Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:44     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Let me tell you something that’s going to blow your mind: not all of us live everyday of our lives in pursuit of pleasing men.


You can't de-age your womb
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:43     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It strikes the right balance. You get to enjoy college, grad school, couple years of work and citu living and going out a lot and getting some work / life / relationship experience in your 20s. Meet someone in your late 20s, get married at 30, have a few yrs to travel and enjoy before kids by/around 35 so you aren't that old at the start and duration of the parenting journey. Hope grandparents are retired so have time to help but not too old to be able to do so.

I am 40 and most of my friends got married between 30-33. Those were the peak years of weddings for us. We are lawyers and all our friends are professionals, most went to grad schools, live in major cities etc.

Honestly from friends who are single longer, it gets a lot less fun. In your 20s being single is the norm and you meet a ton of ppl and it's easy to date.


35 is too old for the woman as it's advance maternal age, the guy can wait but the woman can't, 30 is the latest for woman to start according to science


Wealthy women can afford IVF, adoption & surrogacy.


Maybe adoption but if you are looking to have your own kids start by 30 for the woman, it's not a debate it's facts and science
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:43     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Men age much worse because they lose their hair (which looks horrible and sometimes even grotesque) and do no skincare. I will definitely encourage my boys to marry in their 20s well before their hairline starts going.


Mans sperm work past 50 woman's womb not past 34


What does that have to do with anything? Who wants to raise kids with a balding old man? Women with options marry men close in age to them.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:43     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Let me tell you something that’s going to blow your mind: not all of us live everyday of our lives in pursuit of pleasing men.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:42     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It strikes the right balance. You get to enjoy college, grad school, couple years of work and citu living and going out a lot and getting some work / life / relationship experience in your 20s. Meet someone in your late 20s, get married at 30, have a few yrs to travel and enjoy before kids by/around 35 so you aren't that old at the start and duration of the parenting journey. Hope grandparents are retired so have time to help but not too old to be able to do so.

I am 40 and most of my friends got married between 30-33. Those were the peak years of weddings for us. We are lawyers and all our friends are professionals, most went to grad schools, live in major cities etc.

Honestly from friends who are single longer, it gets a lot less fun. In your 20s being single is the norm and you meet a ton of ppl and it's easy to date.


35 is too old for the woman as it's advance maternal age, the guy can wait but the woman can't, 30 is the latest for woman to start according to science


Wealthy women can afford IVF, adoption & surrogacy.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:41     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Men age much worse because they lose their hair (which looks horrible and sometimes even grotesque) and do no skincare. I will definitely encourage my boys to marry in their 20s well before their hairline starts going.


Mans sperm work past 50 woman's womb not past 34


Funny, every woman I know had kids after 36. And we are middle class so it’s unlikely IVF was involved.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:40     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


And?
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:40     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Men age much worse because they lose their hair (which looks horrible and sometimes even grotesque) and do no skincare. I will definitely encourage my boys to marry in their 20s well before their hairline starts going.


Mans sperm work past 50 woman's womb not past 34
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:40     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:It strikes the right balance. You get to enjoy college, grad school, couple years of work and citu living and going out a lot and getting some work / life / relationship experience in your 20s. Meet someone in your late 20s, get married at 30, have a few yrs to travel and enjoy before kids by/around 35 so you aren't that old at the start and duration of the parenting journey. Hope grandparents are retired so have time to help but not too old to be able to do so.

I am 40 and most of my friends got married between 30-33. Those were the peak years of weddings for us. We are lawyers and all our friends are professionals, most went to grad schools, live in major cities etc.

Honestly from friends who are single longer, it gets a lot less fun. In your 20s being single is the norm and you meet a ton of ppl and it's easy to date.


35 is too old for the woman as it's advance maternal age, the guy can wait but the woman can't, 30 is the latest for woman to start according to science
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:39     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30


Men age much worse because they lose their hair (which looks horrible and sometimes even grotesque) and do no skincare. I will definitely encourage my boys to marry in their 20s well before their hairline starts going.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:37     Subject: married by 30
Op, why post with something you've made up?
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:37     Subject: married by 30
Women looks and womb go south and fall apart after 30
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:35     Subject: married by 30
IF you can find a great mate in your 20s and are both mature enough to marry this is obviously the best thing. All of the teeth gnashing ultimately boils down to one or both of those things not being true. But if they are, of course it’s better to marry young. Better for money, better for fertility odds, and better for having more years with the love of your life.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:31     Subject: married by 30
Wouldn't you end up lonely as chances of finding good mates goes down with age due to lower availability?

I support staying single if you don't find true love or are ready for marriage but old age loneliness can be a problem.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2023 13:27     Subject: married by 30
Anonymous wrote:If you have kids really late, there is a big generational gap making relationship difficult for them.


My parents (they are the same age) had kids from ages 31-39. They were exhausted by childrearing by the time he was in MS & checked out.