Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Who cares? Do you allow her to swim? My gosh.
Do you allow your kids to go to restaurants in their swimsuits? My gosh.
Anonymous wrote:My daughter, seeing the trend in teen girls, now wants to show her midriff. I'm not a fan of this trend or anything that feels like objectifying. At the same time, I want her to be comfortable and happy in what she's wearing. Clearly this isn't about boy attention because she's not into them yet (that would be an easier conversation to have if that were the reason). I'm excited about the cold weather coming, maybe that will help, for now. Any similar experiences with your daughters and how you approached it?
Anonymous wrote:It's skin, not a nipple. Stop trying to make this an issue
Anonymous wrote:Who cares? Do you allow her to swim? My gosh.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My almost 7yo saw teenagers in the neighborhood wearing crop tops and wanted to do the same. I told her no but I have caught her trying to tie her shirts up high with a scrunchie. I told her she can't go out like that so she doesn't. She tests out all sorts of fashion that she sees- some in the totally opposite direction-- floor length prairie dresses etc. It's not about sexualization in her case, she wouldn't even understand that concept.
Why is she like this?? Is she being abused? This is the kind of behavior that groomed kids display.
Anonymous wrote:Sorry that none of the PPs have given remotely helpful responses. I opened this thread bc I too have a 7 year old girl and - although this particular issue hasn’t come up - similar things have/will and I wondered how people would approach it in a ‘shut it down but not shaming’ way. Hope some people with helpful advice chime in!
Anonymous wrote:Sorry that none of the PPs have given remotely helpful responses. I opened this thread bc I too have a 7 year old girl and - although this particular issue hasn’t come up - similar things have/will and I wondered how people would approach it in a ‘shut it down but not shaming’ way. Hope some people with helpful advice chime in!