Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 23:38     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:How do we feel about Tammys? The two I know are both kind of crazy. One is classic borderline personality disorder and leaves a trail of destruction everywhere she goes. The other is a family member who likes to reach out to "help" but will gossip about you viciously.


Politely I won’t add to this. But yes. In my knowledge not ‘as bad’ / to the degree you suggest. But, sorry, yes
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 22:26     Subject: Jessica
How do we feel about Tammys? The two I know are both kind of crazy. One is classic borderline personality disorder and leaves a trail of destruction everywhere she goes. The other is a family member who likes to reach out to "help" but will gossip about you viciously.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 21:32     Subject: Jessica
I haven’t known many but the Joy and Merry I have know were both borderline personalities. Complete nut jobs.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 21:32     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:I don't have an issue with Jessicas- they seem to be 'on it' in terms of work/life... but Karens are always jerks. I wish that wasn't true because that name gets enough hate these days. Black Karens are normal but the white ones- even when they seem normal enough at first... I just wait for it and it happens.

Michele/Michelles can be hit or miss though.


All the Karen's I know are incredibly sweet. Six are Asian, three are white, one a relative and one a very close friend, but none are like the stereotype.

Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 21:19     Subject: Jessica
Every woman I meet who has “joy” or “merry” in her name - and I’ve met several - is difficult.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:47     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel that way about becky/becca.


Beccas are shallow and fake.



Rebaccas tend to be interesting. Jennifers are generally nice. Jessicas are a mixed bag.

But what is going on with the Ashleys?


The Ashleys are sweet and quirky, maybe a little naive but very loyal friends.

Rachels are outgoing and organized. They are connectors.

Emilys are bookish and reliable, tend to be humble, but can also be a bit too serious for their own good.


This is true for Emily
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:44     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel that way about becky/becca.


Beccas are shallow and fake.



Rebaccas tend to be interesting. Jennifers are generally nice. Jessicas are a mixed bag.

But what is going on with the Ashleys?


The Ashleys are sweet and quirky, maybe a little naive but very loyal friends.

Rachels are outgoing and organized. They are connectors.

Emilys are bookish and reliable, tend to be humble, but can also be a bit too serious for their own good.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:40     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:Cathys and Catherines are a little older but always nice.

Amy is so common they could be anything. Too much of a representation of the full population. I feel similarly about Jennifer.

I’m 38, and Morgans are the young hip mom that are too cool for me.


Morgans’ moms might be the oldest of Gen X.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:19     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel that way about becky/becca.


Beccas are shallow and fake.



Rebaccas tend to be interesting. Jennifers are generally nice. Jessicas are a mixed bag.

But what is going on with the Ashleys?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:13     Subject: Jessica
Cathys and Catherines are a little older but always nice.

Amy is so common they could be anything. Too much of a representation of the full population. I feel similarly about Jennifer.

I’m 38, and Morgans are the young hip mom that are too cool for me.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:10     Subject: Jessica
I agree I have trouble with Heathers. I want to be friends, but Heathers put up a wall that I can’t get past. I feel like *they* dislike *me.*
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:09     Subject: Re:Jessica
My Jessicas have all been great. I think you have to watch out for Amber, Lindsay, and Angie. Especially in a group.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:09     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The name Amanda always struck me as mean or violent or unprofessional. I always see an Amanda in the crime news.

Also what about a crystal? The ones I met had light eyes and averted their gaze. They were also very unprofessional and trashy.


I was going to say Crystal! I once worked with two at the same time. They were both THE worst people I've ever had to work with.

One was extremely toxic, back stabbing but she was friends with one supervisor and had the higher supervisor fooled. She was a liar and a histrionic victim player.

The only friend she had in the office was the other Crystal, who was the most obsequious person I've ever met. She spoke very highly of herself but was stupid and did things wrong constantly.

It was a terrible time.

One was Crystal Dawn and the other was Crystal Gayle. So I think it's safe to say moms who name their kids such stupid names probably have a negative affect on their childrens personalities.

This. Sorry Crystals. Honestly, you all are more likely to have already separated a bit from your own mom. Maybe? Toxic relationship perhaps? I’m sure you’re lovely, but your mom isn’t the best.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:07     Subject: Jessica
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ha! I’m a Jessica and I can’t stand a single Katie.


I’m a fellow Jessica, I agree with this. Conversely, I get along with all other Jessicas and any form of Megan


Oh hello, I’m a Megan and I can be friends with any Jessica. Can’t think of one I don’t like. Even Jess or Jessie.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2023 18:05     Subject: Jessica
There are three constants in life:

1. all mean girls and female bullies grow up to become nurses.
2. all women named Jessica are difficult & the term Karen should have been Jessica. Every woman named Karen I've met has been pleasant and lovely.
3. all women named Candice, who go by Candy as kids, grow up to be strippers.