Men like dependent women, who have their children and then have no choice but to stay.

Women with options have standards.

^ lost youth

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Anonymous wrote:Why do these men do things that make women divorce them? What’s up with todays college-educated man?

They sleep around and drink in high school and college and when life isn’t giving them highs they resort to bad behavior thinking they can handle it or get away with it. Same for women.

Or actually the reverse. They watch others do all this stuff in high school or college and then have a midlife crisis.

Most hate getting old and at midlife are wistful for “the stud” they once were in their 20s so mid 40s, married 2 decades with kids they go searching for their lost use and an escape an hour or so a week with someone that doesn’t know all their flaws, failures and broken dreams. Someone to blow some smoke up their @ss. When they affair down they get a woman working triple time just lucky she can bang someone out of her league.

Anonymous wrote:If this statistic is even remotely true, it’s a really sad statement on the number of women without college degrees who must be stuck in bad marriages because they can’t easily divorce.

Women without college degrees are not getting married.

If this statistic is even remotely true, it’s a really sad statement on the number of women without college degrees who must be stuck in bad marriages because they can’t easily divorce.

Anonymous wrote:I think disillusionment is more common in this cohort than in others.

Yes, because:

- they can make their own money, and they know it;

- they dated around more during college, so they know they are desired by many men;

- they know how to access divorce lawyers / more likely to afford one;

- they probably know one or more friends who’ve gotten divorced/ they have support;

- they took feminism 101 and have secretly looked down on men ever since;

- they listen to NPR and/or read the WaPo (or similar) and those sources constantly deride American men.

Next.

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Anonymous wrote:Lol it’s not that they can’t handle it. It’s that they have enough income to have other options when things go south. And yes, some men don’t like that. See Steven Crowder.

This. They have the jobs and financial possibility to leave the men who dont pull their weight as partners.

+1 you treat me or our kids badly, we're out

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Men need to pull their weight. Luckily these women are raising boys too, whether they are single or stay married. This way my daughters will have some good options that don't lead to divorce when they're ready.

Men are raised by women so look at why the women are doing such a poor job.

Men and women are raised by parents. And extended family and community

Often in divorce, mom's get custody and if they share, often they withhold visits/contact.

No one gets full custody anymore without good reason. Even addicts get 50/50. People also q withhold money. I know people waiting on 10 years of back payments

Anonymous wrote:Odd. One would think they would be positioned to make better choices.

That is the better choice they’re making. They’re in a position where they can afford not to have stay married to a POS.

Anonymous wrote:Why do these men do things that make women divorce them? What’s up with todays college-educated man?

Sometimes it the women who cheat, have anger issues, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Lol it’s not that they can’t handle it. It’s that they have enough income to have other options when things go south. And yes, some men don’t like that. See Steven Crowder.

This. They have the jobs and financial possibility to leave the men who dont pull their weight as partners.

+1 you treat me or our kids badly, we're out

+1
Men need to pull their weight. Luckily these women are raising boys too, whether they are single or stay married. This way my daughters will have some good options that don't lead to divorce when they're ready.

Men are raised by women so look at why the women are doing such a poor job.

Men and women are raised by parents. And extended family and community

Often in divorce, mom's get custody and if they share, often they withhold visits/contact.

Odd. One would think they would be positioned to make better choices.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do these men do things that make women divorce them? What’s up with todays college-educated man?

They sleep around and drink in high school and college and when life isn’t giving them highs they resort to bad behavior thinking they can handle it or get away with it. Same for women.

Or actually the reverse. They watch others do all this stuff in high school or college and then have a midlife crisis.

Anonymous wrote:Why do these men do things that make women divorce them? What’s up with todays college-educated man?

They sleep around and drink in high school and college and when life isn’t giving them highs they resort to bad behavior thinking they can handle it or get away with it. Same for women.

Why do these men do things that make women divorce them? What’s up with todays college-educated man?

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Anonymous wrote:Lol it’s not that they can’t handle it. It’s that they have enough income to have other options when things go south. And yes, some men don’t like that. See Steven Crowder.

This. They have the jobs and financial possibility to leave the men who dont pull their weight as partners.

+1 you treat me or our kids badly, we're out

+1
Men need to pull their weight. Luckily these women are raising boys too, whether they are single or stay married. This way my daughters will have some good options that don't lead to divorce when they're ready.

Men are raised by women so look at why the women are doing such a poor job.

Men and women are raised by parents. And extended family and community