Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First off, this is American wealthy people of all backgrounds. I worked extensively internationally and Americans really value a “clean” look above all else. It means well, being clean, having your clothes really well cleaned and ironed, and having your hair under control and shiny shampooed look. Makeup and teeth should also give a sense of cleanliness. Hence the looser cuts of Brooks brothers etc, but everyone’s hair looks so shiny and clean.

In Europe they do like close tailoring and fashion but they just aren’t as “clean” looking. They don’t shower as much as American wealthy people, and don’t care to have their hair shiny and clean. Plus they walk a lot outside so it would be a pointless effort. In the Middle East, they are super into grooming as a way to show their respect but totally different clothing and style is different and for women about being feminine. In Asia it’s about looking “new” not necessarily “clean”.

I just say this all to point our it’s not all rich people- it’s culturally specific.

Why is it "pointless" to be clean if you are outside a lot? I assume they are not rolling around in the dirt like my dog.

Funny, but I meant the wind, humidity etc will mess up their hair. It’s not going from your car to the mall. It’s like at least an hour a day outside for whatever reason (commute etc.).

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First off, this is American wealthy people of all backgrounds. I worked extensively internationally and Americans really value a “clean” look above all else. It means well, being clean, having your clothes really well cleaned and ironed, and having your hair under control and shiny shampooed look. Makeup and teeth should also give a sense of cleanliness. Hence the looser cuts of Brooks brothers etc, but everyone’s hair looks so shiny and clean.

In Europe they do like close tailoring and fashion but they just aren’t as “clean” looking. They don’t shower as much as American wealthy people, and don’t care to have their hair shiny and clean. Plus they walk a lot outside so it would be a pointless effort. In the Middle East, they are super into grooming as a way to show their respect but totally different clothing and style is different and for women about being feminine. In Asia it’s about looking “new” not necessarily “clean”.

I just say this all to point our it’s not all rich people- it’s culturally specific.

This is such a weird false stereotype from decades ago to hold onto. PP, have you met a European in the last 30 years?

Actually yes- I am in Europe at least once a month for work. I work at a nice company, interact with a lot of people, and I completely stand by this assessment. Especially with regards to washing and blow drying hair, but also generally speaking.

Anonymous wrote:First off, this is American wealthy people of all backgrounds. I worked extensively internationally and Americans really value a “clean” look above all else. It means well, being clean, having your clothes really well cleaned and ironed, and having your hair under control and shiny shampooed look. Makeup and teeth should also give a sense of cleanliness. Hence the looser cuts of Brooks brothers etc, but everyone’s hair looks so shiny and clean.

In Europe they do like close tailoring and fashion but they just aren’t as “clean” looking. They don’t shower as much as American wealthy people, and don’t care to have their hair shiny and clean. Plus they walk a lot outside so it would be a pointless effort. In the Middle East, they are super into grooming as a way to show their respect but totally different clothing and style is different and for women about being feminine. In Asia it’s about looking “new” not necessarily “clean”.

I just say this all to point our it’s not all rich people- it’s culturally specific.

This is such a weird false stereotype from decades ago to hold onto. PP, have you met a European in the last 30 years?

Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and live in a very wealthy area. I promise you, there is a wide range. Many rich people look just as grumpy and frazzled and over extended as any other group.

Only the men are allowed to look frumpy and frazzled. If a woman does, she must be the earner, else be prepared for divorce, because she will be upgraded to a younger leaner version of herself soon.

It’s the luxury of time. Time to get ready before leaving the house, time in between activities to freshen up, change outfits. Never rushing or feeling rushed to get somewhere or worrying about what you haven’t finished and what still needs doing. Time to ensure clothes and shoes are pressed, cleaned and maintained.

Anonymous wrote:I’m probably who you’re talking about and the only reason I know that is because people think I’m wealthier than I am. Its not a $300 haircut or tailored everything, its just being attractive and not look like a hooker. That’s it. Wear modest clothing as an attractive person and people think you’re rich.

