never really go away. I’d block him and apologize to your husband, if the world was fair, you’d have been in bed enjoying him and not seen that text until the morning where you would have blocked him.

Anonymous wrote:He was drunk dialing. There are numerous songs about it. I’d block, but it seems like you are giddy from the attention.

Haha +1. If she googled his number and Facebook, she obviously saw recent photos of him. I'm guessing he must still be relatively attractive or OP never creates this thread.

Anonymous wrote:12-step program? Maybe he considers you someone he needs to make amends with

That is an excellent point buried in like four pages of cynicism.