Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 17:05     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
This is a troll, people.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 11:46     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you use your words and ask him for the seat?


Oh stop. My dh would have never done this to me and I would not have done this to him. It's not the communication in this case it's the fact that he didn't hesitate to accept without even thinking that it would have been the kind thing to do to take the two coach seats so they could be together. And texting a picture of the cheese plate is just mean!


Why should both people suffer? If they are returning from vacation they have been together 24/7 for days and can endure a few hours separated on a plane. Good grief.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 11:45     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:It would have been handled better if he would have turned to you and said let’s take it and trade off. Or sat in coach with you of course.


Why should he suffer because she was?

This happens to my friend a lot. His work travel is what earns the upgrade so he gets the better seat. She takes an edible and watches TV and is fine in economy
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 10:54     Subject: Re:DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, I've got some good news and some bad news for you. The good news is that obviously your husband is an a-hole. I cannot begin to fathom any spouse (husband or wife) taking an upgrade and leaving the other in coach, and texting you the picture is over the top. That is what you wanted to hear from DCUM and you got it. it's the truth. (I won't waste my time reading all the posts, but I would bet my last dollar that they are 99% in agreement that your husband is a low life.

But here is the more sobering news. in marriage and in life, people get what they deserve. It does not reflect well on you that the best husband your could attract was this person. you should look in the mirror and be honest about what you can do to improve yourself.

what a sad, yucky story.


This person is an imbecile, OP. Ignore them.


The PP is right and name calling won't change it. the truth hurts sometimes.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 10:52     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
No wonder the divorce rate is so high in this country- there are so many petty and childish, grudges and squabbles. I would’ve told my husband to enjoy the upgrade. Or, if I really needed that seat, I would’ve asked for it.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 10:42     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:I had high status and was traveling economy with my family. The cabin manager came to the back to greet me and said “Sir, we would have upgraded you but we saw you were traveling with your family.”

Because they were sitting next to me there was no way for me to say “what? These losers? I barely know them!”

I try to signal this with my eyes but no luck


Hahaha! Ok, I almost called trolled, then remembered I've lost upgrades because I had others attached to my itinerary and there weren't enough seats for all. Pretty hilarious and depressing to have them mention it on the plane, though.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 10:41     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone might as well take advantage. It's not like he paid extra to upgrade just himself. It was a fluke. Airplane time is not exactly loveliy time to chat . Trading half way through would be the best option.


Trading half way sounds embarrassing. And prole.


What are the consequences if a whole plane of people I don’t know think I am a prole?
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 09:48     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:Someone might as well take advantage. It's not like he paid extra to upgrade just himself. It was a fluke. Airplane time is not exactly loveliy time to chat . Trading half way through would be the best option.


Trading half way sounds embarrassing. And prole.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 08:11     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
I had high status and was traveling economy with my family. The cabin manager came to the back to greet me and said “Sir, we would have upgraded you but we saw you were traveling with your family.”

Because they were sitting next to me there was no way for me to say “what? These losers? I barely know them!”

I try to signal this with my eyes but no luck
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 07:59     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
DH is a duck. I get upgraded a lot and ALWAYS give it to DH.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 04:11     Subject: Re:DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I, a wife, get offered upgrades all the time due to my status with an airline. Sometimes my husband is also upgraded, sometimes not. If he isn’t, I decline the upgrade. The best seat on the plane is the one next to him.


Barf.


Sorry your spouse sucks.


Uh, no. “The best seat on the plane is the one next to him” was infantile, nauseating pablum.

-DP with awesome husband
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 04:08     Subject: Re:DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:OP, I've got some good news and some bad news for you. The good news is that obviously your husband is an a-hole. I cannot begin to fathom any spouse (husband or wife) taking an upgrade and leaving the other in coach, and texting you the picture is over the top. That is what you wanted to hear from DCUM and you got it. it's the truth. (I won't waste my time reading all the posts, but I would bet my last dollar that they are 99% in agreement that your husband is a low life.

But here is the more sobering news. in marriage and in life, people get what they deserve. It does not reflect well on you that the best husband your could attract was this person. you should look in the mirror and be honest about what you can do to improve yourself.

what a sad, yucky story.


This person is an imbecile, OP. Ignore them.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2023 03:56     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Troll. Subject was in a Carolyn Hax advice column
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2023 21:29     Subject: DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
My husband would have given me the seat.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2023 21:22     Subject: Re:DH upgraded to business class on overseas flight, left me in coach
Anonymous wrote:I, a wife, get offered upgrades all the time due to my status with an airline. Sometimes my husband is also upgraded, sometimes not. If he isn’t, I decline the upgrade. The best seat on the plane is the one next to him.


Lol. No it isn't.