+1
And be fit and slim. I don't wear expensive clothing. I mostly shop Nordstrom, Anthropologie, Club Monnoco, not expensive clothing, but with my body I can make a $100 dress look like a million bucks. I also have shiny long thick hair (blessed by genetics) and I do see a dermatologist once a year for my retinol cream. I don't do botox or cosmetic surgery. I have straight white teeth (another genetic gift). Wear simple accessories and leave the Gucci and other obvious luxury brands for social climbers. I do wear 2 carat diamond earrings almost everyday though. I polish my own nails (mostly) with simple natural colors. I sleep 8 hours and track my sleep and exercise.

Really the true key is be slim!

Anonymous wrote:Teeth. You need good teeth.

Anonymous wrote:First off, this is American wealthy people of all backgrounds. I worked extensively internationally and Americans really value a “clean” look above all else. It means well, being clean, having your clothes really well cleaned and ironed, and having your hair under control and shiny shampooed look. Makeup and teeth should also give a sense of cleanliness. Hence the looser cuts of Brooks brothers etc, but everyone’s hair looks so shiny and clean.

In Europe they do like close tailoring and fashion but they just aren’t as “clean” looking. They don’t shower as much as American wealthy people, and don’t care to have their hair shiny and clean. Plus they walk a lot outside so it would be a pointless effort. In the Middle East, they are super into grooming as a way to show their respect but totally different clothing and style is different and for women about being feminine. In Asia it’s about looking “new” not necessarily “clean”.

I just say this all to point our it’s not all rich people- it’s culturally specific.

Why is it "pointless" to be clean if you are outside a lot? I assume they are not rolling around in the dirt like my dog.

OP are you the person who wanted to know how to smell like rich people?

Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and I look like crap.
No idea

Same. Same. I just got my hair keratined in hopes of appearing moderately able to brush my own hair, but that tidy, sharp look eludes me even when making an effort.

She’s mid 70s. It looks shiny and fine? I’d imagine whatever products they’re using and what she’s spending helps with that. I also think she wouldn’t even know what to do or how to wash her own hair if she stopped. Seriously.

Anonymous wrote:She gets it cleaned and blown out. I see this with all of her CC friends too. Maybe UC generational thing but it’s a thing. I run 7 days a week and find it insane that people do this at all.

I’m curious - how healthy does her hair look? I know it was a thing for women of a certain generation to have their hair washed/styled at the salon weekly, but 4x is a lot. I imagine mine would be fried from such frequent styling.

She gets it cleaned and blown out. I see this with all of her CC friends too. Maybe UC generational thing but it’s a thing. I run 7 days a week and find it insane that people do this at all.

Anonymous wrote:I think there’s some truth to the way you move. My mother in law lives in NYC on Park Ave. She does not workout or even take long walks, only car service. She’s insane about her diet and skin products. Gets her hair done four days a week. Has her people at her stores that pick out all of her clothing, along with a stylist. Outsourcing, not moving and starving yourself pretty much seem to do it.

what is she doing 4x a week?

First off, this is American wealthy people of all backgrounds. I worked extensively internationally and Americans really value a “clean” look above all else. It means well, being clean, having your clothes really well cleaned and ironed, and having your hair under control and shiny shampooed look. Makeup and teeth should also give a sense of cleanliness. Hence the looser cuts of Brooks brothers etc, but everyone’s hair looks so shiny and clean.

In Europe they do like close tailoring and fashion but they just aren’t as “clean” looking. They don’t shower as much as American wealthy people, and don’t care to have their hair shiny and clean. Plus they walk a lot outside so it would be a pointless effort. In the Middle East, they are super into grooming as a way to show their respect but totally different clothing and style is different and for women about being feminine. In Asia it’s about looking “new” not necessarily “clean”.

I just say this all to point our it’s not all rich people- it’s culturally specific.